Another thought nugget from your village idiot.

[Aquila]

Im sitting here, as all too often I do. Fiddling around on the computer. at this little black desk over in the corner of my house. I have a lovely view of a little canal, and some sort of intriguing tree. theres a pond not too far off, with little ducks in it, who to my great dismay, shit everywhere.

In any case I set my "Office" up here because it soothes me, and provides me a place to think, and reflect.

And what results is the babble of a madman posted here for your enjoyment.

Now Im single, the last date I had was over a month ago, and that was with a young lady who, well, we just didnt hit it off. and 3 year stretch of singleness, sparesly interposed with a one night stand here and there.

What amazes me (the obviously failed romantic) is that women, the creatures God himself put on this earth to prove that he existed. feel in any way under appreciated. or the need to be stereo typed barbie dolls.

There is no more sensual and graceful creature on this planet than the female of the species, and for them to feel in any way un-sexy because of some inane image that the media tells them they should be is a crime.

and it saddens my black little heart.

Its not so much that, women are told these things, but that they believe them.
Why? is the only function you see yourself fullfilling, is some egotist idea of a fucktoy?

While I enjoy the act of sex as much as any human being, what point is there to the whole activity if you can not delight in someone, so fully engrossed in YOU as to have surpassed the mere touch of naked bodies?

When will you realise its not your body, but your mind and soul that needs to be made love to. and that it is those two things that is the truly sexy part of the woman.

Never mind me, this is just another badly typed brain dump to the thread. excuse as always my grahmer and spelling.. I do math, the other stuff I try to at least make myself understandable.. in some small part.

 

[lost]

That was so un-Neanderthal of you and very true.

 

[Guest]

Aqulia, I've got a story for you, if you are so inclined.

Click on the link below.

 

[Aquila]

Aqulia, I've got a story for you, if you are so inclined.

Click on the link below.

I skimmed the first page.. printing it out, gonna read it for bed time.

looks sweet.

 

[Diablogrl]

argh...just as I was beginning to think that Aquila was truly the Lit Neanderthal, he goes and writes something like that.

 

[Aquila]

argh...just as I was beginning to think that Aquila was truly the Lit Neanderthal, he goes and writes something like that.

Don't worry... Im still a black hearted bastard... its just it has an annoying habbit of beating every once in a blue moon.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

Hey, you don't live in a village.

 

[Cheyenne]

When will you realise its not your body, but your mind and soul that needs to be made love to. and that it is those two things that truly sexy part of the woman.

It took me many years, but I did finally learn that.

I'm still working on the body though... for me.

 

[Aquila]

Re: Re: Another thought nugget from your village idiot.

It took me many years, but I did finally learn that.

I'm still working on the body though... for me.

Im glad it hurts me to see women unahappy, Im a big softie sometimes.

 

[A Desert Rose]

What amazes me (the obviously failed romantic) is that women, the creatures God himself put on this earth to prove that he existed. feel in any way under appreciated. or the need to be stereo typed barbie dolls.

There is no more sensual and graceful creature on this planet than the female of the species, and for them to feel in any way un-sexy because of some inane image that the media tells them they should be is a crime.

and it saddens my black little heart.

Its not so much that, women are told these things, but that they believe them.
Why? is the only function you see yourself fullfilling, is some egotist idea of a fucktoy?

I am going to post something that will likely not be popular.

Look back at the threads- "Whos the prettiest Lit lady", "Who do I want to fuck" etc. etc. ad naseum. And you wonder why women need affirmation?

Women and men to a certain degree, are put up here as "fucktoys" by our very own threads, don't just blame the media or cinema. We do the same things here. We (both men and women) are a reflection of our society. Not a reflection of the image we are given on TV or in ads or in movies.

This is how it is, in real life but more so on the internet because we are able to be freer and more open and the consequences of our words here are much less severe to ourselves.

I notice who posts to those threads, I notice who's names are on THE lists. I am not the only one who does.

