Another question for bisexual males

[PredatorSmile]

Well, yeah. I finally admit it. The gay guys will outperform the girls when it comes to oral sex. I've asked my boyfriend about this. At first, he didn't know what to say, and thought i put him on the spot. i smiled and just shrugged, and he admitted that getting serviced by his ex-boyfriend felt better than being sucked by me, his lady ! I wasn't mad. We ended up laughing about it. [


I'm somewhat curious about this. Someone mentioned a "battle of the sexes" thing when it comes to straight women and gay men competing as to who is better at giving oral sex to a male. It sounds funny to me, and would certainly be an interesting development.

An idea popped into my head. I want to ask a bisexual guy who's butt he prefers to do. Would he rather anally penetrate a girl or a boy ? Also, which one feels better to him while he's doing them.

So, bi-guys, if you would please let me know ?

 

[fingermagic]

Women, but I really like to receive. That is the best. By the way, I do not really agree 100% with your man. It goes on a case by case basis.

 

[zekealicious]

you found my virginity! Having no experience with a guy (in that way- have had the experience of oral penetration several times), I can't form an opinion...and so I cant anwesr!

 

[webshooter69]

I find I have little interest in anal penetration, male anyway, but I am a confimed oral bi. I think the best givers are people, M/F, who really enjoy doing it. Gender does not matter. If you enjoy giving head, you will take the time and interest to figure out what turns your partner on. I enjoy both top & bottom.

 

[artisticbiguy]

I prefer anal sex with men. I'm not quite sure why but anal with women just has never turned me on. As for the oral question, I believe it really depends upon the person and not the gender; aka. case by case basis.

Of course, when it comes to anal, I prefer the receiving end than being the top. Ideally, I'd like to be receiving while having penile-vaginal sex with my wife. Yes, that means it'd be a threeway.

 

[PredatorSmile]

So, you guys prefer men's butts to women's. Okay. I dig. A preference is a preference. There was a time when I liked hirsute women. I could never figure out why. gracias on the answers, amigos.

 

[A_Kefka]

I think the oral thing isn't so much that guys are better overall. More that, havng a cock of our own, we have an I dea waht feels good, where as women are just going off what we let them know we like (or guessing if we don't let them know).

 

[LoboBoy]

There is something to be said about knowing what feels good on your own cock, that perhaps gives a better insight into how to give good head...

But I would say I agree with the guy who said the best head comes from the person who LOVES doing it. From my perspective...I enjoy it more from someone who loves doing it because I don't have to worry if I am taking too long or whatever...because I can SEE that it's not a chore. It’s best if it's something they are doing for themselves as much as for me. Does that make sense? If your guy can see you getting tired or that you seem to wish he'd just cum already...then it’s all over as far as him feeling pleasured...because now he's inconvenienced you.

I know str8 guys who have the same attitude to going down on their women...they only do it to warm them up for sex. If the girl knows this, how in hell can she relax and enjoy it?

Asses: Depends on the ass. Inside they feel the same. When I was having sex with women...I was more careful than I have to be with a guy, even if it was raunchy sex. So it’s a different kind of sex.

 

[PredatorSmile]

There is something to be said about knowing what feels good on your own cock, that perhaps gives a better insight into how to give good head...

But I would say I agree with the guy who said the best head comes from the person who LOVES doing it. From my perspective...I enjoy it more from someone who loves doing it because I don't have to worry if I am taking too long or whatever...because I can SEE that it's not a chore. It’s best if it's something they are doing for themselves as much as for me. Does that make sense? If your guy can see you getting tired or that you seem to wish he'd just cum already...then it’s all over as far as him feeling pleasured...because now he's inconvenienced you.

I know str8 guys who have the same attitude to going down on their women...they only do it to warm them up for sex. If the girl knows this, how in hell can she relax and enjoy it?

Asses: Depends on the ass. Inside they feel the same. When I was having sex with women...I was more careful than I have to be with a guy, even if it was raunchy sex. So it’s a different kind of sex.

Why are you more careful with women ? Some of us ( myself included) LOVE it rough. I'd hate to think that my guy was holding back in tbe bedroom. I'd feel like I couldn't possibly please him and that would mess with my head ( I sometimes think I can do anything better than anybody, that's my problem).

 

[LoboBoy]

Why are you more careful with women ? Some of us ( myself included) LOVE it rough. I'd hate to think that my guy was holding back in tbe bedroom. I'd feel like I couldn't possibly please him and that would mess with my head ( I sometimes think I can do anything better than anybody, that's my problem).

