Ok we have been trying to meet other hot bi couples and sexy singles here for almost a year. We have NEVER actually met anyone. What is the deal, do most of you just want to flirt online ? if you are a real couple/person who want to meet , please contact us. I promise you will feel like the luckiest person in the world
Any real people here?
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All these views and no responses. This tells me that most of you people are not really into actual meetings, you prefer the secrecy of the net.. A harmless bit of flirtation. This is not a bad thing, in fact it's kind of cool. It's just not what we are looking for. We prefere to live out our fantasies.
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Hi mate
We too like to live out our fantasies, but unfrotunately we're too far away to join you, and as you say it is fun.
It is difficult to meet people from the net, as you so rightly assume, most are dreamers, some are idiots, and some, well best not say.
Have you done much in the way of swinging and the like, or are you just trying to get into it.???
We too like to live out our fantasies, but unfrotunately we're too far away to join you, and as you say it is fun.
It is difficult to meet people from the net, as you so rightly assume, most are dreamers, some are idiots, and some, well best not say.
Have you done much in the way of swinging and the like, or are you just trying to get into it.???
Yes, we have been into the swing thing for a while. We have had a few good experiences. To be honest we thought that if we wanted to have great experiences we would post an add here since we have read so many hot stories about it. i guess it is all theory and no practice. bummer
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gotwaves said:
I have met soemone from lit, and went really well. But... a lot of the views that you're getting are from people who live nowhere near you. Some people are just lurking. Also... your post doesn't tell me *why* I would want to meet you, or for what purpose. I, for one, prefer to talk to someone online for a while before agreeing to meet. Many people feel that way for safety and other reasons.
Good luck on your quest... too bad I'm so far away.
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I am real................ and meeting can be ...well hot...to say the least
I am real................ and meeting can be ...well hot...to say the least
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I think a vast majority of people here are more talk than action. Not all, mind you, but a very large percentage.
For most of the guys...eh, if there was even the most remote chance of getting laid, they'd probably follow through and show up if given a "when" and "where." The women, on the other hand, I think are more selective. I think the women have more fun with the teasing and playful seduction of pure chat. And for that small number that actually are interested in and willing to meet other Lit members, you have to realize that they're still people. Chances of them meeting you (whether you're a single male, a single female, or a couple) and jumping into a naked mix once introductions are out of the way are slim.
But there are definitely real people on Lit and many of them have met with other Lit members. What happens when they meet, I can't say, since I can't speak from experience. (Though, given what this site is all about, you can probably guess the encounters go either one way or another, which is to say "all the way" or "not at all.") However, as was already pointed out, location plays a major factor in meeting. I don't imagine most people would travel any great distance for just sex. And, of course, for it to be anything more than sex, you'd have to know the person for a length of time online and over the phone, so that you can develop a friendship and feel comfortable enough (and motivated) to do extensive traveling for the purpose of meeting the individual.
Be patient. It may pay off.
For most of the guys...eh, if there was even the most remote chance of getting laid, they'd probably follow through and show up if given a "when" and "where." The women, on the other hand, I think are more selective. I think the women have more fun with the teasing and playful seduction of pure chat. And for that small number that actually are interested in and willing to meet other Lit members, you have to realize that they're still people. Chances of them meeting you (whether you're a single male, a single female, or a couple) and jumping into a naked mix once introductions are out of the way are slim.
But there are definitely real people on Lit and many of them have met with other Lit members. What happens when they meet, I can't say, since I can't speak from experience. (Though, given what this site is all about, you can probably guess the encounters go either one way or another, which is to say "all the way" or "not at all.") However, as was already pointed out, location plays a major factor in meeting. I don't imagine most people would travel any great distance for just sex. And, of course, for it to be anything more than sex, you'd have to know the person for a length of time online and over the phone, so that you can develop a friendship and feel comfortable enough (and motivated) to do extensive traveling for the purpose of meeting the individual.
Be patient. It may pay off.
i would defenitely agree with the location thing
ive seen all of one female from my area post, and guess how many people from lit ive met
1
i still see her off and on, but i have never seen another female from seattle post
i travel fairly often, so ill occasionally see if there is anybody around from those areas, but you do often times run into women who just want to flirt and do nothing serious.
ill probably be down near san diego sometime in the next year, maybe ill say hi then *Grin*
ive seen all of one female from my area post, and guess how many people from lit ive met
1
i still see her off and on, but i have never seen another female from seattle post
i travel fairly often, so ill occasionally see if there is anybody around from those areas, but you do often times run into women who just want to flirt and do nothing serious.
ill probably be down near san diego sometime in the next year, maybe ill say hi then *Grin*
Believe me, I've been theregotwaves said:
I've found this place to be like most other online personals....lots of views of your ad, a few contacts from it, and of those contacts, some who will never show anyway, and some you decide you don't want to meet.
We've looked at hundreds of posts on other sites, responded to many, and only actually met up with a few...but that could be because we're picky about who we meet.
Keep at it, and try some of the other services too.
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