Anal sex

"Normal people"? Hhmmm....who wants to be "normal"?

*I* enjoy anal sex. Yes, it hurts getting it in there, but, then it just feels good! No, I don't orgasm that way....but, then I don't orgasm from many things I do just cause they feel good! The guy likes it cause it's much tighter than a pussy. As far as getting shit on your dick...it washes off! You can always wear a condom.
 
I don't understand the stigma surrounding anal sex in some peoples' minds. Not that your opinion is wrong in any way.

I guess I'm of the opinion "Don't knock it 'til you've tried it with a capable, patient, and loving partner."

My J, after anal sex, has never had shit "all over" his penis. If one was to worry a lot about that factor, then there are enemas and other ways to cleanse yourself beforehand.

I have orgasmed from anal intercourse. Not every time, and surely not when he's not careful or gentle in the beginning. But I have, and do.

It can be painful when he wishes it to. And that is sometimes part of our play. I am almost always sore for a day or two afterwards, but it is a good sore. One that makes me smile with lust every time I sit down.

We like it. I have written about it. I hate it from the front but others love it. It all boils down to personal opinion and comfort level. There are plenty of people who just can't wrap their minds around it and will never do it. I can only hope that with time and understanding of the act, more people can decide that it might be for them and at least try it.

My three.
Ang
 
msbator said:
I love reading erotic stories, but lately have been disturbed by the fact that the story always ends up with the female being fucked in the ass.
First of all, I think that it would painful for the female and seriously doubt that she would enjoy the act, nor could she orgasm from that kind of intercourse.
Secondly, I can't imagine a male enjoying having shit all over his penis, which is digusting even to think about.
Do normal people really do this and if so, why?

Okay...I will agree that erotica seems to be moving more and more toward anal sex...that's mostly because, in the professional market, anal sex stories sell MUCH better than just straight vaginal sex.

That said...in answer to your questions:

I love anal. It might be painful, it might not be...but I love it either way. It feels great. And yes, I DO orgasm from it...quite often, in fact. I have the hardest orgasms that way.

I was never with a man who had 'shit all over his penis'. It just doesn't happen that way. If you are clean to begin with, then there is pretty much no mess at all. And if there is? Hell, use a condom. No big deal.

All facets of sex are beautiful, in my opinion. Every single act can be elevated to something memorable and wonderful. It just takes a sexual openness and a willing mind.

S.
 
Don't worry about the "poop", dude.

Sex is generally messy in one way or the other...

You could always do it in the shower, yah? Nice and clean!
 
msbator said:
I love reading erotic stories, but lately have been disturbed by the fact that the story always ends up with the female being fucked in the ass.
First of all, I think that it would painful for the female and seriously doubt that she would enjoy the act, nor could she orgasm from that kind of intercourse.
Secondly, I can't imagine a male enjoying having shit all over his penis, which is digusting even to think about.
Do normal people really do this and if so, why?

hell YES, normal people do this!

in fact, if i could have it anal every time, i'd be one very happy lady!!!
there's something so deliciously naughty and totally erotic about opening myself up that way....

not to mention that the orgasms are, quite simply, awesome.

:D

oh, and no, it's not painful (unless i ask him to make it so!)
 
Like most of the posters in this thread, I love anal sex. For me the small amount of pain is part of the pleasure. And feeling sore for a couple of days is just a very erotic reminder.

But while we're talking anal sex, I have a question to pose. The last couple of times I've had anal sex, I've squirted. I was in the usual doggy style position each time.

So... has anyone else here squirted with anal sex, and does anyone understand why it happened? Each time there was no doubt that I had squirted... there was a large amount of liquid.

Has anyone had a similar occurrence?
 
My wife and I have anal sex regularly and it does not hurt her if I go easy and take my time and slowly get her loosened up and really wet and horny.You don't just slam it in and go for it.Lick around and use fingers to loosen her up then slowly slide my cock in her.She loves it when I take long slow strokes and she cums everytime we do it.Lately she prefers anal to vaginal sex.What a lucky man I am.Plus it is not that messy especially if you use an enema first
 
Just have to agree with the other replies ... i love anal sex! And i am sorry, but i had to laugh when i read "Do normal people really do this?" Define normal!? :)

First of all, I think that it would painful for the female and seriously doubt that she would enjoy the act, nor could she orgasm from that kind of intercourse.
Well, it can be painful at first (but that isn't necessarily a bad thing, at least for me!). But my lover uses his fingers to loosen me up (and lube) and begins slowly and allows me to relax to the feel of him .... whew, then it is terrific! Yes, i have had orgasms from anal sex that have been pretty intense. At times i have remained a bit sore afterwards, but as celticfrog said ... it is a good kind of sore.

Secondly, I can't imagine a male enjoying having shit all over his penis, which is digusting even to think about.
And i think this is the area where so many, as you would say "normal", people have their concern. No, this has never been a problem for me ... at times i have given myself an enema earlier in the day if i knew we would be having sex later and wanted to be ready for every possibility ;)
 
msbator said:
I love reading erotic stories, but lately have been disturbed by the fact that the story always ends up with the female being fucked in the ass.
First of all, I think that it would painful for the female and seriously doubt that she would enjoy the act, nor could she orgasm from that kind of intercourse.
Secondly, I can't imagine a male enjoying having shit all over his penis, which is digusting even to think about.
Do normal people really do this and if so, why?


why be so close-minded? If you stick around here long enough and read and listen to people i think your view will change about a lot of things


some people do, some people dont
some people drink and some people dont
some people like to get high and some wont
cause its ok.... its supposed to be that way

- Dave Mathews Band
 
msbator said:
I love reading erotic stories, but lately have been disturbed by the fact that the story always ends up with the female being fucked in the ass.
First of all, I think that it would painful for the female and seriously doubt that she would enjoy the act, nor could she orgasm from that kind of intercourse.
Secondly, I can't imagine a male enjoying having shit all over his penis, which is digusting even to think about.
Do normal people really do this and if so, why?

From the sounds of it, you've never tried it.

Obviously there are people here who have and can speak from their experiences as to their enjoyment of it. And to cast everyone into that category of "normal people" speaks of your ignorance.
 
Anal to me is a huge turn on... maybe specifically because I used to associate it with something taboo, something way-out-there kinky, something painful and disgusting... you know how it is, once you find yourself turned on by something "bad", and admit to yourself that you like it, it becomes the greatest turn-on ever!


One question on my mind right now it - the gaping assholes, as seen in a lot of anal porn - is that a sign that the woman's ass is relaxed, and therefore it's not painful? Or is that a sign that she's just had a large object in her ass and it's stretched out outta control?
 
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It feels better than vaginal sex to me, and I LOVE pussy sex! :D

You can buy an anal douche at sex shops to avoid having "brown" on your lover's cock.
 
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Lorrie Flash said:
It feels better than vaginal sex to me, and I LOVE pussy sex! :D

so then which do you have more of - vaginal or anal?
 
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Good question.

I still have more vaginal sex. Anal sex is still very new for me. It was also the first time my two lovers had ever fucked a person in the ass.

They loved it and want to do it again. So as time goes on, maybe I might have more anal than vaginal.
 
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