hornyprogrammer
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I've had many chats with just such a mom and would to hear from more of you.
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I've had many chats with just such a mom and would to hear from more of you.
I've had many chats with just such a mom and would to hear from more of you.
I've had many chats with just such a mom and would to hear from more of you.
Do you mean dominating in sports? I can imagine mothers being impressed by their son's physical athletic prowess to a point where it begins to stir something deep down within them that societal norms force them to suppress.
In general, this seems completely counterintuitive. A mother should want her son to succeed. I can only see this as a weird codependent relationship, because the mother wants to help her son. She actually does not want her son to mature and leave the nest. Her son failing excites her, because it confirms that he is not ready to face the world.
This is pretty seriously fucked up and disturbing in many ways. Wanting her son to fail is wrong.
I don't judge people's kinks, because I accept the fact that people are full of weirdness and darkness and that's the way it is and it's better to accept it than to judge it, especially in a realm where people are just writing stories and indulging fantasies.
That said, as a parent I have a hard time understanding this fantasy and where it comes from. It's one thing to alter the power dynamic with a spouse and want to see a husband humiliated. I get that. But one's child? I'm fascinated by where this comes from.
Refer you to post #6. It's not necessarily the case that the mother wants her son to be hurt in any way. I think it's more the 'rutting dynamic' of males locking horns in (unstated) pursuit of mating rights. As I said, it would work particularly well if the mother and son were already in a sexual relationship and the son is now vanquished by a superior male of presumably the same sort of age.
I read it, but I have a hard time transferring the dynamic from wife-husband to mother-son. Obviously, for a few it's not hard, but I can't quite see it. Not judging, just not wholly getting it. But that's OK!
Everyone seems to be taking it as the competing males model, with the son standing in for the husband. That could lead to a rather Freudian transference model, of course, but consider another possibility.
The turn-on is the humiliation the woman feels for having failed so miserably in reproduction. That brings in a whole new dynamic, far from the vying machos model.
But is it an erotic dynamic? Your comment misses the point, I suspect.
You describe this as a humiliation, which it may well be - but it's hardly the case that all humiliation has an erotic dimension and therefore a "turn on", as you describe it.
It's part of the humiliation fetish. Of all the people in the world, Mim is supposed to be the one person you can always rely on to help and comfort you.
Dad can leave, wives can cheat or leave. Mom is not supposed to do anything to hurt her offspring. At least in an ideal world.
So having a mom betray her son is the ultimate humiliation. For those who geta sexual thrill from being humiliated, and have an oedupus complex Mom is the ideal person to betray her sons trust.
Mom is not supposed to do anything to hurt her offspring. At least in an ideal world.