Anal Virgin

[ariatemple]

hi all,

lately my boyfriend has suggested we try some anal. when we watch porn together it's always those scenes that get him most excited. I love him and I'm willing to try anything once but I'm a little frightened it's going to hurt too much. Is there anything I can do to help us along and really enjoy it?

thanx

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

make sure its what you really want, and go slow take your time

 

[ariatemple]

i think i'd like to try it.

recently he's started putting his finger in my ass when he's fucking me and I've really enjoyed that. but he has one of the biggest dicks of any i've seen so it'll be different from that experience i guess!

 

[Rantalith]

If you do a search here on anal, it will answer all your questions.

USe lots and lots and lots of lube. Go slow.

 

[ShyGuy68]

To me this site seems to offer a lot of good information http://www.sex-project.com/anal1.shtml

 

[lilnymph28]

The best advice I can give is take it slow, use lots and lots of lube, and try and relax and breathe. I still have to remind myself to relax, and it makes such a difference. Get yourself in a comfortable position, and it may help if you start out with fingers, or an anal plug to stretch you out as much as possible before he inserts his cock. Good luck!

 

[NurseJim]

Hope this helps...

This seems to be a common problem...Please read my post above to Delurker concerning Anal sex, and Pain.
I hope it will help you out a bit.....good luck.

NurseJim RN

 

[sxylipsnsxyhips]

Aria, thanks for posting as I am also curious about this. My new lover is in-experienced in this area and I, too, would like to know more about how to make this enjoyable for myself without the expected pain. In the past I've had a couple of guys attempt to penetrate me without taking the much needed time to stretch my muscles first, hence lots of pain!!! NurseJim offers good advice and direction. Let us know how it turns out for you. I am very interested in knowing if you become successful!

P.S. Shyguy- great site!