Hey Catfightfan..... I'm no ladies man myself but here is a little tip that may come in handy.
In order to get a lady's attention instead of just writing down "shoot me a PM" put little more effort into it. Like write down briefly what you like? Perhaps you like role playing, if so, give them a sample or two. If you're into fat chicks, say so. Whatever you may be into, showcase it. Let the ladies know what you like. This is a great place to meet at least one gal who fancy your interest, no matter what that may be.