Any unsexy ladies interested?

[wyldechylde]

Any real women who would like to chat, e-mail, meet or whatever else? Don't have to be sexy, big breasted, makeup encrusted or skinny. If you're a lady who likes to chat, have fun, can put up with lame jokes and lots and lots of stories about my daughter than pm me.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

Oh that'll get you ass. Insult the entire board. Great. Grand. Wonderful.

 

[wyldechylde]

No what's insulting is posting that you only want "sexy" women whatever the hell that means. I see so many threads that say shit like "sexy woman for guy in..." or "Interested in hot women..." Please, you really think THAT'S going to get them knocking your door down? Give me a break. Threres a ton of women out there that may or may not fall into your ideal category of "hot" or "sexy" that would be great lovers or even friends but if you want to come across as being shallow and exclude of them be my fucking guest.

You take your love dolls and play over there I'll take a real woman thank you very much.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

It's sad really. You think you're being clever, and you might even mean well, but you just lack the common sense to choose the right wording. Most women aren't going to even click on this because of the insulting tagline.

You have to be very careful how you say things. If you're not holding women to physical standards, the best way to say it is to say nothing specific and let your openness speak volumes. Saying you want an average woman isn't wise because it gives the impression that you're judging women based on their looks and that you have set boundaries (also that you might be settling for less than what you'd prefer). When you say you want 'unsexy' women, you've really just committed a grievous error. Even if you meant well, you've delivered your message in what's probably the worst possible way.

Lit is far more accepting than most personals sites. 'Sexy' on here is understood to encompass more than just looks... it encompasses a person's sexuality and their sexual identity.

Thanks for the comment about the love dolls by the way. I appreciate that.

 

[sinfuldeelightz]

I actually don't think there was anything wrong with you line...it got my attention because I am not one of the skinny women that turn sideways and disappear. I'm a bigger woman who does have larger breasts ;-) but I get sick of everyone always saying the skinnier the better. What's wrong with having a little meat on your bones? I'd love to talk to you if you are still looking.

 

[wyldechylde]

Yeah actually I am on the lookout for a woman to talk to, I'm fond of telling people that I'm a sucker for a good conversation. Larger women are definatly more my "type" so to speak and I get a little bored by women that are skinny, all into fasion or just seem spend all their money and time trying to look "perfect" whatever the hell that means. I like women who accept how they look and try to meet people based on their personality, interests or hobbies. Theres more to a relationship than sex and theres more to a woman than (awesome in your case) tits.

 

[carrie-on]

It caught my attention too...if only to see what he had to say! I am a lrge breasted woman also who loves to chat. I think though,that I am very sexy!

 

[Missingmeds]

It caught my attention too...if only to see what he had to say! I am a lrge breasted woman also who loves to chat. I think though,that I am very sexy!

I have to agree with you carrie-on. And I find it somewhat funny that the only one objecting to his title or post is male. Maybe Wolf, you need to turn it down a notch and let the women of lit decide for ourselves what we consider insults and what we don't.

 

[wyldechylde]

Its great that you think you are sexy and not because you fit the visual stereotypes that are all over the place. I remember when the "Simple Life" first came on tv I couldn't tell Paris Hilton apart from Nicole Richie and I keep thinking Jessica Simpson is Britney Spears, its sickening really. Its time women started accepting those things about them that help them stand out instead of blend in. We all have traits that help us stand apart from everyone in the crowd and to me thats what makes us attractive, women that have a little around the middle, large breasts, long hair (perfect for pulling on), tattoos, no makeup or even purple hair all add to a woman's attractiveness as far as I'm concerned.

 

[beingbrave]

It caught my attention too...if only to see what he had to say! I am a lrge breasted woman also who loves to chat. I think though,that I am very sexy!

what makes you think wyldechylde is male?

 

[Missingmeds]

what makes you think wyldechylde is male?

Ummm...because that is what his profile says he is....

 

[KnightWing]

It caught my attention too...if only to see what he had to say! I am a lrge breasted woman also who loves to chat. I think though,that I am very sexy!

Yes you are, darlin'!!!

 

[KnightWing]

Ummm...because that is what his profile says he is....

Good morning MM,,,,

 

[Recidiva]

This thread made me smile

 

[RA9T]

Tagged. This is interesting...

 

[Missingmeds]

Good morning MM,,,,

Good morning to you too, KnightWing.

 

[ca_mature]

Am also looking

Any real women who would like to chat, e-mail, meet or whatever else? Don't have to be sexy, big breasted, makeup encrusted or skinny. If you're a lady who likes to chat, have fun, can put up with lame jokes and lots and lots of stories about my daughter than pm me.

I think that there are women out there.. who don't necessarily want to be used or looked at as a sex object. There is more to this forum than just sex, I hope.

I myself am also looking to find someone to write to and maybe chat with. So.. I hope you have luck on your quest...

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

In my opinion.... sexy is a state of mind, a presentation of yourself that has nothing to do with what you look like. Every woman on this board is sexy, so there's no need to call for the ones who are not.

 

[kara_CM]

it caught my attention too. i have some curves and i am sexier today then i was when i was a little tiny thing.

 

[RA9T]

it caught my attention too. i have some curves and i am sexier today then i was when i was a little tiny thing.

Curves are nice.

Skinny chicks look sickly and malnourshed.

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

Curves are nice.

Skinny chicks look sickly and malnourshed.

lol, I think a lot of them ARE malnourished.

 

[fergus4]

Curves are nice.

Skinny chicks look sickly and malnourshed.

Agreed.

It has been more than one woman I've seen where I've said to myself "wow, she could REALLY use a sandwich."

fergus

 

[Recidiva]

I think comfort is sexy. Happy in your own skin.

I don't like people that suffer for beauty. If you're naturally beautiful, fabulous for you, honey.

But don't suffer, please. Makes me nervous.

 

[Onanymous]

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[angelsin]