Angry sex....

[wildfyre]

Do you crave rough, nasty, angry sex when you get dumped? If so, would you prefer to take that aggression out on the ex, or just any hapless soul who crossed your path at the wrong time?

 

[bg23]

when i get dumped?

no.

when i get dumped, i'd much rather have displays of grovelling for forgiveness from the other party, various instances of public humiliation heaped upon his head, and so forth.

angry sex is for when i am mad at him, but still very much in a relationship with him.

there's nothing quite so delicious as sex in the midst of a quarrel.

sex after dumping simply doesn't happen, because i don't like casual sex.

 

[wildfyre]

Don't want groveling from him....don't want him publicly humiliated....just want an outlet for all this anger and for some reason it's coming out as a desire for rough, "fuck me 'til I'm raw" sex. That's never happened before, usually I just want a big bowl of Ben and Jerry's Phish food and a good book to disappear into.

when i get dumped?

no.

when i get dumped, i'd much rather have displays of grovelling for forgiveness from the other party, various instances of public humiliation heaped upon his head, and so forth.

angry sex is for when i am mad at him, but still very much in a relationship with him.

there's nothing quite so delicious as sex in the midst of a quarrel.

sex after dumping simply doesn't happen, because i don't like casual sex.

 

[Killishandra]

Being dumped sucks. Why wait to get dumped to have rough sex? Have it all the time! Tender sex is good too.

 

[wildfyre]

Being dumped sucks. Why wait to get dumped to have rough sex? Have it all the time! Tender sex is good too.

I agree that rough sex is good any time!
I don't usually react this way to the end of a relationship. For some reason, all I could think about was a sex session that would amount to an all out brawl that would have left both my partner and I bloody and bruised! I definitely don't take my rough sex that far either. I usually stop short of bloodshed.

 

[h_i_s]

i've never been dumped.

i like rough sex though and normally it's Him who'd be angry and when He is ... well, kinda difficult to have sex with an angry Master who is busy ignoring His slave.

 

[marieR19]

Damn you! Who posted this? *looks around* Wildfyre!! I am holding you responsible for my dominate feelings right now! lol
I have just realized, for the first time, that the only time I ever have dominant tendancies is when my gf does something really stupid/immature (I have to say she is seriously immature for her age) and/or we get in a big fight (like we are right now)... Today I got off the phone with her, and in the middle of crying I had this urge to just shake her and yell at her and stuff, which is totally not like me. Yes, I can totally see myself dominating her during a fight, but that is the only time I can see that happening.
You've opened my eyes. Nooooooo!!!


Heather
(edited because I'm a horrible speller)

 

[wildfyre]

Damn you! Who posted this? *looks around* Wildfyre!! I am holding you responsible for my dominate feelings right now! lol
I have just realized, for the first time, that the only time I ever have dominant tendancies is when my gf does something really stupid/immature (I have to say she is seriously immature for her age) and/or we get in a big fight (like we are right now)... Today I got off the phone with her, and in the middle of crying I had this urge to just shake her and yell at her and stuff, which is totally not like me. Yes, I can totally see myself dominating her during a fight, but that is the only time I can see that happening.
You've opened my eyes. Nooooooo!!!


Heather
(edited because I'm a horrible speller)

Sorry Heather! Here's a peace offering...
I think the planets must be in retro grade or something this weekend cause all my nice, warm, submissive feelings went straight out the window this weekend. I've just been growlin and spoilin for a fight instead of my usual reaction to bad news which is to go off and hide.
Sorry to hear you were fighting with your SO too.

 

[babiesmiles]

I like rough sex anyway .... but sometimes tender one is fine as well !

Ok I think I like sex ..... the only one which usually bores me is gym style sex (that kind of sex which is made without brain and a bit of wicked creativity ) that I almost don't consider even sex but just a fun way which someone uses to stay fit ! b.

 

[Rattlesnake1775]

Argument Sex

Breakup sex - Back in the (pre-marital) day, when I used to break up with somebody, it was because I wanted to bang somebody else, so no real desire for anything "angry," but still want the pounding, raw, sweaty, furious sexual experience, now with a new person.