But be that as it may, we should all be allowed our fun in whatever form it comes. I don't resent or begrudge people this. But do not ignore where some of the blame goes regarding how we sometimes feel about ourselves.

 

[A Desert Rose]

LMAO

I close this thread and lo and behold----- There it is- top of the page, back again ........ hehehe......

 

[Freya]

Aquila - it's nice to hear a man say what you said. It is so very true that women (and men) are the mess they are in at times due to society's stereotypes. We're bombarded with barbie doll images of what we should look like - we're overloaded with ideals from pornos and other movies on how to behave sexually. It's no wonder that so many people have such trouble with self esteem these days.

But Rose also makes a damn good point, because as much as we hate these stereotypes we are subjected to, we also perpetuate them ourselves in so many different ways.

 

[#1tankcomander]

Re: Re: Another thought nugget from your village idiot.

I am going to post something that will likely not be popular.

Look back at the threads- "Whos the prettiest Lit lady", "Who do I want to fuck" etc. etc. ad naseum. And you wonder why women need affirmation?

Women and men to a certain degree, are put up here as "fucktoys" by our very own threads, don't just blame the media or cinema. We do the same things here. We (both men and women) are a reflection of our society. Not a reflection of the image we are given on TV or in ads or in movies.

This is how it is, in real life but more so on the internet because we are able to be freer and more open and the consequences of our words here are much less severe to ourselves.

I notice who posts to those threads, I notice who's names are on THE lists. I am not the only one who does.

But be that as it may, we should all be allowed our fun in whatever form it comes. I don't resent or begrudge people this. But do not ignore where some of the blame goes regarding how we sometimes feel about ourselves.

So true Rose! Aquila did say it in a nut shell: "your mind and soul that needs to be made love to. and that it is those two things that is the truly sexy part of the woman"!

Enough said!

 

[A Desert Rose]

Thank you

#1 and Freya for your kind words.

I am not one to make anyone's list. I even get ignored on Sandia's "Flame me" thread lol. But I don't come here to be validated as a person, a mom or a woman. I get those validations from my daily life.

I hope others get them elsewhere, too. It could be painful for some to not be the Prom Queen of Lit.....

Uhoh.... new thread coming up I bet. mmmmm Lit's Prom Queen???? How does that one sound? LMAO. It could be a poll thread.... mmmm.

 

[Freya]

Re: Thank you

#1 and Freya for your kind words.

I am not one to make anyone's list. I even get ignored on Sandia's "Flame me" thread lol. But I don't come here to be validated as a person, a mom or a woman. I get those validations from my daily life.

I hope others get them elsewhere, too. It could be painful for some to not be the Prom Queen of Lit.....

Uhoh.... new thread coming up I bet. mmmmm Lit's Prom Queen???? How does that one sound? LMAO. It could be a poll thread.... mmmm.

Oh God, I dont know if I can take not being voted on for prom queen twice in my life.

Well actually, I never went to my own prom, and don't much care to be Lit's prom queen either - so poll away Rose!

 

[littlekateyes]

Im sitting here, as all too often I do. Fiddling around on the computer. at this little black desk over in the corner of my house. I have a lovely view of a little canal, and some sort of intriguing tree. theres a pond not too far off, with little ducks in it, who to my great dismay, shit everywhere.

In any case I set my "Office" up here because it soothes me, and provides me a place to think, and reflect.

And what results is the babble of a madman posted here for your enjoyment.

Now Im single, the last date I had was over a month ago, and that was with a young lady who, well, we just didnt hit it off. and 3 year stretch of singleness, sparesly interposed with a one night stand here and there.

What amazes me (the obviously failed romantic) is that women, the creatures God himself put on this earth to prove that he existed. feel in any way under appreciated. or the need to be stereo typed barbie dolls.

There is no more sensual and graceful creature on this planet than the female of the species, and for them to feel in any way un-sexy because of some inane image that the media tells them they should be is a crime.

and it saddens my black little heart.

