Any creative souls here?

[nyskjerrig_mann]

Plot:

I want to make a stranger hit on my wife, by email.
My idea is to find a suitable guy, give him my wifes email adress, and see if he can "heat her up" by flirting with her.

Just for fun, we have shared her before.

Finding a suitable guy is easy.
Giv him her email is easy.

But when/ if she ask him how he got her email.....what should be his excuse...?

 

[philos]

It’s not very creative but honesty is an option. “Your husband gave me your email because he thought you could help me with (problem, issue, idea).”

 

[pplwatching]

Hope to get her back into sharing.....

Are the two of you unable to communicate about what you want sexually?

 

[Bramblethorn]

Plot:

I want to make a stranger hit on my wife, by email.
My idea is to find a suitable guy, give him my wifes email adress, and see if he can "heat her up" by flirting with her.

Hope to get her back into sharing.....

Finding a suitable guy is easy.
Giv him her email is easy.

But when/ if she ask him how he got her email.....what should be his excuse...?

This is a terrible idea. Talk to your wife. USE YOUR WORDS. She's your wife, don't try to manipulate her with strangers. That sort of stunt might be cute in romantic comedy movies but in real life it just leads to people getting hurt.

 

[Snowbunnie12]

Plot:

I want to make a stranger hit on my wife, by email.
My idea is to find a suitable guy, give him my wifes email adress, and see if he can "heat her up" by flirting with her.

Hope to get her back into sharing.....

Finding a suitable guy is easy.
Giv him her email is easy.

But when/ if she ask him how he got her email.....what should be his excuse...?

If you want a woman to if love too

 

[pplwatching]

If you want a woman to if love too

https://i.imgur.com/tHu9pcv.gif

 

[nyskjerrig_mann]

Hehe, a lot of guys with moral, but lack of creativity.

Yes, I know I can talk.

The idea her was to "giv her a flirt"-oportunity.

So back to it.

Any ideas?

 

[pplwatching]

The idea her was to "giv her a flirt"-oportunity.

I am going to guess that she has plenty of opportunities to flirt. Whether or not she does, what you are talking about is intentionally deceiving her by making up a story about how he got her email. It may sound harmless, and maybe she'll see it that way. Maybe she won't.

Manipulating her so that you can get a sexual thrill may be okay in your marriage. I can only say that it would not be okay in mine, and would undermine what we have worked to build together.

Talk to her, don't manipulate her.

 

[amofiga]

It all does sound a bit high schoolish…… "go talk to Bill and tell him that Bob asked me to the prom but I told him I'll think about it and that should make Bill jealous and he'll finally ask me."

 

[Jada59]

Let me tell you what happened to me yesterday. Some guy on Discord sent me some messages. Not sexual but kind of weird. Freaked me right out. When I asked him how he found me, he replied that he was from the future. He was my husband and we had 8 kids together. Hmmm... I am still baffled as to how he found me on there. I don't use my Lit name there. I use my real first name and middle and last initials.

In the past, my ex would get a throwaway email and message me using a different name. Once he said he thought his cat was my cat's sister then went on to say where he got the cat. And what did that get him? Me, putting him on ignore.

Now maybe a man would like getting a sexy email from a stranger. I would expect that most would think it was someone wanting money.

Actually... I get a lot of Facebook requests from scammers wanting money. They pretend to be male. Leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Just don't do it. You'll either freak her out or make her angry. Maybe both.

 

[Jada59]

It all does sound a bit high schoolish…… "go talk to Bill and tell him that Bob asked me to the prom but I told him I'll think about it and that should make Bill jealous and he'll finally ask me."

Yep. When I was in Jr. High, I had female friends who were shy and afraid of boys but they had crushes on them. I'm not shy. So they'd have me call or talk to the boys about them to try to see if the boy might like them.

Every time, I begged them not to have me do it. I'd even tell them why. The guy would think *I* was interested in them. And I was right. I met a lot of guys that I wasn't interested in. And my friends got mad at me for stealing their guy.

 

[Jada59]

https://i.imgur.com/tHu9pcv.gif

Ebonics?

 

[Jada59]

Hehe, a lot of guys with moral, but lack of creativity.

Yes, I know I can talk.

The idea her was to "giv her a flirt"-oportunity.

So back to it.

Any ideas?

Can she not flirt on her own? I do, all the time. Maybe she doesn't want to.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

I will give you the benefit of the doubt and say that your intent is good.

Beyond that, unless the lady is in agreement in advance, it is tall stack of Bad Idea topped with a generous splash of Just Plain Dumb and a side order of What In Hell Was He Thinking?

Of course, if she's in on the game, it might be a great idea.

You do intend to go with informed consent, right?

 

[Shelly2inme]

I love being a shared wife but...

I love being a shared wife but your idea of "setting your wife up" would end my marriage. The idea of my husband going behind my back and trying to get me worked up is a manipulation. She is not a toy for your pleasure. Learn to be honest and open. Tell her that you like watching her fuck or whatever it is that turns you on. If she likes it good. If not then setting her up is a sick manipulation. This concept would spill over into other aspects of marriage. Take a few steps back and think about it. Make some adjustments or get ready to be single again because your marriage is going to collapse.

 

[nyskjerrig_mann]

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[nyskjerrig_mann]

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[nyskjerrig_mann]

I will give you the benefit of the doubt and say that your intent is good.

Beyond that, unless the lady is in agreement in advance, it is tall stack of Bad Idea topped with a generous splash of Just Plain Dumb and a side order of What In Hell Was He Thinking?

Of course, if she's in on the game, it might be a great idea.

You do intend to go with informed consent, right?

I love being a shared wife but your idea of "setting your wife up" would end my marriage. The idea of my husband going behind my back and trying to get me worked up is a manipulation. She is not a toy for your pleasure. Learn to be honest and open. Tell her that you like watching her fuck or whatever it is that turns you on. If she likes it good. If not then setting her up is a sick manipulation. This concept would spill over into other aspects of marriage. Take a few steps back and think about it. Make some adjustments or get ready to be single again because your marriage is going to collapse.

Already shared her Even a MMFMM. Enjoyed by both of us.

The idea in this thread was pure and intended fun. I do not need to manipulate her into something we have done before.