Hearbreak sex - when somebody breaks up with me, I tend to want the opposite, namely mercy sex. Preferably from a chick that is a close friend who knows how I'm feeling, and is willing to stay in bed for a while, because this is going to be slow and delicious, and when it's all said and done, I won't even remember the name of the bitch that left me.

Argument sex - So now that I am married, the wife and I have come to realize that we argue about some stupid shit. I mean just pointless. And that when we argue, we both get turned on. Early in the dating thing we were fighting about something trivial, and she suddenly stopped in mid sentence, and I realized she was starring at my bulge. Argument forgotten, time to pound her back into submission. Which has set a pattern that unless it is something life threatening (and what really is?), I jump her bones after about twenty minutes of furious yelling and arguing, enough time for her to get all worked up and juicy, and give her the railing she needs. And that I have all the anger to deliever. Good stuff.

Raw sex - Now, naturally one should not restrict such activity just to when you are mad. So hence, raw sex. Sometimes you just need to get your inner animal out, and my little kitten understands that, and needs it to.

Or maybe we just like to bang the living hell out of each other? Newlywed is a state of mind, not a timeframe...

 

[Macdaddy23]

Being dumped sucks. Why wait to get dumped to have rough sex? Have it all the time! Tender sex is good too.

Great AV

 

[wildfyre]

Breakup sex - Back in the (pre-marital) day, when I used to break up with somebody, it was because I wanted to bang somebody else, so no real desire for anything "angry," but still want the pounding, raw, sweaty, furious sexual experience, now with a new person.

Hearbreak sex - when somebody breaks up with me, I tend to want the opposite, namely mercy sex. Preferably from a chick that is a close friend who knows how I'm feeling, and is willing to stay in bed for a while, because this is going to be slow and delicious, and when it's all said and done, I won't even remember the name of the bitch that left me.

Argument sex - So now that I am married, the wife and I have come to realize that we argue about some stupid shit. I mean just pointless. And that when we argue, we both get turned on. Early in the dating thing we were fighting about something trivial, and she suddenly stopped in mid sentence, and I realized she was starring at my bulge. Argument forgotten, time to pound her back into submission. Which has set a pattern that unless it is something life threatening (and what really is?), I jump her bones after about twenty minutes of furious yelling and arguing, enough time for her to get all worked up and juicy, and give her the railing she needs. And that I have all the anger to deliever. Good stuff.

Raw sex - Now, naturally one should not restrict such activity just to when you are mad. So hence, raw sex. Sometimes you just need to get your inner animal out, and my little kitten understands that, and needs it to.

Or maybe we just like to bang the living hell out of each other? Newlywed is a state of mind, not a timeframe...

Thanks Rattlesnake! This is the kind of answer I was looking for. I think my original post wasn't very clear. Last weekend, I got my heart bruised (we weren't together long enough to have been in love, just cared deeply for him) and instead of my usual reaction to having someone leave me I got angry. I wanted to go out and find someone to tear up. I wanted biting, scratching, hair pulling, pound me til I bleed, animal sex. I've never had a reaction quite like that and thankfully I have some online friends who were nice enough to accomodate me in fantasy. It helped me to work out my anger so I could be in a better place to deal with the separation.

 

[WearMeWell]

Greetings A/all

my apologies for 'bursting in' upon your thread.

angry sex...*mmm hmmmm
the name alone drew me in.

I concur with Rattlesnake....and yet for some hormonal reason I still like the sentiments of Wildfyres initial opener....

being fairly new, yet insatiably curious about BDSM...(was 'marritally raised' "Gorean" ) one day I literally seemed to snap....
at the time...I called it rage sex.....

we were fighting...really really fighting...and then......
well...there are new dents in the wall *not from fists or flying objects*

....all this ....*uhmm...please hold whilst I retrieve my brain from my loins*

ok...well I have decided it should be a regular staple in my sexual diet....LOL

you know.....the dancing banana over there resembles my after glow thoughts

hmmmm....

...ok, time to shut up and get back to work....
*wink*

 

[Rattlesnake1775]

Bleeding?

