Anal sex

[DVS]

I don't think I'm going to get an answer to my question. *sigh*

I just want to know if "key" means he fucks her in the butt a lot.

I'm not that good at different languages, but isn't "key" yes in some language?

 

[DVS]

Maybe he uses her butt to try to open doors?

Sudden mental image of picking up a cute girl and squishing her butt against the door handle... yum!

I was thinking more about someone looking for a woman with "junk in the trunk"...sort of the brute force approach to opening doors. No key necessary.

 

[DVS]

What I meant was that having my anus penetrated is so commonplace and without pain I don't feel dominated by the activity, bound or unbound. Of course, if I am "forced" to surrender my anus to a Master (or a Mistress with a dildo) there is a feeling of being used or abused, but I find it difficult to "believe" I am being dominated.

Doubting Jena

It's a stretch for me but I could see how someone could consider bondage and forced anal sex alone as abuse.

Domination requires a mental image. Create the atmosphere...paint the picture for her:
Just enough mental and physical torment, maybe a whisper or two about how she looks so helpless while tweaking her clit just enough to confuse. Watching her squirm in position as the excess lube oozes down the crack of her ass and drool drips down her chin from the ball gag...

 

[DVS]

Agreed. On the other hand, "greek" has been practiced for thousands of years (after all, Sodomy is named after a story in the old testament.) I suspect you could claim the same for cunnilinguis though, and I tend to practice that even more than anal sex. Maybe one day I'll get it right?

"Greek" has taken its time finding a home, here in America. We've had such a vanilla law system, my generation grew up thinking anal sex was taboo, and probably partly because of the Bible. I don't enjoy cunnilingus as much as anal sex. Too many teeth. The woman gets overly excited and...

I think one or two of us have noticed that about you.

Something I've always been quite proud of for reasons I can't explain. If you call me anything, call me knowledgeable of my craft.

Damn, I wish I could introduce you to my lover. She gets the most intense orgasms from anal sex, and will beg me for it at times. Life is good! I think she'd miss the other bits not getting played with though, especially nipple torture.

I've only had one lover who could cum from anal sex. Most of the time, they get totally aroused, but with no stimulation of clit or vagina, I enjoy the added torment and control I have.

I had one woman who loved being bound and taken in the ass very much. Her orgasm just built up more and more. So, when I've reached around and touched her clit it was like I was riding a bronco. Oh, now that was fun.

 

[DVS]

So on the flipside, I wouldn't want to submit to a man who had no interest in taking my ass. I enjoy anal and because I'm maso as well as sub, I enjoy the pain too. G has a strap on that she's used in the past and while it's not the same as an actual penis, sometimes I really need that itch scratched and she needs to penetrate me and cause me pain. I would go so far as to say that pain in central to my enjoyment of anal. Too much lube and gentleness would leave me frustrated and unsatisfied. Yes, there are risks to painful anal but they're my risks to take. I also like not knowing whether she will cause enough pain to arouse me or go all out and have me begging for mercy. For me, it's a big power thing.

So there are variations. Anal doesn't have to be painful and not all subs are into pain. Not all painwhores are submissive. It all depends on what a person's wants and needs are, what the two people involved stand to gain from the experience.

If I smoked cigarettes, right now I'd be leaning back and smoking one.

 

[LadyC]

Both my girls (Jena and Kay) are so accustomed to anal sex outside bondage, I verbally abuse them when one of my gentleman friends takes them anally. I use the word asshole rather than anus and tell them how filthy and slutty they are for enjoying such sex. Sometimes my verbal abuse becomes so nasty I bring Kay to tears....which I love to kiss away because they taste so good.

Lady Claire