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From my experience, the women here are a safer bet--i.e. less likely to be other than what they were putting out there--than most women posting on regular dating sites.

The upsides:

They tend to be highly cautious, so you'll usually have a very solid series of exchanges/good feel for the kind of person she is before she shows up on your doorstep or vice versa.

They tend to be awesome in bed.

They also tend to be kinky.

They tend to be more mature and courteous than women on other dating sites.

Downsides:

While married and otherwise committed women are here for a select few reasons--they're polyamorous and are looking for thirds, they are busy professionals in bad relationships who don't have the time to play games while looking for sex, they aren't getting what they need at home, etc--single ladies who are here, looking, and serious about meeting up tend to be more of a mixed bag.

Things you might want to explore with a single woman from this site who is willing to meet up before that happens:

Why, exactly, are you here?

What has your dating history been like and what are you looking for?

What are your expectations?

What was your childhood like?

Are you currently in therapy. If you are--and you don't mind me prying further--why?

Do you feel like you are actually ready for this.

If you are looking for a LTR, do you think you are in a good place in your life to date right now?
 
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