Analingus

[Guest]

My girlfriend and I have been toying with the idea of analingus (me giving, her recieving) for a little while, but we're a little concerned about the risks. Would anyone here be able to give us some info on what we should know before we go ahead with it. Or just direct us to somewhere where we could get some info. Thanks greatly.

 

[lilfrk]

Risk of what? If she's clean there should be no risk. If you're worried that she won't be clean, shower with her first and you do the scrubbing. Make it a long, slow, drawn out tease.

 

[DriveSouth]

Risk of what? If she's clean there should be no risk. If you're worried that she won't be clean, shower with her first and you do the scrubbing. Make it a long, slow, drawn out tease.

Make it a playful time-

 

[SexyChele]

As long as your partner is clean and disease-free, there are no risks. If you are unsure, or if she feels awkward (happens frequently if it her first time), a nice shower or bath beforehand can be just what you both need to ascertain that all is nice and clean.

Enjoy! And let her return the favor - you may be pleasantly surprised!

 

[Duo]

If only i was so lucky One thing i'd love to try but can't due to wife being straight as I havce to much sexual energy and things i want to try but can't ARGH...

Peter

 

[lilfrk]

I'm confused...What does your wife being straight have to do with it? I'm straight...ok maybe curved just a little...and I let my man do that to me. I also return the favor. Explain to me the straight thing please.

 

[Guest]

MHO

I think Duo meant "straigt laced", "prudish", "un sexually explorative".

 

[lilfrk]

Thank You.

I really need to learn another language besides American. Or sleep a little more so I'm not in such a fog all the time.

 

[Guest]

lilfrk

You speak American, eh?

 

[lilfrk]

Tiggs

Yep, I majored in English in high school. I did quite well with it too. But I speak American, at least that's what my favorite English teacher told me. I believed her.

 

[Duo]

Re: MHO

Thank You Tiggs,

I think Duo meant "straigt laced", "prudish", "un sexually explorative".

For clearing that up for lilfrk Hard as being aussie we tend to say or write things slighty diferent to what the US does. Hard with me being aussie and now living here

If you have trouble at all with some words just ask and i'll do my best to explian A imnot that good at putting words into meaningful posts at times

Peter

 

[Duo]

Re: Tiggs

Hi A

Yep, I majored in English in high school. I did quite well with it too. But I speak American, at least that's what my favorite English teacher told me. I believed her.

Yep you speak Americain i speak Australian with an accent Which SexyChele loves oh so much hey Chele

Peter

 

[lilfrk]

I have a friend from New Zealand and he says things that confuse me too. I just ask and get on with it. It's the best I can do. Thanks Duo for understanding.

 

[Guest]

Back To The Subject

I would like to recommend a universal technique that you may learn to really enjoy and can help you with the problem of germs.

After a good shower in which your orifice of affection has been thoroughly cleansed up to one or two knuckles deep, when you're ready to do the deed, get a shot of your favorite liquor, sponge a little on the outside with a lint-free cloth, and put the rest in your mouth. Swallow some for courage, and be sure the rest has coated your tongue. Then, if you wish to penetrate her with your tongue, you should have no problems with hygiene.

Contact to the kind of flesh that comprises the anal sphincter by anything containing alcohol causes a hot sensation which usually serves to enhance sexual pleasure. It's just like when you first sprayed cologne or perfume on your genitals (I'm sure we all have discovered that one at some point).

If you don't have any liquor, you can use a choice flavor of Listerine or comparable store brand mouthwash--stay away from Scope and their ilk, because they're less effective at killing germs--a strong sherry or red wine, or other alcoholic concoction, as long as it's strong and you both can handle it.

Bottoms up!

--SPR

 

[Duo]

Hi A,

I have a friend from New Zealand and he says things that confuse me too. I just ask and get on with it. It's the best I can do. Thanks Duo for understanding.

No problem at all i find i have to slow down when im talking as some think im talking non english at times But for the most part most understand me when i talk. Writing is also hard to do at times but i do my best to make my point.

Peter

 

[Gilly Bean]

Don't worry, Duo, you and I are in the same boat. Straight Laced partners.


Now, can someone help me figure out the quote add in thingy?


Gilly Bean

 

[Duo]

You also

Hi Jilly Bean,
QUOTE]Originally posted by Gilly Bean
Don't worry, Duo, you and I are in the same boat. Straight Laced partners.


Now, can someone help me figure out the quote add in thingy?


Gilly Bean

[/QUOTE]

I get so frustarted i almost quit posting here as its really driving me up the wall. Can tell by my posts that im ticked.

I'll try to help you on the Quote. Ok as you see i quoted your post. When i hit the quote button it came up like this:


Hi Jilly Bean,
QUOTE]Originally posted by Gilly Bean
Don't worry, Duo, you and I are in the same boat. Straight Laced partners.


Now, can someone help me figure out the quote add in thingy?


Gilly Bean

[/QUOTE]

I usually quote the whole msg if its short or if its long just cut out the irrevelant parts of the post. I hope i made this easy to understand as my mind is not to laert atm

Peter

 

[SexyChele]

G'day Peter!
I've found that I seem to have picked up an Aussie accent from this weekend - totally cool, as I do think it is one of the sexier ones. Especially in bed - OH YEAH!

Well - off to pleasant dreams!

Cheers!

 

[Duo]

G'day Chele,

G'day Peter!
I've found that I seem to have picked up an Aussie accent from this weekend - totally cool, as I do think it is one of the sexier ones. Especially in bed - OH YEAH!

Well - off to pleasant dreams!

Cheers!

My you even said G'day aswell it must be rubbing off on you Mine is not as strong as it was since i've now been living here 13 months.

OH YEAH - in bed i bet it was

Peter

 

[Guest]

You can wash all you want, but if she farts you are in trouble.

 

[Gilly Bean]

You can wash all you want, but if she farts you are in trouble.

Hmm... Yeah, but the same can happen if you go down on a girl, or if you are fingering her, or if you are fucking her. Most often, it doesn't, and if you are close enough to someone to try something new, chances are, you wouldn't care if she did, or not.


Gilly Bean

 

[cyndiesweet]

If she farts?

Ummm... are you speaking from experience or just supposing? Speaking from experience I/we have never had that problem.If you be sure to clean out first (yes I am speaking of an enema), and allow enough time to be sure you are truly empty, farting should not be a issue.Also, be sure to use a water based lubricant ( use lots esp. the first few times) they make all kinds. If you get the kind with the numbing stuff in it it kind of defeats the purpose. How can either of you enjoy it if you are numb? Another trick I have learned esp. if you are new to the game have a few drinks before hand, well the receiver mostly. It helps relax you mentally and physically.

On a different note, for you folks with the lack of adventure in your mates. Everyone has fantasies locked away in their heads, if your partners aren't playing then you may have a trust issue to deal with.You may have to work on that before you will get them to try something different.