And your kink is....?

[MissTaken]

What is your kink? This has been done, but with all the new faces, it seemed appropriate to throw it out there again.

I have many kinks, but believe we all have a bit of something somewhere that would be identified as a kink.

So tell me....

Disclose....

And if you aren't sure if it is kink, well just ask?

 

[tastygroove]

kink

Well, I have many and it's hard to narrow it down to just one. But, if I has to pick one, my fav would be my fetish with lingerie. I have found that some women like wearing it, and some dont. It's not a prerequisite for me by any means, but it just turns me on to no end to see a woman in stockings, garter belt, etc. Love it.

Kinda mild I know, but it's the truth.

 

[MissTaken]

Just wondering....

would it be helpful if I posted a link to a checklist?

To be honest, many of my kinks I never considered kinks until I started engaging in certain activities. I found the checklist helpful, and affirming. Sometimes, we feel badly about the things that turn us on....

Hmmmm any thoughts?

 

[tastygroove]

checklist

Well, I'm new here misstaken, but a checklist sounds like it might be a good idea.

My two cents.

 

[knightstalker]

Does loving to suck on womens toes count as a kink ..I was with a lady a while back and I lifted her legs up high as we were going at it and her foot was right there so as I was fucking her I started to suck her toes to ..After wards she said that was the kinkiest thing she ever had done..I was thinking she hadnt gotten around much because I didnt think it was all that kinky just a bit erotic..

 

[MissTaken]

Foot worship is a kink.

It would depend on the circumstances if sucking her toes qualifies...

IMHO

But, on the other hand, kink really is based on individual perceptions.

So, if sucking her toes was kinky for her....sure!

 

[Lady_Sam]

Hmmmm well I like messy sex Then again its been so long any sex would seem like a kink to me

 

[MissTaken]

Here is a checklist. (A short one!)


I hope it gives you some ideas.

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Take your time for this and consider each question, situation or indication carefully before answering.

Are there any specific types of people that turn you on?
[ ] Soldiers, marines, paratroopers
[ ] Sailors, coast guard, merchant marine
[ ] Airmen, pilots
[ ] Policemen, security people
[ ] Truck drivers
[ ] Firemen
[ ] Executioners
[ ] Nurses, doctors
[ ] Prostitutes, tramps
[ ] Hunters
[ ] Wrestlers
[ ] Surfers, life guards
[ ] Motorcycle people, Hells Angels
[ ] Cowboys, farm boys
[ ] Gentlemen, nobility
[ ] Business people, yuppies, managers
[ ] Servants
[ ] Teachers
[ ] Daddy, uncle
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Which of the following scenes would turn you on?
[ ] Having a romantic dinner by candlelight
[ ] I am spanked because I have been a naughty girl
[ ] I am in the woods and suddenly this man comes from behind and grabs me
[ ] A stranger walks into my bedroom and finds me playing with myself
[ ] My partner and I are making love in a public place
[ ] I am are sold on a slave market
[ ] I am used as a slave in public
[ ] I am used as a slave in private
[ ] I am ordered to please others
[ ] I am a little schoolgirl
[ ] I am sitting/kneeling at my Master's feet
[ ] I am are tied and teased
[ ] I am grabbed by the hair and dragged into the bedroom
[ ] I am used as a dog, pony or pet
[ ] I am verbally humiliated
[ ] I am tied, gagged and blindfolded and left alone
[ ] I am tied, gagged, blindfolded and thoroughly whipped
[ ] My physical limits are tested and stretched
[ ] My mental limits are tested and stretched
[ ] I have to sign a contract
[ ] I am a total slave every day of the week
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Is there any particular clothing or fabric that turns you on?
[ ] Leather
[ ] Rubber, latex
[ ] Patent leather, PVC
[ ] Sexy lingerie
[ ] Uniforms
[ ] Denim
[ ] High Heels
[ ] Boots
[ ] Wet suits
[ ] Servants uniform
[ ] Masks
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Do any of the following environments or scenery turn you on?
[ ] Your bedroom
[ ] A dungeon, castle
[ ] Churches and abbeys
[ ] Farms and stables
[ ] Barracks
[ ] Abandoned construction sites
[ ] Back alleys
[ ] The red light district
[ ] A school or a classroom
[ ] BDSM-clubs
[ ] Estates
[ ] Junkyards and car dumps
[ ] Woods and forests
[ ] Medieval scenery
[ ] Nudist beaches
[ ] Parking spaces
[ ] Truck stops
[ ] The bath room
[ ] Hospital, dentist
[ ] Interrogation room
[ ] The shrink's couch
[ ] Boot camp
[ ] Jail, police station
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I enjoy the following psychodrama(s):
[ ] The dominant talks, the submissive is silent or speaks only when spoken to
[ ] Dialogue in normal language
[ ] Dialogue in adapted language ("Master" and "slave")
[ ] Obey rules or else
[ ] Reasonable rules
[ ] Unreasonable rules
[ ] It is OK for the dominant to loose his temper
[ ] Swearing and filthy talk
[ ] Military/jail type commands
[ ] Strict training
[ ] Obvious and explicit role play
[ ] Subtle role play
[ ] I like to be persuaded, rather than commanded
[ ] Make me feel guilty
[ ] Make me feel cheap
[ ] Make me feel used
[ ] Make me feel owned
[ ] Make me feel useless
[ ] Objectify me
[ ] The dominant must have compassion
[ ] The dominant must have no compassion at all
[ ] The dominant must only have compassion after the scene
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Sex and sexuality
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused when in scene
[ ] I need to be sexually aroused before I enter into a scene
[ ] I like as many orgasms as I can get
[ ] An orgasm turns me off
[ ] An orgasm must only be allowed as a reward
[ ] An orgasm is a must to end the scene
[ ] Orgasms are not important, but nice
[ ] Orgasms are not important at all
[ ] I want to beg for an orgasm first
[ ] I want my sexual abilities to be stretched
[ ] I want/need sex during a scene
[ ] I want no sex during a scene
[ ] Sex should be used to relieve the tension
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

