Any advice.....

[24bigirly]

Anyone have any good websites for a woman trying to meet other women. I know some of you have posted on this before but I could not find the thread. I have been looking at the traditional sites and personals.....but they are not cutting it. Any help would be appreciated. It is soo hard to meet bisexual women......I hate the thought of replying to personals, but I need to fulfill these desires.

 

[bisexplicit]

Well, you could start with the literotica personals section.

A google search comes up with many many websites when you type in "gay personals."

This is one that advertised itself as 100% free: http://www.lesbotronic.com/

 

[Xectxny19X]

I use Craigslist.com often. Goodluck with your search!

 

[sxxyblueyes]

Try passion.com - it seems okay

 

[sxxyblueyes]

I use Craigslist.com often. Goodluck with your search!

Is craigslist for all over or just the San Francisco bay area? I don't see anything for east coast areas?

 

[Xectxny19X]

Is craigslist for all over or just the San Francisco bay area? I don't see anything for east coast areas?

Look towards the right side of craigslist.com. There should be a list of areas to click on. I'm in the east coast...so I know there's definitely a east coast section. *smiles* Goodluck!

 

[sxxyblueyes]

Look towards the right side of craigslist.com. There should be a list of areas to click on. I'm in the east coast...so I know there's definitely a east coast section. *smiles* Goodluck!

Thanks! Now I see it!! You'll have to excuse me.. I'm a little tired today

 

[Xectxny19X]

no problem. *smiles*

 

[Nirvanadragones]

Why are all the cute girls always in the States???!!!

 

[Xectxny19X]

Where are you from? I think there are cute girls everywhere, hehe. Now finding the one who has a romantic connection w/ me is another thing. *smiles*

 

[Nirvanadragones]

I'm in London right now, but travel a lot. So yeah there are cute girls everywhere, but i have to admit the women in the UK - or must of them are kinda strange. (no i'm not from Uk originally) Maybe im just used to beautiful people around me, but i feel many of them are so distant. FInd it hard to relate to them.

Oh and i agree totally on the romantic connection thing. It's hard enough finding someone who u have that mutual conection with when u are straight, but when you're gay, goodness, its probably a mirracle any of us ever get to have sex!

Where are you from? I think there are cute girls everywhere, hehe. Now finding the one who has a romantic connection w/ me is another thing. *smiles*

 

[Xectxny19X]

haha...yeah. I completely agree...we do have such a limited dating pool. Well, I think so anyway. First, they've got to like girls too...there goes 7/8 of the girl population plus 100% of the guy population, LoL. Then, they shouldn't have too many qualities about them that turns me off...there goes some out of the dating pool, etc. You understand right? So I probably having just a handful to pick from in this world probably! hehe, geeeeee!

 

[Nirvanadragones]

And then there is ofcourse the fear that she's not gay... Oh those classical moment - hehehe

haha...yeah. I completely agree...we do have such a limited dating pool. Well, I think so anyway. First, they've got to like girls too...there goes 7/8 of the girl population plus 100% of the guy population, LoL. Then, they shouldn't have too many qualities about them that turns me off...there goes some out of the dating pool, etc. You understand right? So I probably having just a handful to pick from in this world probably! hehe, geeeeee!

 

[sxxyblueyes]

And then there is ofcourse the fear that she's not gay... Oh those classical moment - hehehe

I think that's what really holds me back from approaching anyone... not knowing if she is bi/les.. I would feel like an idiot! lol

 

[kbate]

I think that's what really holds me back from approaching anyone... not knowing if she is bi/les.. I would feel like an idiot! lol

So what? Feeling like an idiot at times, is far better than wandering through life wondering, "What if?"

Had I allowed fear of rejection to stop me, I never would have asked Sarah to dinner the day I saw her and we would not be together now.

The main difference between the perpetually "bicurious" and the active "bisexual" (in my opinion) is the ability to step out of fear and seize your dreams.

 

[Pookie]

Anyone have any good websites for a woman trying to meet other women. I know some of you have posted on this before but I could not find the thread. I have been looking at the traditional sites and personals.....but they are not cutting it. Any help would be appreciated. It is soo hard to meet bisexual women......I hate the thought of replying to personals, but I need to fulfill these desires.

If you hate replying to personals, then don't. If you live in or close to a larger city, the best advice I can give you is to get out and meet people. It's a heck of a lot more fun, IMO.

 

[Nirvanadragones]

Couldn't agree more. I read somewhere on this site one of the members said:" I believe everyone is Bi until i'm told otherwise" From the moment i read that, i live and love by that rule! (No offence to homosexuals or heterosexuals)

P.s. I'm not in the mood to go to the other thread so here goes... I'm not pregnant...

So what? Feeling like an idiot at times, is far better than wandering through life wondering, "What if?"

Had I allowed fear of rejection to stop me, I never would have asked Sarah to dinner the day I saw her and we would not be together now.

The main difference between the perpetually "bicurious" and the active "bisexual" (in my opinion) is the ability to step out of fear and seize your dreams.

 

[Nirvanadragones]

Oh yes one more thing... At least because we're girls we have the added bonus of being able to start/ have a friendship if she's straight. If we want that ofcourse. I'm sure the guys can do that too, but somehow i doubt it.

Hope i'm not stepping on anyones toes...

 

[24bigirly]

agreed

I agree so much.....i ask myself at least 20 times a day...."she's cute, I wonder if she would...?"

It kills me, but I am not the type to openly ask or come out with it. Mainly, I don't think my husband would like it. He's fine with my search and obviously would love for me to finally find someone, but I don't think he wants me to flaunt it. Does that make sense?

Anyway, ,as far as going into a city and meeting new people, I live about an hour from NY which is close enough to go in and stay for the night, but thats not really what I am looking for. I would like someone closer with the hope that it could be repeated if we clicked.

I see beautiful women that I lust for daily, the "what if" is killing me. I agree whole heartedly with the fact that everyone is bi until they prove you wrong...but that doesn't seem to help.

 

[sxxyblueyes]

So what? Feeling like an idiot at times, is far better than wandering through life wondering, "What if?"

Had I allowed fear of rejection to stop me, I never would have asked Sarah to dinner the day I saw her and we would not be together now.

The main difference between the perpetually "bicurious" and the active "bisexual" (in my opinion) is the ability to step out of fear and seize your dreams.

I know.. I should try to move away from that fear, but it's hard sometimes. I'm a fairly shy person until I get to know you and for me to march up to someone and ask them out would be really hard for me..

 

[Xectxny19X]

haha...awww...can sympathize somewhat... *innocent grin*

 

[Nirvanadragones]

Guess we're all there at times... the "what if she's straight" scenario... Any advice from our oh so neighbourly commited ladies?

 

[Tymeless]

i feel you all as a person converting to the opposite gender i've got to find a woman willing to accept me as someone converting to female. but on the bright side i can't wait to be a lesbian lol