Thanks Rattlesnake! This is the kind of answer I was looking for. I think my original post wasn't very clear. Last weekend, I got my heart bruised (we weren't together long enough to have been in love, just cared deeply for him) and instead of my usual reaction to having someone leave me I got angry. I wanted to go out and find someone to tear up. I wanted biting, scratching, hair pulling, pound me til I bleed, animal sex. I've never had a reaction quite like that and thankfully I have some online friends who were nice enough to accomodate me in fantasy. It helped me to work out my anger so I could be in a better place to deal with the separation.

Well...I'm glad I could be of service...but for the record...I NEVER said ANYTHING about bleeding. That's sick. I mean seriously.

Okay, so I'm just kidding. But really, on a totally unrelated topic...how do raw does sex have to be to cause bleeding? I'm just fascinated by that now. I can already tell that I'm going to get in trouble with the wifey tonight...

 

[wildfyre]

Well...I'm glad I could be of service...but for the record...I NEVER said ANYTHING about bleeding. That's sick. I mean seriously.

Okay, so I'm just kidding. But really, on a totally unrelated topic...how do raw does sex have to be to cause bleeding? I'm just fascinated by that now. I can already tell that I'm going to get in trouble with the wifey tonight...

I know....I'm not into bloodsports either but that's how I was feeling last weekend....but I'm better now!

As for how raw....I would think it would have to be pretty raw...and pretty dry! I like that *just fucked* feeling when it lasts until the next day but that would be a bit much!

You'll have to let us know how much trouble you get yourself into!

 

[wildfyre]

Greetings A/all

my apologies for 'bursting in' upon your thread.

angry sex...*mmm hmmmm
the name alone drew me in.

I concur with Rattlesnake....and yet for some hormonal reason I still like the sentiments of Wildfyres initial opener....

being fairly new, yet insatiably curious about BDSM...(was 'marritally raised' "Gorean" ) one day I literally seemed to snap....
at the time...I called it rage sex.....

we were fighting...really really fighting...and then......
well...there are new dents in the wall *not from fists or flying objects*

....all this ....*uhmm...please hold whilst I retrieve my brain from my loins*

ok...well I have decided it should be a regular staple in my sexual diet....LOL

you know.....the dancing banana over there resembles my after glow thoughts

hmmmm....

...ok, time to shut up and get back to work....
*wink*

WMW, feel free to jump in here any time with your thoughts. I do like rough sex, nothing at all wrong with it! I just usually don't want it as rough as I was fantasizing! You described exactly what I was thinking of...that rage filled sex where your brain shuts down and you go purely on animal instinct.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Angry sex??

Yes, please. Oh you weren't talking to me.

I give out great angry sex..especially after someone has hurt me deeply. It's almost unreal. The only good thing about that is I have a few submissive friends who will give me what I need when I need it...therefore svaing me from doing things to someone who wouldn't understand why I am trying to fuck them til they cry.

 

[wildfyre]

Yes, please. Oh you weren't talking to me.

I give out great angry sex..especially after someone has hurt me deeply. It's almost unreal. The only good thing about that is I have a few submissive friends who will give me what I need when I need it...therefore svaing me from doing things to someone who wouldn't understand why I am trying to fuck them til they cry.

Thanks for the response Luna. It was surreal to me too...it was like I went all feral-Alpha-Bitch and just wanted to fuck someone strong enough to make me submissive again. I'm just glad there wasn't anyone around for me to act out with...somebody would have gotten hurt, and not in the good way!

 

[Rattlesnake1775]

Give Angry Sex

Now...here's a questions...

To me, angry sex takes two people. I mean, and I don't mean to darken the mood here, but if I'm in full on rage-sex-mode (which is a derivative of argument sex, discussed later), and the woman I happen to get my claws on is not, then I'll probably be looking at 10 - 25 in an unpleasant place.

Soooo...how do you let somebody know that you want angry sex? Again, I'm married now, so it is easy. When we are arguing, automatic angry sex. Sometimes she's mad at me for reasons that I can't fully understand, probably because she's talking to me while the TV is on or something like that. But that is always a ticket to about an 8 on the Rocking Richter scale. But what if you are coming out of a relationship, and you find that friend with benefits, or whatever, do you just say "hey, Jenna broke up with me, do you mind if I pound you into submission real quick to get my rocks off?"

