Any Ideas

[MillieDynamite]

Okay, I have an email from a fan on the site that left me scratching my head. I'm not sure he read the story, but he claimed to have loved my incest short story, Forbidden Passions in a Darkened Room (but the title on the site is Forbidden Passions in a Dark Room). Claiming it remined him of his own experiences in a Darkroom (which has nothing to do with my story). He then lamented digital vs film and the loss of the intimacy of film. Topping off the email with a request for some nice pictures of me, nude ones if I didn't mind.

Any got a suggestion of how to respond to this in some nice way? Because what I typed out, wasn't nice but I deleted it and haven't responded to him.

 

[SimonDoom]

Okay, I have an email from a fan on the site that left me scratching my head. I'm not sure he read the story, but he claimed to have loved my incest short story, Forbidden Passions in a Darkened Room (but the title on the site is Forbidden Passions in a Dark Room). Claiming it remined him of his own experiences in a Darkroom (which has nothing to do with my story). He then lamented digital vs film and the loss of the intimacy of film. Topping off the email with a request for some nice pictures of me, nude ones if I didn't mind.

Any got a suggestion of how to respond to this in some nice way? Because what I typed out, wasn't nice but I deleted it and haven't responded to him.

Tell him straight up that you will not respond to the request and don't want to receive any further similar requests. If your concern is trying to put it nicely, then just leave out anything personal about him.

 

[MillieDynamite]

Tell him straight up that you will not respond to the request and don't want to receive any further similar requests. If your concern is trying to put it nicely, then just leave out anything personal about him.

That might work.

 

[SamScribble]

Well, Millie, it sounds to me as if this fellow might just have given you the bones of your next short story. Whether or not you send him 'nice pictures', nude ones if you don't mind, is of course up to you; although, personally, I would probably keep that treat in the pantry until you get to know him a little better.

Good luck.

 

[MillieDynamite]

Well, Millie, it sounds to me as if this fellow might just have given you the bones of your next short story. Whether or not you send him 'nice pictures', nude ones if you don't mind, is of course up to you; although, personally, I would probably keep that treat in the pantry until you get to know him a little better.

Good luck.

I was thinking I could send him a picture of Eddie Murphy as Rasputia. LOL might be just his big tub of lard, I mean cup of tea.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Okay, I have an email from a fan on the site that left me scratching my head. I'm not sure he read the story, but he claimed to have loved my incest short story, Forbidden Passions in a Darkened Room (but the title on the site is Forbidden Passions in a Dark Room). Claiming it remined him of his own experiences in a Darkroom (which has nothing to do with my story). He then lamented digital vs film and the loss of the intimacy of film. Topping off the email with a request for some nice pictures of me, nude ones if I didn't mind.

Any got a suggestion of how to respond to this in some nice way? Because what I typed out, wasn't nice but I deleted it and haven't responded to him.

Whatever you do, don’t get in his car!!!!

 

[LAHomedog]

I'd go with a professional-type response, "Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Sorry, I never send pictures of any kind."

Short, sweet, and to the point. Nothing personal that engages him.

 

[MillieDynamite]

I'd go with a professional-type response, "Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Sorry, I never send pictures of any kind."

Short, sweet, and to the point. Nothing personal that engages him.

I think we have a winner.

thank you LAHomedog

 

[TadOverdon]

"I'm glad you liked my story.

The answer to your request is: No.

Please do not contact me again. If necessary, I will forward to the site administrators."

 

[ElectricBlue]

Send him a dick pic. That will shut him right the fuck up and leave him awfully confused, and you won't get bugged again.

Seriously though, don't respond at all, but if he continues, send one polite message saying, "Please don't do that," and if he (assuming it's a he, which it probably is) continues, report the account to Laurel. Just because you write on a website doesn't mean you're fair game.

Besides, if you were the kind of girl who'd send nudie pics of themselves, you'd probably have a mailing list and a button that says, press here .

 

[MillieDynamite]

Send him a dick pic. That will shut him right the fuck up and leave him awfully confused, and you won't get bugged again.

Seriously though, don't respond at all, but if he continues, send one polite message saying, "Please don't do that," and if he (assuming it's a he, which it probably is) continues, report the account to Laurel. Just because you write on a website doesn't mean you're fair game.

Besides, if you were the kind of girl who'd send nudie pics of themselves, you'd probably have a mailing list and a button that says, press here .

I'm actually very shy and socially awkward.

No, wait, that's the people I write about or for. One of those. I don't share picture with people on the internet.

 

[ElectricBlue]

I'm actually very shy and socially awkward.

Lol. I'd figured that about you, Millie. A quiet girl you could safely take home to your mother, or to meet the vicar .

 

[MillieDynamite]

Lol. I'd figured that about you, Millie. A quiet girl you could safely take home to your mother, or to meet the vicar .

Can I bring my wife with me? Would the vicar accept members into his congregation that are in same sex marriage? Your mum would love me, but worry about how bad I might treat you. Or so I'm told by some mums that know.