I love the following attributes
[ ] Ropes
[ ] Leather cuffs and belts
[ ] Steel cuffs and chains
[ ] Ball and chain
[ ] Blindfold
[ ] Gags
[ ] Masks
[ ] Nipple clamps and clothespins
[ ] Whips
[ ] Riding crops
[ ] Canes
[ ] Silk to be tied with
[ ] Sex toys (vibrators, butt plugs)
[ ] Needles and pins
[ ] Cross, rack
[ ] Bondage table
[ ] Cage
[ ] Sling
[ ] Body bag
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

The following scenes appeal to me:
[ ] Being tied up, caressed and loved
[ ] Being in a public place and dominated in a subtle way
[ ] Being taken out with collar and leash
[ ] Being locked up and left alone
[ ] Being tied up in a comfortable position
[ ] Being tied up in discomfort
[ ] Being tied up and (in a sexual way) exposed
[ ] Being tied up and tickled
[ ] Being tied up and (sexually) teased
[ ] Being tied up and whipped, flogged or caned
[ ] Not being tied up, but verbally commanded into certain positions and having to maintain these
[ ] Caned, flogged or whipped without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being spanked in the traditional way
[ ] Rough sex/being "raped"
[ ] Used as a servant
[ ] Being tied and tortured
[ ] Being tortured without being tied or cuffed
[ ] Being used by more than one dominant
[ ] Playing in combination with other couples
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

Safe words and signals
[ ] The dominant should establish one or more safe words
[ ] When I cry, the scene should stop
[ ] I should be able to communicate in plain language
[ ] The dominant should be able to read my body language
[ ] I want to be tested when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] All activity should stop immediately when I use a safe word or signal
[ ] I do not want to use any safe word at all and my signals should be ignored completely
[ ] When I use a safe word or signal the dominant should establish if the scene can continue
[ ] A scene should go on up to the point where I use a safe word or signal
[ ] The use of safe words and signals should be avoided as much as possible
Others, please specify: ___________________________________

To me erotic power exchange is:
[ ] Something I like incidentally, just as a kick
[ ] Something I like, but not too often
[ ] Something I want as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that I consider important and want to practice as much as possible
[ ] A lifestyle that should be present at all times
[ ] My way of life
[ ] The most important thing I can think of
[ ] Something I want exercised at all times and no matter what the consequences are.
Others, please specify: ___________________________________


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[Lady_Sam]

Here is a checklist.

