anal sex

[MyMascara]

hi, everyone. you've all been really helpful to me in the past, so i'm hoping now that you won't let me down!
okay, well, my question is about anal sex. is baby oil all right to use as a lube?
also, could anyone shed some light onto anal sex for me? what does is feel like? does it hurt? any do's or don'ts? thanks, in advance!

 

[Guest]

 

[Lust Engine]

Go with a water based lube. So much easier to wash off afterwards.

 

[Hexiegirl]

Anal sex is great! You need to make sure that she is very relaxed at first though, so that the muscles relax~

 

[sinnndy]

KY jelly works for me, you can find it at almost any grocery store and pharmacy, i wouldn't use baby oil, especially if neither of you is inexperienced. The whole key for a woman to enjoy anal sex is for one, lots of lube at first, and two, relaxing the sphincter and keeping it wide open. if you tense up, then anal sex can be extremely painful, but if you learn to relax, then anal sex can be better than vaginal sex. There are more never endings in a womans rectum than on any other body part except her clitoris.

 

[OnyxEros]

I think oil based lube's are the best if you are not using a condom. Now if you arn't using a condom then there are some other issues that go beyond anal sex. I will further assume you are doing this with a partner that you trust completely and plan on being with for a while.

If that is the case then what you have to understand is that you will not have "anal sex" your first time out. It will take may attempts to make sure you are relaxed and that your partner is patient.

I suggest being fingered anally first to begin to understand the sensation. If you continue further make sure your partner understands 2 key thing:

1. He should not attempt in any shape or form to orgasm the first few times you two try it.

2. If you are uncomfortable in any way shape or form your body will tell you. This means it's time to stop.

Happy loving, have fun
O

 

[ullr]

But, seriously folks...!

Haven't you (others) used lost of different kinds of lube in a pinch (so to speak)?
SURE--I've used baby oil, cold cream, olive oil--and I've seen motor oil used--hey, soap and water works great--not to mention her own jucies!

I think most are thinking about experimental anal sex or else regular oil for this purpose. (When the mood fits, improvise. That's my vote.)

--Orson

 

[Guest]

okay, well, my question is about anal sex. is baby oil all right to use as a lube?

Okay, forgive my ignorance here since our paths have never crossed...but, are you male or female and are you looking to give or receive anal?

Depending on who your partner is (a spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, or random lover) and if you need/want to use a condom or not, baby oil, or any oil, can be a good lubricant. Oil is slick and slippery, and unlike a water based lube, it doesn't dry up. (Not to mention, oils are good for the skin.)

If you want/need to use condoms, DON'T use an oil based lube!!! Oil will break down the latex!

also, could anyone shed some light onto anal sex for me? what does is feel like? does it hurt? any do's or don'ts? thanks, in advance!

To me, anal sex feels wonderful! I have stronger, better orgasms through anal sex than I do vaginal sex. For me, it's a tighter hole, as I'm sure it is for most. (lol) And, if the man is well endowed there is mild pain along the anus as I try to adjust to his size.

 

[Mesmerize]

Doesn't anal sex get kind of dirty? Since... well... you're putting something into your rectum.

 

[Lust Engine]

Doesn't anal sex get kind of dirty? Since... well... you're putting something into your rectum.

That's what the enema beforehand is supposed to take care of.

 

[ukwriter]

If your trying this out, one important tip. Never move straight from her ass to her vagina. This could give her one hell of anasty infection. Be a gent and wash first. Or use condoms, remembering to change between holes.