 

[ElectricBlue]

Can I bring my wife with me? Would the vicar accept members into his congregation that are in same sex marriage? Your mum would love me, but worry about how bad I might treat you. Or so I'm told by some mums that know.

Given that my older sister came out in 1972, long before you were even a glimmer in your grandmother's eye, I reckon Mum would have welcomed both of you with open arms. I grew up with gay women, and me mum taught in a Catholic girls high school with fair dinkum nuns, so I'm not easy to shock .

 

[TarnishedPenny]

I'd go with a professional-type response, "Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Sorry, I never send pictures of any kind."

Short, sweet, and to the point. Nothing personal that engages him.

This, maybe with, “and I don’t engage in off-line conversations.”

Mind you, pix from Rocky Horror Picture Show might be appropriate.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

You don’t have to respond at all.

I only respond to people who seem polite and interesting. If their initial message is crude or presumptuous (or even just dull), I ignore them.

 

[DanDraper]

Just don't respond at all. If you do, you'll only encourage him.

Just ignore him and eventually he'll think you're not checking your emails and give up.



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[Bramblethorn]

Okay, I have an email from a fan on the site that left me scratching my head. I'm not sure he read the story, but he claimed to have loved my incest short story, Forbidden Passions in a Darkened Room (but the title on the site is Forbidden Passions in a Dark Room). Claiming it remined him of his own experiences in a Darkroom (which has nothing to do with my story). He then lamented digital vs film and the loss of the intimacy of film. Topping off the email with a request for some nice pictures of me, nude ones if I didn't mind.

Any got a suggestion of how to respond to this in some nice way? Because what I typed out, wasn't nice but I deleted it and haven't responded to him.

Some readers have very focussed interests and will latch on to anything that even vaguely touches on them.

My first impulse in responding to unsolicited requests for nudes would be to do an image search for something like penile hematoma and then send him the pick of the results, but that may not qualify as "nice". Failing that, block (if possible) and ignore.

 

[MillieDynamite]

I sent him the, "Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Sorry, I never send pictures of any kind."

I don't know if he'll email me back, but it's a shoot down so probably not. Then again, I have a friend that has moved to Las Vegas (not NM) who constantly ask for new pics of Jo, me, mum and dad, my brother, sister, and their kids. Which I never send, as I don't get that many updates. I just follow them on my father's Facebook account. LOL

 

[ChloeTzang]

Okay, I have an email from a fan on the site that left me scratching my head. I'm not sure he read the story, but he claimed to have loved my incest short story, Forbidden Passions in a Darkened Room (but the title on the site is Forbidden Passions in a Dark Room). Claiming it remined him of his own experiences in a Darkroom (which has nothing to do with my story). He then lamented digital vs film and the loss of the intimacy of film. Topping off the email with a request for some nice pictures of me, nude ones if I didn't mind.

Any got a suggestion of how to respond to this in some nice way? Because what I typed out, wasn't nice but I deleted it and haven't responded to him.

I just don't respond to any requests for nude pictures. Ever. And anyone that emails me with those gets blocked. If someone's first email to you is something like that, you know right away where they're coming from, and they don't stop. Any reply at all just encourages them. So just cut it off right from the start. Anyone that does that has issues to start with, and you just do not want to get involved.

 

[lovecraft68]

You realize you don't have to respond at all, right?

I've written a lot of incest stories which here are fun 18+ fantasy. Most stories in I/T are that way and also consensual, as any non con there will get you fried.

But I have gotten more comments than I want to remember where people try to tell me their "real life" incest experiences, many at young ages, and some not always with full consent.

I never know if they're blowing smoke, its a fantasy they wished happened, or worse, they did it.

Personally, I don't respond to any e-mails where they go on about their real/fake experiences. I write these stories for fun, a kink I have in the fantasy sense, and for people to enjoy on that level. I don't encourage any real life behavior.

I also don't respond to people who as the OP stated, may not have even read the story. I have experienced transference in real life where people take their feelings and focus them on me because of something I represent to them, that happens here, some people take these stories too seriously and start wanting to correspond with authors and get a weird thrill out of it.

 

[DanDraper]

I sent him the, "Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Sorry, I never send pictures of any kind."

If you're going to respond, at least be nice about it. A mean response would probably get you angry messages, a nice response lets them down easily and they could move on.


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[Zeb_Carter]

Half the time the email address they leave is a fake one, although in your case it's probably a really one 'cuz he's hopin' to get a pic of you naked.

Personally, I wouldn't have responded at all.

 

[BuckyDuckman]

. . . and haven't responded to him.

This is the correct answer. His email does NOT require a response on your part. He doesn't own you or warrant any more of your time with his idiotic request.

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

I sent him the, "Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Sorry, I never send pictures of any kind."

You're way nicer than I would have been, as this guy strikes me as being a royal creep. I'm hoping he gets the hint.

If you're going to respond, at least be nice about it. A mean response would probably get you angry messages, a nice response lets them down easily and they could move on.

There's always that. Of course, if he doesn't move on and decides to press the pic issue, then I'd say a good "Fuck off!" is warranted (and maybe attaching this to the response for good measure). Just my two cents worth.