Switch...so I need to add Rage Sex to my descriptions from earlier. Rage sex is what you have when you are angered by something that happens outside your primary sexual relationship, and you transfer it into the bedroom.

Prime Example: I have somehow in life ended up having mostly ladies as bosses. I have had precisely 4 male supervisors (1 at a sub store, 1 at a car plant, 1 as a company commander, and 1 squadron commander), to my 7 female (law firm, car plant, two stores I worked at, university, counseling center, company commander), and the females took up the majority of the time. And I don't know what it is, but some of the women I worked for were real bitches! So occassionally they piss me off, and then I go home all mad, and bang the living hell out of g/f, later wife, and she always says "where did that come from?"

Not like you can admit it!

"What honey, you just look really smoking hot today!"

 

[wildfyre]

Now...here's a questions...

To me, angry sex takes two people. I mean, and I don't mean to darken the mood here, but if I'm in full on rage-sex-mode (which is a derivative of argument sex, discussed later), and the woman I happen to get my claws on is not, then I'll probably be looking at 10 - 25 in an unpleasant place.

Soooo...how do you let somebody know that you want angry sex? Again, I'm married now, so it is easy. When we are arguing, automatic angry sex. Sometimes she's mad at me for reasons that I can't fully understand, probably because she's talking to me while the TV is on or something like that. But that is always a ticket to about an 8 on the Rocking Richter scale. But what if you are coming out of a relationship, and you find that friend with benefits, or whatever, do you just say "hey, Jenna broke up with me, do you mind if I pound you into submission real quick to get my rocks off?"

I don't know how anyone else deals with that in real life, but that's what I did with a couple of my online friends. They knew I was upset and tried to joke around to get me into a better mood by asking if I wanted them to fuck me to take my mind off it. I told them they'd better hold on tight because I was going to make it hurt! They played along nicely!

Switch...so I need to add Rage Sex to my descriptions from earlier. Rage sex is what you have when you are angered by something that happens outside your primary sexual relationship, and you transfer it into the bedroom.

Prime Example: I have somehow in life ended up having mostly ladies as bosses. I have had precisely 4 male supervisors (1 at a sub store, 1 at a car plant, 1 as a company commander, and 1 squadron commander), to my 7 female (law firm, car plant, two stores I worked at, university, counseling center, company commander), and the females took up the majority of the time. And I don't know what it is, but some of the women I worked for were real bitches! So occassionally they piss me off, and then I go home all mad, and bang the living hell out of g/f, later wife, and she always says "where did that come from?"

Not like you can admit it!

"What honey, you just look really smoking hot today!"

I'd go with the smoking hot answer...unless you're up for another bout of angry, argument sex!

 

[vega25]

being dumped sucks, if i get dumped i want to do the uk mastercard advert where you see him next and your gorgeous and draped on another gorgeous speciman from the gene pool - well a girl can dream


angry sex for me isnt about being angry i dont think i've been angry and had sex.. maybe i should do that instead of acting all irrational and doing things i regret in the morning... or am i confusing rough and raw?

 

[FurryFury]

I've never had angry sex in RL. If I'm mad? Ya don't touch! Not if you want to keep all of your parts!

Fury

 

[wildfyre]

I've never had angry sex in RL. If I'm mad? Ya don't touch! Not if you want to keep all of your parts!

Fury

I think that's the key to angry sex....you have to find someone who doesn't mind losing chunks of hair or flesh! Or at least willing to wear some bruises for awhile!

 

[FurryFury]

I think that's the key to angry sex....you have to find someone who doesn't mind losing chunks of hair or flesh! Or at least willing to wear some bruises for awhile!

I can imagine Angry sex. I've even rp-ed it but I couldn't DO it. I am not the slighest bit interested in sex when I'm pissed. I just want to destroy stuff, people and so on...I do NOT want to be touched.

Fury

 

[AppleBiter]

Angry sex is divine. *swoon*