anklet bracelets

[Nordic man]

does anyone know about dominate women wearing ankle bracelets to show they are dominate? I thought I had read somewhere about dominate women wearing an ankle bracelet on one of their ankles to let others know they were dominate?
has anyone heard about this?

 

[MissTaken]

I hadn't heard about this, but I was wearing an ankle bracelet a while back. I can understand how that would play out given the role my feet play in our relationship.

I am very curious to learn more.

 

[MissTaken]

Aha!

Wearing jewelry on the left, indicates Dominant. The right indicates submissive.



I assume that this would translate into the wearing of ankle bracelets.

 

[Nackereia]

Aha!

Wearing jewelry on the left, indicates Dominant. The right indicates submissive.



I assume that this would translate into the wearing of ankle bracelets.

Do watches count as jewlery?

 

[Nordic man]

left/right wearing

Aha!

Wearing jewelry on the left, indicates Dominant. The right indicates submissive.



I assume that this would translate into the wearing of ankle bracelets.

I wish I could remember where I read about the ankle bracelet.. my queen wants me to wear one for her

 

[Vixandra]

Read this and started searching on Google for an answer and this is the closest I've come so far.
Source- http://66.102.7.104/search?q=cache:...kle+bracelets+to+show+they+are+dominant&hl=en
Info:

If I'm not mistaken, there is a symbol that married women wear when they want to advertise that they are available for sexual relations with other men and that is the ankle bracelet. I was unaware of this until others informed me of the meaning of the ankle bracelet or anklet. From my understanding, the married woman who wears both her wedding ring and the anklet is advertising to men who are aware of the cuckolding lifestyle. I believe this symbolism originated within the swinger community but has since been adopted by women who practice cuckolding. So if the married woman in the restaurant who was looking you over was indeed wearing an anklet, then your observation may well have been correct.

Though I don't think that's what's meant by this, still something to think on....

And I wanted to wear an anklet with my boots. Will have to research further....

 

[gingermango]

As Freud said, "Sometimes a cigar is only a cigar."

Be careful of reading too much symbolism into ephemeral things like jewelry - not too many years ago it was men and earrings and one side meant straight and the other side meant gay/bi and no one seemed real sure what BOTH meant. As for other jewelry, you also have to consider handedness - some people choose to wear watches, rings, bracelets, etc. on whatever side won't interfere with writing or other activities.

For what it's worth, I'm a bi-curious cross-dressing submissive man with both ears pierced (left is double-pierced) and both nipples pierced and my dominant wife wants me to get a Prince Albert, too. She wears an anklet on occasion because she likes them and thinks they're pretty, not to advertise anything. She wears it on whatever side she feels like.

Hey, sometimes a woman (or a guy) is just checking you out, not making an overt sexual statement.

 

[snowy ciara]

Yup, I remember reading in John Warren about stuff on the left indicating a dominant personality and stuff on the right indicating a sub; especially when you're flagging. (Using the hanky code to indicate your kink) I think he said that it was anything: car keys and wallets going in the left hand pocket and all that. Then again, it's not really reliable. My keys frequently end up on the left just because I'm left handed. Real esoteric stuff, there.

 

[witcha]

That's really interesting..never knew bout it and yet always wore all my jewellery(especially ankle bracelet) on right side of my body..

hmmm



witcha

 

[Titania1616]

That's really interesting..never knew bout it and yet always wore all my jewellery(especially ankle bracelet) on right side of my body..

hmmm



witcha

funny....me too, even though i'm right handed and my watch gets in my way.

interesting...something to think about....

 

[Mamid]

reminds me of those "sex bracelets" that were on Judging Amy a few weeks ago. Lauren had some on and Amy was trying a case where the boys may or may not have assualted a girl because of the bracelets she was wearing. They didn't think she was because she was wearing a bracelet that said she'd do X and she felt pushed into doing said X as well.

Lauren was wearing black bracelet which, according to their terminology meant "going all the way." Amy, as mother and judge dealing with all this, freaked.

Of course the Urban Legend Resource Site has debunked it, but its the same thing for all those other "do this if you're that" thangs.

Just because I wear an anklet on my left ankle doesn't mean I'm dominant. It doesn't mean I'm not either. Nor do my piercings mean anything except I wanted those parts of me pierced.

 

[heckle]

Hanky codes, wearing items on the left vs. right, leather vest for Doms, etc... There is alot of people who think you must wear this, dress a certian way, not wear this, walk on the left, walm on the right, open doors for the Dom, open doors for the submissive, look in the eyes wehen speaking, never look in the eyes when speaking, etc... It can get mind boggling with all of this!

As a Dominant myself, I expect certian things from my slave. From everyone else, I expect common courtesy. I will take time to talk to a fellow Dom just as I would take time to talk to a submissive or slave. The only time when I change that is when I know that a specific submissive/slave is to be treated a specific way.

I have never found a book of answers for this lifestyle. I have found that there are many people who start out online. They meet others online, read about things online and learn things online. While the internet has a wealth of information, you have to take things at face value. Just as there is no book of answers, there is no book of rules. If you use common sense, everything else shoudl prove easy to figure out.

Don't think that I am bashing anyone who participates online because I am not. But at some point, you have to make some type of transition.

Now back to the anklet situation. I have never heard of anything like this. But just because I have never heard of it does not make it false. To some people, wearing it on the left may mean the person is a Dom or is out "playing the field". And just because someone wears a choker chain does not mean that they are a submissive, a slave or even in the lifestyle. If someone is in the lifestyle, sometimes, you can just tell.

