anal sex

[brandy222]

How about some advice on first time anal sex rfrom males or females

 

[bradley5620]

Brandy, according to my wife for well the first three years of our marriage said,,,your too big there is no way I can take that, we tried, but she never gave up,,,she says it is all about lubrication, angle, and most important, breathing and relaxation, she took her anxiety pill to relax her, now she finds that when she needs a mind blowing quick orgasm, she climbs on top of me and slowly, very slowly, gets the head of my cock in her, then, concentrates on her breathing, and slowly, inches onto me, once she gets it all the way in, she rests and gets her anal muscles used to my girth, then slowly she starts to grind, and before you know it she is riding me hard and fast and screaming for me to fuck her ass. HOpe that helps, have fun....

 

[ShyGuy68]

Head on over to the "how to" forum, and look in one of the stickys at the top of the forum, there's lots of info there for you

 

[schaum_m]

Use lots of lube and find a guy who is slow and gentle. It can be really nice.

 

[silverwhisper]

you must not have seen the blank manual thread, which is sticked at the top of the list of discussions.

you specifically should look at this] post, #2 in the thread.

but in short: when doing anal, you need lube. silicone is generally more expensive but provides better, more consistent results. using a condom ensures quick clean-up after. and whatever you do, don't get anything that numbs (e.g., anal-eze, etc): that stuff is worse than useless, it's potentially harmful.

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[tocurpussy]

Like mentioned above, use plenty of lube, be relaxed and by all mean's go slowly. My significant other half claim's that by playing with anal bead's for a bit before hand help's her to relax her muscles in that area and makes penetration a little easier. This work's for her, so maybe might for you also. But use lube and more lube