I guess because most of the women I had sex with were not into anal as the only form of actual intercourse. The guys can usually take it easier (sometimes) as they are more accustomed to having a cock pounding their butt...
So I'm not talking about holding back in sex and the whole session...just the ferocity of the actual anal sex

 

[hardgrader]

Its all personal preference right?

I've gotten more great bj's from guys who know how to take chage and assault a cock (I actually thought I couldn't cum from oral sex at one point--but a fateful night in a backyard in my mid-20s chnaged that!)--but my wife does an excellent job

As far as anal--I just like the feminine ass better--it tends to be curvier, guller, and more sensuous.

HG

Well, yeah. I finally admit it. The gay guys will outperform the girls when it comes to oral sex. I've asked my boyfriend about this. At first, he didn't know what to say, and thought i put him on the spot. i smiled and just shrugged, and he admitted that getting serviced by his ex-boyfriend felt better than being sucked by me, his lady ! I wasn't mad. We ended up laughing about it. [


I'm somewhat curious about this. Someone mentioned a "battle of the sexes" thing when it comes to straight women and gay men competing as to who is better at giving oral sex to a male. It sounds funny to me, and would certainly be an interesting development.

An idea popped into my head. I want to ask a bisexual guy who's butt he prefers to do. Would he rather anally penetrate a girl or a boy ? Also, which one feels better to him while he's doing them.

So, bi-guys, if you would please let me know ?

 

[human_male]

Women. I wouldn't like to give it to a guy's ass. I'd love to get it though, and I'd suck a mean cock I can tell ya.

 

[PredatorSmile]

I guess because most of the women I had sex with were not into anal as the only form of actual intercourse. The guys can usually take it easier (sometimes) as they are more accustomed to having a cock pounding their butt...
So I'm not talking about holding back in sex and the whole session...just the ferocity of the actual anal sex

Well, I'm glad to see some bi-guys actually like female bottoms. I've got a nice one, or so I'm told. Yeah, the idea of anyone holding back in the bedroom ticks me off. As men and women living in a frustrating society, there are few places where we can let loose our primal selves. The bedroom shouldn't be stifled and dead, like the boardroom. I'm a real go-getter in life. I am the manager of a book/video store. I run a tight ship.
I try to be fair, though. I also practically "run" the GLBT Alliance at school.
When I come home to my guy, I actually love to "let go" and just surrender to his "man power". That means I want him in control ( most of the time) and ROUGH. If he holds back, it's not doing either of us any good.

 

[hardgrader]

Pred Smile:

I agree--the bedroom should one of the places you can be yourself and just let go. We have to be in control in so many other parts of our lives today that, when it comes sex, we should just be able to let go and fuck (or suck!) ourselves silly.

Also--its cool that you're a woman who knows waht she wants. You can "run a tight ship," be in charge--and whe nyou come home you know that you want your man to take over and give it to you hard--and you mention that you DO take control yourself on occasion. What I like is that you are aggressive--butthat doesn't necissarily equate with dominant.

Best,

HG

Well, I'm glad to see some bi-guys actually like female bottoms. I've got a nice one, or so I'm told. Yeah, the idea of anyone holding back in the bedroom ticks me off. As men and women living in a frustrating society, there are few places where we can let loose our primal selves. The bedroom shouldn't be stifled and dead, like the boardroom. I'm a real go-getter in life. I am the manager of a book/video store. I run a tight ship.
I try to be fair, though. I also practically "run" the GLBT Alliance at school.
When I come home to my guy, I actually love to "let go" and just surrender to his "man power". That means I want him in control ( most of the time) and ROUGH. If he holds back, it's not doing either of us any good.

 

[PredatorSmile]

Pred Smile:

I agree--the bedroom should one of the places you can be yourself and just let go. We have to be in control in so many other parts of our lives today that, when it comes sex, we should just be able to let go and fuck (or suck!) ourselves silly.

Also--its cool that you're a woman who knows waht she wants. You can "run a tight ship," be in charge--and whe nyou come home you know that you want your man to take over and give it to you hard--and you mention that you DO take control yourself on occasion. What I like is that you are aggressive--butthat doesn't necissarily equate with dominant.

Best,

HG

Hardgrader, that's exactly how I feel about things.

 

[TheHobbyMan151]

yeah definitely

 

[PredatorSmile]

Thank you, gentlemen.

 

[hardgrader]

Hardgrader, that's exactly how I feel about things.

