Any real gentleman out there?

[spicyhot1]

Hi there! I have been looking, reading from the personals and I started to wonder if they are any men just wanting to get to know the person first and work up the friendship. I feel if it is done this way, I have a better connection with the person and therefore able to open up my sensual side. I know this is for erotic exchange, but you never know, I may get lucky and find someone who is lookng for the same thing.

I had a couple of threads that I started a long while ago and just couldn't connect or it wasn't the right time.

What I am looking for: Men between the ages of 20-48, love tall men (not a big must), able to carry a conversation.

What I am NOT looking for: Anybody who sends me a one liner or just wants to play one time...I will not reply. If I receive a picture of your cock, I will not reply. If you start talking dirty from the get go...I will delete.

Sorry I am being so picky but I really want someone who will pay attention to me not only as a cyber playmate but also as a person. I don't really get the any attention here at home which is why I am looking for an outlet.

If you want to know more about me, see my profile or my thread back in February. Or if you are interested, have any suggestions, want to get to know more about me, send me a PM.

 

[sventastic]

What I am looking for: Men between the ages of 20-48, love tall men (not a big must), able to carry a conversation.

What I am NOT looking for: Anybody who sends me a one liner or just wants to play one time...I will not reply. If I receive a picture of your cock, I will not reply. If you start talking dirty from the get go...I will delete.

Thankfully, the what you're looking for versus what you don't want have enough separation to limit the pool of lucky applicants on here, unless everyone fancies themselves as being in possession of the gift of the gab (or the typing equivalent thereof!)

Sven

 

[spicyhot1]

Wanted to say good afternoon, good evening to all and hope everybody is enjoying the weekend. Weather is BEAUTIFUL here but unfortunately, I have to stay in and sleep and then work tonight. Hopefully, I will hear from some of you. Besos to all of you!

 

[Tackybob32]

Spivey,
I could not agree more with your sentiments. The mind is the most sensual part of the body. If you cannot connect mentally the you might as well masturbate. My objection to your post is that you limit your age group. I think you would find some older gentlemen more in tune with your desire for mental connection than the you ger group. And speaking f,or myself, the old gents frequently have as much or, more stamina than the younger guys.
Tackybob32

 

[spicyhot1]

Thank you Tackybob for the input. I may consider it sometime. A secret I will tell all of you. I have issues with older men because of a horrible childhood. So please do not take offense if you are older and I do not respond.

Sincerely,

M.

 

[spicyhot1]

Ok bedtime for me. Will be on later this evening. Box is getting pretty full but I don't have time to go through and delete them. If you cannot send a PM, just send me a message here that you would like to PM me and I will respond by PM letting you know that PM is available. Or....if you'd like, you can just message me here on the thread and will try to respond by PM.

Also, when I receive a PM, I always look at your profile. If there is nothing there, please, let me a little info about yourself.

Besos!

 

[Tackybob32]

Childhood

Spicy,

I understand, once burnt twice shy. I just hope that you can get over that bad experience, as I know there are some good people out here in the Netherlands.

Bon

 

[WingsFan71]

Hello.

Interested in a little light chat, myself. Feel free to check out my profile and if you are interested let me know.

 

[cliteatingman]

Hi Babe, I think I can hold up my end of conversation. PM me if you are iinterested

 

[spicyhot1]

Hi all! I want to apologize for not responding to some of you. I was sick in bed all day and now I am up, although I still feel sick. You are not forgotten or ignored...just couldn't sit at the computer for very long. NOw, off to work I go!

Hope everybody has a great Monday!

Besitos!

 

[spicyhot1]

Just wanted to say hello to all you ladies and gentlemen out there and thank you for the get well wishes. Feelilng much better now but still on some heavy duty meds. Hope everyone is having fun tonight!

 

[Bbb13]

Just wanted to say hello to all you ladies and gentlemen out there and thank you for the get well wishes. Feelilng much better now but still on some heavy duty meds. Hope everyone is having fun tonight!

50 here

 

[DonovanCrane]

Hope you're having some fun, as well; keeping in good spirits will support and aide in everything your meds are doing, so do something to give yourself a magnificent positive charge.

