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Nomadic Lady

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Why when a man sleeps with countless women his is classified a stud but when a woman sleeps with as many she is classified as a slut?
 
It is just another example of the crapola double standards men have forced upon us!!

My hubby is a slut compared to me...but I love him anyway...he is my slut!
 
The corollary and paradox is that men have more affairs with women then women with men.
 
Nomadic Lady said:
Why when a man sleeps with countless women his is classified a stud but when a woman sleeps with as many she is classified as a slut?
I thought we covered this age old adage in Human Sexuality class?

I thought you might ask something serious like 'How come I can never have equal amounts of Milk to Oreo's?' It just never end evenly...and goes on forever...I'm still eating
 
I probably hear that term more often from a woman referring to another woman, and then it's usually because they don't like the way they dress.
 
WhatsHerName you said: It is just another example of the crapola double standards men have forced upon us!!

My hubby is a slut compared to me...but I love him anyway...he is my slut!

Double standards sounds right to me.

Alright your very own slut, way to go.
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Freescorfr you said: The corollary and paradox is that men have more affairs with women then women with men.

That may have been the case once, but it may be about the same now for men and women having affairs.
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Thanx for all the responses.
 
I have to agree with Worm on this one... I hear the word slut used more from women toward another woman than from men... I've found that most men prefer women who are sexually confident and know what they want... And mature men realize that those of us who are experienced had to gain that experience someplace :)

If there is still anyone out there who thinks that it is ok for men to have a long list of sexual encounters and not women, they are very lonely and bitter in life...

Once again, just my opinion :kiss:
 
Freya2 said:
A slut is if you sleep with them, a whore is if you say no.

I always hear it like this:

"The girl who sleeps with every guy at a party is a slut.
The girl who sleeps with every guy at a party but you, well, she's a bitch."
 
This double-standard

...is changing quite a bit. I know quite a few ladies who have a lot of notches on their belts, to use a cliche.

We only refer to them as "active". I call them studettes! Either way it's their business!
 
hogjack you said: We only refer to them as "active". I call them studettes! Either way it's their business!
AMEN to that. Bravo! :) If only more/all people thought like you did.
 
But most often it's...

...women who call women "sluts". I personally don't know any guys who would call a woman a slut.

Why do women just rip each other? I dunno.

[And most men who say they are studs are often just the damned best at telling tales...not necessarily true ones!]
 
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