Angelique and Xanda, work it out.

[Carl East]

I don't know the details of your split, but I do know you both cared for one another very deeply. You should work your problems out, whatever they may be, because you only get one chance at true happiness, and you need to take it.

I know this to be true, for I have been where you are, and I know how you are both hurting right now. Try to remember those feelings you had for one another, because they were genuine feelings.

Some of you are probably thinking, he's only saying all this because he's disappointed that he won't get to join in on the fun. That would partly be true, but I tell you now, if you told us that you were still getting married, but no longer wanted the board to join in, I would cheer for you both.

I know you Angelique, you were really cut up when Xanda had to go back home, that was true love you felt, and it hasn't gone away. And Xanda, when you announced the engagement, you did so with pride, for you were truly happy.

I'll probably get flamed for this post, but I don't care, all I care about is that two of the nicest people I have ever known are in pain, when they should be happy.

Please work it out you two, nothing is impossible if you work together, and I truly believe you were meant to be together.

Your friend

Carl.

[Edited by Carl East on 09-19-2000 at 06:32 PM]

 

[Nicole]

Carl why would you get flammed for caring???

I know what your saying I truly do. Angel and Xander we are ALL here for you. Put us together and you have a huge shoulder to lean on. Use it if you need to.

 

[Cheri]

Carl I understand how you must feel. I know when I first read the thread that Xander started about their engagement, I felt such love (for two people I still don't know) and hope spring in my heart that it made all the platitudes that are spoken about love seem true. I felt like I had read a real live fairy tale something that even the optimist in me couldn't fathom. I still wish them all the best, but (did you know that was coming?) I wouldn't dare allow those feelings to color my reaction to their relationship. They are both adults who are responsible for their own lives and their own decisions. In saying that, I sincerely hope that whatever decision is made is best for both of them. I do know that I feel sadness for the pain that both of them must be feeling and I hope that they have people in their lives to turn to.

 

[Carl East]

Carl why would you get flammed for caring???

I figured Nicole, that some might say it's none of my business, but I don't want to see a perfect story come to an end so badly. I'm sure by what you said, that you and many others feel the same way.

Carl.

 

[Nicole]

Well too Damn right I do, these are both my closest friends, I love them both dearly. It's hard for me to comment though Carl I'm so close to the situation and I want them BOTH to be happy.

You see then there's the whole thing about me being in an Online relationship too. I know how hard they can be, and it does seem easier to me to walk away from an online relationship than a Real Life one.

I don't want to say much as far as their situation because I truly thought that this one would work. But it does make you look at the whole distance thing in a relationship.

Nic and Angel you both know that I'm here for you and that I don't want to loose either of you. I love you both so much, and you have both helped me through some of my problems so I am here for you.

 

[Guest]

Carl, that was a beatiful thought. Nicole, shut up. You fell in love with an already married guy. WTF do you know? You're just a bitch who breaks up marriages, not tries to save them.

 

[Patryn]

You see what I meant when I agreed with "Whatever" now? Maybe, just maybe, someone will see this an inappropriate.

 

[Nicole]

GUH, Think what you like ... it doesn't bother me. It WOULD have bothered me, but not anymore.

I don't care what others think of me. Think what you like, just remember that we are happy, obviously you are not.

If you felt the slighest bit of compassion for Angel and Xander you would'nt have written that down on this thread. You're the one that needs the life not the rest of us.

Have a good Day

 

[Guest]

You see what I meant when I agreed with "Whatever" now? Maybe, just maybe, someone will see this an inappropriate.

That makes loads of sense hypocrite, Whatever slammed the owner of the site in the post and then says that insults are inappropriate, guess it's only bad if you're getting flamed huh Patryn

 

[Patryn]

That's not what I meant and you damn well know it. I never slammed Laurel personally. I just meant maybe a little more control would be nice, like deleting you and your similarly named parter...or wait, would that be you and you?