Now--if I could get my wife to think like you, it'd be great...

 

[hoselvr]

bump

With anal, I prefer topping a smooth skinned tight ass whether it be male, female, or maybe someday pre-op transexual. Lots of body hair on another guy doesn't do it for me. Just gets in my teeth too much. LOL. I can be versatile with the right guy as well. Would love to have strap-on sex with a woman as well. Bend over boyfreind style. With oral I enjoy going both ways with all sexes. I guess that is why I identify as bisexual.

 

[none2_none2]

With anal, I prefer topping a smooth skinned tight ass whether it be male, female, or maybe someday pre-op transexual. Lots of body hair on another guy doesn't do it for me. Just gets in my teeth too much. LOL.

For me to be with a guy that is smooth, he would have to have a lot of muscle. Otherwise, I'd feel as if I was getting it on with a newly plucked butterball turkey. That would just spoil my Thanksgiving memories.

I think for me, the thing that I'm uncomfortable with women is that they tend to be smaller boned and be less dense because of the muscle/body fat ratio. I'm very much the extreme opposite of a pedo. I just don't see young things as sexual objects. So when I've been with someone who has small bones or their body fat is softer it just makes me think of pedo-ness -- a BIG turn-off.

I've had the same problem with some guys. I remember an incident years ago were a f-buddy wante me to give his 18 yo friend a back rub. He wasn't short, but very youthfull -- not a lot of muscle in his shoulders, etc. He looked adult in stature, but his body felt too young to touch even if it was a non-sexual backrub.

I also remember a friend who was small boned, but he was overweight and thus "bearish". His shoulders had a lot of give (body fat). There was just too much "softness" to really enjoy hugging him. He definately had a man's face and even a man's hairy body. However, his density and small bones made me feel like I was horsing around with Spanky from the Little Rascles (spelling). (A plump kid from a TV show from YEARS ago I believe.) I do not find anything at all sexually apealing about anything that could even hint about underage sex.

So for me I don't see male vs female in terms of cock versus vagina. In fact, penises are the last thing I'm interested in. They are nice to the touch and are impressive in that you can visually see the result of sexual interest (erection, precum, orgasm) -- kind of hard to fake interest with a penis. However, I just never craved having one inside me (anywhere) at all. However, I love looking at a hairy body, a muscular body. Nothing is hotter than a white hairy muscular ass framed with beautiful tanlines. There is nothing more sensual than seeing a masculine guy's ass or mouth give pleasure to someone. (The recepient of that pleasure can be male or female.)

Still I could have done straight sex with the right female. For instance, if I were single & I met a gal like Xena, I couldn't imagine not being interested. She may not be hairy, but she doesn't seem small boned, she seems neither too skinny nor high in body fat, and she has what I consider a very beautiful face with extremely beautiful eyes.

 

[lastingpassion]

Although I'm bisexual, much prefer to penetrate a "shapely ass" of a woman. The additional joy is having her luscious tits to play with at the same time.

 

[Samuelx]

Personally, I don't care. I find a girl or a guy who's willing, then I'm down for whatever.

 

[viperx6x9x]

yeah im still in the bi curious phase myself. so the only thing ive done with a male is recieve oral. i did this once and have yet to have a better bj than that one. reason i havent done it again or tried anything else is cuz that friend is back in texas and im too cautious to find another such friend. as for the anal, i have done that with a woman and really enjoyed it. if i ever get the chance to try the bi side of that one il let ya know.

 

[PredatorSmile]

I love reading stories where bisexual men explore both male and female butts, lol.

By far, KenJames writes the best ones.


Ginger by KenJames

Strapping It On by KenJames


Hippie Hollow Orgy by KenJames


Beach Boy For Two by Libidinal


Dad's Bi Anal Orgy by Libidinal

Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys by Libidinal


Any Hole Will Do by Samuelx

 

[Mazinger]

Hardgrader, that's exactly how I feel about things.

I know exactly how you feel.

In my case, we, both men, show are love to our wife publicly, but somehow, restrain ourselves from showing any affection to each other. Maybe because we are just like brothers now, and him being the "big" brother, shows a kind of protection over me.

In bed however, we let go, and of course I offer my self to him, and our wife offers herself, anally of course, to us.

The bed is like a place of freedom.

I've asked my husband about why is it that he is more rough on me when it comes to anal sex than with her, and the answer is like what we have read here before, that for him, he knows the I as a man, have only one hole, so he works it twice as hard, lol.

Maz.