 

[sean861]

Spicy,

Hello there, I'm a 26 year old married professional. I would also consider myself a lurker on here. I get a kick out of some of the postings and turned on by some of them too. I'd love to get to know you better over a light chat. I like to think that I can carry on a conversation pretty well with just about anyone. If you like, shoot me a pm and we can chat some. If not, no worries and have fun!

 

[Blue_Headband]

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[spicyhot1]

Hope you're having some fun, as well; keeping in good spirits will support and aide in everything your meds are doing, so do something to give yourself a magnificent positive charge.

Thank you for your kind words. Have set myself for a date at an all day spa tomorrow. That should give me a positive charge...you think?

 

[spicyhot1]

Good to see you're doing OK! Looking forward to hearing back from you

I'll be here! I can't remember if I responded to you but please let me know as I have deleted most of my messages.

 

[spicyhot1]

Spicy,

Hello there, I'm a 26 year old married professional. I would also consider myself a lurker on here. I get a kick out of some of the postings and turned on by some of them too. I'd love to get to know you better over a light chat. I like to think that I can carry on a conversation pretty well with just about anyone. If you like, shoot me a pm and we can chat some. If not, no worries and have fun!

Definitely having fun but a bit overwhelming. As far as some of these postings...wow! hope you are having fun too! Have a good one!

 

[spicyhot1]

Just wanted to say good morning and good afternoon to all you ladies and gentlemen. I quit smoking 3 days ago, today being my 3rd day and it totally sucks! But I have to, have to do this even if I become a psycho bitch at home. So I am typing this so that my fingers have something else to do. No, not naughty things but need to keep my hands and fingers busy for a while. So...hope you all are well.

M.

 

[PhilWill]

Mornin M. Your posts are refreshing. I completely understand your wants and desires. I hopr you ultimately find what you are looking for. Congrats on giving up smoking. I know it's tough but hang in there.

 

[spicyhot1]

Mornin M. Your posts are refreshing. I completely understand your wants and desires. I hopr you ultimately find what you are looking for. Congrats on giving up smoking. I know it's tough but hang in there.

Thank you Phil for your support and understanding. I have been pleasantly surprised that there are men out there looking for the same. Some...not pleasantly surprised but then again, no suprise there.

 

[C5MiGuy]

There's a few things that contribute to us guys (especially online) not being gentleman - or being not perceived as such. Firstly, it's online. This causes 2 general problems - one being the inability to pick up on someone's tone or inflection and easily misinterpreting how they really meant something. And two, anonymity. That's not just limited to guys, but it's easy to be a complete dick/bitch/whatever, because there's no repercussion to being one. It's easily justified as just words on a screen, and if the other person doesn't like it, well they can just put me on ignore, and I will find someone else.

Also, most guys aren't "shoppers." They see something, they want something, they get something. They don't want to try it on, look at it from 17 different angles, compare it to 20 other things, and then decide if it's right or not. So, forget the first. You're a female, you're on a sex site, so in their mind, you obviously want to skip to the end, and just be a whore for them. Combine this with the online aspect, and it's a recipe for douchbaggery at its finest. Except for me of course.

 

[Beefplease]

Gentlemen.....be it online or offline they dont exist anymore. You see they all got purged in a crusade.

 

[408w]

There's a few things that contribute to us guys (especially online) not being gentleman - or being not perceived as such. Firstly, it's online. This causes 2 general problems - one being the inability to pick up on someone's tone or inflection and easily misinterpreting how they really meant something. And two, anonymity. That's not just limited to guys, but it's easy to be a complete dick/bitch/whatever, because there's no repercussion to being one. It's easily justified as just words on a screen, and if the other person doesn't like it, well they can just put me on ignore, and I will find someone else.

Also, most guys aren't "shoppers." They see something, they want something, they get something. They don't want to try it on, look at it from 17 different angles, compare it to 20 other things, and then decide if it's right or not. So, forget the first. You're a female, you're on a sex site, so in their mind, you obviously want to skip to the end, and just be a whore for them. Combine this with the online aspect, and it's a recipe for douchbaggery at its finest. Except for me of course.

I see what you did there..lol

To op I'm always up to make a friend, or someone you can vent too.

 

[phi1994]

good look on quiting smoking i bet you do fine just think everyday that goes by that 1 more day closer to quiting