Its not so much that, women are told these things, but that they believe them.
Why? is the only function you see yourself fullfilling, is some egotist idea of a fucktoy?

While I enjoy the act of sex as much as any human being, what point is there to the whole activity if you can not delight in someone, so fully engrossed in YOU as to have surpassed the mere touch of naked bodies?

When will you realise its not your body, but your mind and soul that needs to be made love to. and that it is those two things that is the truly sexy part of the woman.

Never mind me, this is just another badly typed brain dump to the thread. excuse as always my grahmer and spelling.. I do math, the other stuff I try to at least make myself understandable.. in some small part.

I agree with what you say. This was just pointed out to me earlier by the person whom made me feel this way. Everyone on this thread has very vaulted points. I wish there were more people out there whom felt this way.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Oh dear

I would never start a popularity thread. Not my style at all. I was afraid I might be giving someone else that idea. ~smiling~

 

[Aquila]

Re: Oh dear

I would never start a popularity thread. Not my style at all. I was afraid I might be giving someone else that idea. ~smiling~

Your more popular than you think. notice the replies you genorate to any thread you go to.

 

[Freya]

Re: Oh dear

I would never start a popularity thread. Not my style at all. I was afraid I might be giving someone else that idea. ~smiling~

Rose I think you underestimate yourself. Your title definitely says it all about you.

 

[Soblue]

Hi Aquila, that was a nice rant. I like it that you're here and share what you think about.

You rock hon.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

Re: Oh dear

I would never start a popularity thread. Not my style at all. I was afraid I might be giving someone else that idea. ~smiling~

Popularity schmopularity...instead of naming a list of people you like, make a list of people that you want to be important to....that's what counts. Then tell them by PM. It's what you think that's important.

 

[Aquila]

Hi Aquila, that was a nice rant. I like it that you're here and share what you think about.

You rock hon.

How can I corrupt you if you do not know the mind of the madman?

 

[GreenEyedGodess]

Im sitting here, as all too often I do. Fiddling around on the computer. at this little black desk over in the corner of my house. I have a lovely view of a little canal, and some sort of intriguing tree. theres a pond not too far off, with little ducks in it, who to my great dismay, shit everywhere.

In any case I set my "Office" up here because it soothes me, and provides me a place to think, and reflect.

And what results is the babble of a madman posted here for your enjoyment.

Now Im single, the last date I had was over a month ago, and that was with a young lady who, well, we just didnt hit it off. and 3 year stretch of singleness, sparesly interposed with a one night stand here and there.

What amazes me (the obviously failed romantic) is that women, the creatures God himself put on this earth to prove that he existed. feel in any way under appreciated. or the need to be stereo typed barbie dolls.

There is no more sensual and graceful creature on this planet than the female of the species, and for them to feel in any way un-sexy because of some inane image that the media tells them they should be is a crime.

and it saddens my black little heart.

Its not so much that, women are told these things, but that they believe them.
Why? is the only function you see yourself fullfilling, is some egotist idea of a fucktoy?

While I enjoy the act of sex as much as any human being, what point is there to the whole activity if you can not delight in someone, so fully engrossed in YOU as to have surpassed the mere touch of naked bodies?

When will you realise its not your body, but your mind and soul that needs to be made love to. and that it is those two things that is the truly sexy part of the woman.

Never mind me, this is just another badly typed brain dump to the thread. excuse as always my grahmer and spelling.. I do math, the other stuff I try to at least make myself understandable.. in some small part.

Just to let you know, we women adhere to the whole "barbie" look because men like to make love to women who look like barbies. I would be hard pressed to find a man who would spot a less than svelte woman, with unattractive features, and call her a goddess. But what you have said warms my heart, and gives me hope that there are possibly more men like you.

 

[Soblue]

How can I corrupt you if you do not know the mind of the madman?

I think I've seen it all, but you can always try

 

[Aquila]

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