Any other "Side" guys here ?

Underrick

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I've just heard this term in the past couple of years. You're neither a "top" nor a "bottom ", so you're a "side". Which means you have no interest in anal penetrative sex.
Describes me perfectly. I love masturbation, mutual masturbation, circle jerks and love giving and receiving oral. But I have no interest in anal. In my younger years I did both bottom and top a few times, but it did nothing for me. No, I didn't have a bad experience. It simply doesn't turn me on
 
I've just heard this term in the past couple of years. You're neither a "top" nor a "bottom ", so you're a "side". Which means you have no interest in anal penetrative sex.
Describes me perfectly. I love masturbation, mutual masturbation, circle jerks and love giving and receiving oral. But I have no interest in anal. In my younger years I did both bottom and top a few times, but it did nothing for me. No, I didn't have a bad experience. It simply doesn't turn me on
I've always felt that there should be a term for guys like me who are orally sub but adverse to being sodomized My aversion to receiving anal is almost phoebic. The term bottom doesn't fit.
 
I've just heard this term in the past couple of years. You're neither a "top" nor a "bottom ", so you're a "side". Which means you have no interest in anal penetrative sex.
Describes me perfectly. I love masturbation, mutual masturbation, circle jerks and love giving and receiving oral. But I have no interest in anal. In my younger years I did both bottom and top a few times, but it did nothing for me. No, I didn't have a bad experience. It simply doesn't turn me on
This is what I love about my life... I learn new things (or terms) every day I am alive! Thanks for the education as I had never heard the term before.
Just for the record, I am a happy bottom!
 
This is what I love about my life... I learn new things (or terms) every day I am alive! Thanks for the education as I had never heard the term before.
Just for the record, I am a happy bottom!
For example, I today learned that Escierto is actually older than I am. I envisioned him as a 35-40 year old! GOD bless you my friend!!!
 
For example, I today learned that Escierto is actually older than I am. I envisioned him as a 35-40 year old! GOD bless you my friend!!!
Thanks for the well wishes. Truth. My girlfriend is going to be 39 and I am almost twice her age. Oddly enough, we relate to one another as though we are the same age. Or as if it doesn't matter anyway.
 
I guess I’m a “side”. First of all, I’ve never fucked an ass, male or female. Never appealed to me. But pussy and mouths, you bet I’ve enjoyed my fill! As for my “giving” role, I’ve been a total cum slut cock sucker for 50 years. In all that time, I’ve been penetrated three times. Once by my original “trainer”, and twice by guys when I participated in group activities. My preference (and I let people know before an encounter) is to suck cock - no reciprocation required but never turned down). If I can pleasure a man’s cock for him and he rewards me with his cum, that’s good enough for me. After we part, I’ll often masturbate thinking about the encounter.
 
just when I thought I had all the acronyms down they start tossing new one in or I just completely missed this on. When I was on Squirt... they had a list so we could fill out your profile and not get flooded with people that didn't have your interests.
That said.. I have met more than a hand-full of men NOT into anal penetration... though they didn't mind rimming... figure that one out
 
I've just heard this term in the past couple of years. You're neither a "top" nor a "bottom ", so you're a "side". Which means you have no interest in anal penetrative sex.
Describes me perfectly. I love masturbation, mutual masturbation, circle jerks and love giving and receiving oral. But I have no interest in anal. In my younger years I did both bottom and top a few times, but it did nothing for me. No, I didn't have a bad experience. It simply doesn't turn me on
Isn't that just called on Oral Bottom, or Oral Versatile? To me the term "side" refers to someone outside of your normal relationship, such as a 'side chick" you fuck without your wife knowing about her.
 
Well, now that you put it that way I suppose so. But perhaps oral bottom or oral top is too specific. To me being a "side" implies that one is into everything except anal penetrative sex. But yes, I could describe myself as oral versatile.
By the way, I love your pink lingerie !
 
Kind of. I can often enjoy the fantasy of anal sex.
But the reality doesn’t do it for me.

I get this. I've never been with a guy, but I've used toys and dildos for decades. Anal penetration can be incredibly pleasurable, but wow, there's a huge learning curve ( at least there was for me.) And EVERYTHING has to be just right, as far as being "ready" for it, proper lubing, slow and gradual, right technique, etc.

At least from my anal experience, I can imagine that it would be pretty common for the real thing to be unpleasant if everything wasn't right.
 
Well, now that you put it that way I suppose so. But perhaps oral bottom or oral top is too specific. To me being a "side" implies that one is into everything except anal penetrative sex. But yes, I could describe myself as oral versatile.
By the way, I love your pink lingerie !
Thanks! If you are ever on the East coast, stop by and I will do some modeling for you! I have quite a collection of panties, thongs and other assorted ladies garments!!!
 
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