Please, don't be put off by the fact that it is located on a BDSM site.

Kink is kink....regardless of the context.

I hope it gives you some ideas.

http://www.fetishclub.com/exchange/bdsm-checklist.shtml

If it ever finishes loading I'll be able come up with a straight answer.

 

[sexyspank]

Guess !




Wendy

 

[Lady_Sam]

Guess !




Wendy

Um...sexy kissing?

 

[sexyspank]

Um...sexy kissing?

Mmm...that as well




Wendy

 

[Lady_Sam]

Mmm...that as well




Wendy

Wait wait...I know Wendy!! You like tickling!!!!

*is still waiting for that page to load up*

 

[sexyspank]

Wait wait...I know Wendy!! You like tickling!!!!

*is still waiting for that page to load up*

You're getting closer.

Just waiting to see what Sam's kink is


Wendy

 

[Lady_Sam]

You're getting closer.

Just waiting to see what Sam's kink is


Wendy

Silly page just won't load...maybe I'll just list some things I like and you all can tell me if it's a kink or not

I like to be blindfolded
I like to be tied up (ie satin ties but not into pain)
I like to be talked dirty to

I think those are enojgh for now

 

[sexyspank]

Silly page just won't load...maybe I'll just list some things I like and you all can tell me if it's a kink or not

I like to be blindfolded
I like to be tied up (ie satin ties but not into pain)
I like to be talked dirty to

I think those are enojgh for now

Seems pretty normal to me






Wendy

 

[MissTaken]

Silly page just won't load...maybe I'll just list some things I like and you all can tell me if it's a kink or not

I like to be blindfolded
I like to be tied up (ie satin ties but not into pain)
I like to be talked dirty to

I think those are enojgh for now

I just cut and pasted the checklist to the original post.



Silly me....could have done that the first time!

 

[Jewelz]

Ohh, hmmm...*getting excited*......

Its ordinary, and not necessarily qualifying as a kink per se.....but

I love soft touches, brushes of the skin to skin, moist lips between my shoulder blades and the small of my back....I am sensual so all that comes with it....i need it. Moaning....I love to hear it and I am a moaner.

And I love my nipples softly bitten!!!!

 

[MissTaken]

Kink or not....

that sounds absolutely lovely.


*hugs*

 

[sexyspank]

I just cut and pasted the checklist to the original post.



Silly me....could have done that the first time!

Perhaps you should have a spanking for not getting it right the first time Miss T





wendy

 

[MissTaken]

Perhaps you should have a spanking for not getting it right the first time Miss T





wendy

Are you sure you want to reward me for my carelessness?

 

[sexyspank]

Are you sure you want to reward me for my carelessness?

Absolutely





Wendy

 

[aramera]

KINK

Following as many threads on Literotica as I can.

 

[MissTaken]

Well, since there seem to be some fairly shy lit posters *cough*

I thought I would add a bit about my kinks:

Bondage: Bind me and blindfold me. Tease me, touch me and I am in heaven!

Breast play: The kinkier the better.

Role play: Well, if I know you well enough not to giggle through a role play, I can really enjoy it.

There are more.....but thought that would be start!

 

[RawHumor]

I lust after you... but that's not really a kink, is it?


I like to be dominant, sexually.

I enjoy slapping a sub's face with my hard cock, slapping her pussy or clit with my cock, slapping her pussy or clit with my hand, slapping her breasts, slapping her ass...

I enjoy nibbling nipples, biting them a bit, clamping them.

I enjoy hair-pulling, ass-slapping HARD fucking.

I like having my ass tongued, and enjoy doing that to her as well, assuming we're both clean.

I like having my balls licked, but not sure if that's really a kink.

I enjoy bondage and blindfolds, and to that end, I will allow myself to be the one who is bound.

There's probably more, but that's a decent start.