I'm a very large/fat woman who prefers the same in her man. I am not offended or insulted by the word fat, it's what I am. It's just a description, like short or tall or thin. I'm 50 and live in NY. I prefer large/fat men because I love to cuddle and touch, plus we start out with a certain understanding of each other's experiences. I'd like to email or chat and see what develops. I'm conservative on the outside with passion raging within.