And thus goes another thread down the shitter.

 

[Rosebud]

Carl, that was a beatiful thought. Nicole, shut up. You fell in love with an already married guy. WTF do you know? You're just a bitch who breaks up marriages, not tries to save them.

Goddamn it mother fucker...she did not break my marriage up, I invited her here. I know you are a regular so post under your real name and stop hiding behing a fucking fake name, get some balls or get a life.
Laurel, I know that you can find out who this is...I want to know because they are too chicken shit to post under their real name. We have taken enough shit from the fucking troll

[Edited by Rosebud on 09-19-2000 at 10:15 PM]

 

[Xander]

I'm sorry Carl. But I think there's nothing left to say, or do about all this.

 

[Siren]

ok everyone.....

 

[Laurel]

Laurel, I know that you can find out who this is...I want to know because they are too chicken shit to post under their real name. We have taken enough shit from the fucking troll

Now now, Rosey my dear girl...you're so cute when you're spunky! I could know who it is (maybe, depending on a number of factors), but I don't care to know. I've yet to check IP's - I reserve that for a really, really serious situation. Yes, I agree that grenades lobbed from the trenches are bad form - I've had my share lobbed in my direction by anon trolls, lol - but I've got enough to do without playing Sherlock Holmes on every post.

I figure if someone really believed in what they said about me, they'd say it with their real user name. This "I'm too scared to tell my real opinions on my other fake name" crap is bunk. Scared of what, exactly? Jail? Stoning? A spanking? Therefore, I figure insults from anonymous sources are like "Hey Baby!"s from passing cars - not even worth thinking about.

 

[Naked Hunny]

Ack.. WTF? Since when is it our job to judge what happesn in Rosie and Havocs home? If they want Nikki there that is their business. They decided to share it with their friends. I do believe that if anyone has a problem with their relationship they should talk to the three of them off the board addressing your concerns because all you are going to do this way is upset everyone.

 

[Wizard]

I Agree, let let Havco and Rosebud worry about themselfs and Xander and Angel as well we don't know what they know so lets let them deal with this without the board telling them what they "should " do....................

 

[Flagg]

Uncanny - this whole thread (and board?) is beginning to resemble a script from Sunset Beach.

Nicole did that and ooh Xander and Angelique are doing this and ooh Rosebud is married to him and he sleeps with her and blah blah bollocks. Don't you people have enough bitchiness and mundacity in your real lives without having to bring it all here?

And Carl - I know you mean well but just exactly how appropriate do you think it is to discuss someone else's relationship or lack of in a public forum?

None of us really know the whole story. Angelique could be a bitch. Xander could be a dickhead. They might both be wonderful people who just weren't meant for each other. Who fucking knows?!!

Leave the poor kids alone.

Back to more superfluous matters: Does anyone know which album has the song "The man I love" (no jokes please yes I am looking at you deb!) featured on it. I think its Gershwin but I'm not sure.

Heard it the other day and loved it. Weird 'cos its really not me.

 

[insideShiraz]

Hello, Good Sir Carl East...

Sorry X-Man and Angelique..."Only Time Will Tell" (Asia)...

Flagg, I think the album was Rick James when Neil Young was in the band...Hi Cheyenne

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Hello, Good Sir Carl East...

Sorry X-Man and Angelique..."Only Time Will Tell" (Asia)...

Flagg, I think the album was Rick James when Neil Young was in the band...Hi Cheyenne

Hi Shiraz. Welcome back.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

"Lovin that man of mine..." is a lyric from a song in Showboat. "Fish gotta' swim, birds gotta' fly...." etc. That what you thinking of? I can't remember a Gershwin tune called "The Man I Love".

 

[Siren]

Yes there is a Gershwin song called "The man I love"

 

[Flagg]

That's the one! Cheers Siren. I know I probably shouldn't be asking you any favours but any idea what record its on?

 

[Siren]

Bingo!!!