 

[FungiUg]

does anyone know about dominate women wearing ankle bracelets to show they are dominate?

Dominant, not dominate.

My lover (who is dominant) often wears an anklet. But she wears it because it was a gift from me (because I think they're sexy), not out of any indication that she is dominant.

I think most dominants, male or female, don't really need a symbol to show they are dominant. It's a state of mind, after all. I have heard of people wearing the BDSM symbol to identify themselves to other BDSM people. But that works for dominants, submissives and switches.

 

[Kajira Callista]

hmmmm i wear a slave bells anklet on my left ankle...am i confusing everyone?

 

[Esclava]

Ohhhhhhhh,

This ought to throw a monkey wrench into the workings...

I wear anklets on BOTH ankles - one for Master and one for Mistress. But ... Master's is on my right ankle because I am right handed (dominant hand).

Whooooo ... might need a Calgon bath after this discussion...

Esclava

 

[Titania1616]

Re: Re: anklet bracelets

I have heard of people wearing the BDSM symbol to identify themselves to other BDSM people.

just curious.....what's the bdsm symbol?

 

[Esclava]

Re: Re: Re: anklet bracelets

just curious.....what's the bdsm symbol?

BDSM Symbol History

Check this page out.

Esclava

 

[heckle]

This is taken directly from the website.
http://members.aol.com/quagmyr/meaning.htm

What does the BDSM Emblem mean?

The BDSM emblem has no "obvious" symbolism because it was created to be enigmatic. To the vanilla observer who would be put off by BDSM, it is merely an attractive piece of jewelry. Thus, we can wear it freely as a friendly salute, nod, and wink to other BDSMers we should happen to pass on the sidewalks and in the hallways of our daily lives.

To the insider, however, the Emblem is full of meaning.

The three divisions represent the various threesomes of BDSM. First of all, the three divisions of BDSM itself: B&D, D&S, and S&M. Secondly, the three-way creed of BDSM behavior: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Thirdly, the three divisions of our community: Tops, Bottoms, and Switches.

It is this third symbolism that gives meaning to the holes in each unit. Since BDSM is at the very least a play style and at its greatest a love style, the holes represent the incompleteness of any individual within the BDSM context. However "together" and "whole" individuals may be, there remains a void within them that can only be filled by a complimentary other. BDSM cannot be done alone.

The resemblance to a three-way variation on the Yin-Yang symbol is not accidental. As the curved outline of Yin and Yang represent the hazy border between where one ends and the other begins, so do the curved borders here represent the indistinct divisions between B&D, D&S, and S&M.

The metal and metallic color of the medallion represents the chains or irons of BDSM servitude/ownership. The three inner fields are black, representing a celebration of the controlled dark side of BDSM sexuality.

The curved lines themselves can be seen as a stylized depiction of a lash as it swings, or even an arm in motion to deliver an erotic spanking. The all-embracing circle, of course, represents the overlying unity of it all and the oneness of a community that protects its own.

copyright 1995, 1997, Quagmyr@aol.com

 

[Mamid]

I just about had a panic attack here... This is what I used to wear around my neck (it needs the clasp fixed)
Cuffme.com makes great stuff that is still wearable, but is very bdsm oriented without it being blatant. You'd have to know it was what it was in order to make the connection. (Penalt, we are going out NOW to get the repair kit as soon as I hit enter! get the kids ready!)(who says he's my dom?)

I'll post more later...
here's more...

also on that site is something that I wear:

I'm going to cruise the site to see if there's anything else I still drool over.

(edited to make the necklace picture fit the frigging page! can't size the smegging thing!)

 

[Titania1616]

how did i not ever know this existed? wow...i'm going to be looking at jewelry a bit more closely for awhile. Thanks for all the info...i'm still a newbie to this, its nice to have friendly people who share info.

And Mamid: that necklace is beautiful!

 

[Mamid]

the interesting thing about that necklace is that not even I really knew that the symbol was a BDSM symbol variant (see the emblem project's gallery here) . No one has come up to me and asked. No one has said anything - at least not the people who didn't know already.

I also have a friend that makes custom cuffs and collars and his stuff is the best I've seen - and I'm not just prejudiced because he's my friend. His is the only stuff that I will lock onto me and not because we have at least 8 copies of the keys stashed around the house. The stuff is sensual, and more importantly made for me.
I'll see if I can dig up some photos that I'm willing to personally share...

 

[Titania1616]

His is the only stuff that I will lock onto me and not because we have at least 8 copies of the keys stashed around the house.

lol, i've often thought about that...knowing me i'd lose every key! i guess i'd have to leave a copy with someone more resposible.....do i know anyone resposible? hmmmm, have to think about that......

 

[Mamid]

one on my keys, one on his keys, a set in my jewelry box, a set in the bathroom makeup drawer, a set in the junk drawer, and a couple of others I've forgotten where they are.

Penalt decided to see if I really could get out of thumbcuffs, so he bought himself a set. There's a key on my keychain and a key on his so we always know we can get out of it if we get stuck.

here's a nicely concealed emblem...

(85 posts to go till I get my avatar...)

 

[Mamid]

oh drool... now if only this wasn't 100$ to start...

(84 posts to go till I get my avatar...)

 

[Guest]

Not sure it matters so much anymore....The faster they come up with things of significance..The faster they get adopted as "stylish" by assorted wankers.
Hmm
*shrug*
For myself ..I have both ears pierced..Left one twice, right once..
Means absolutely nothing..Except..That each one is a very permanent reminder of something very important..