Anal sex the first time?

[penguindance]

 

[Guest]

 

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[HeavyStick]

lots of lube, condom, patience

 

[Sandia]

I've never had anal sex. Is it fun?

"lots of lube, condom, and patience" doesn't sound fun...

 

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[Guru]

 

[HeavyStick]

But the first time?

(Or shall I say BUTT the first time? )

patience, lube.

try your fingers to get an idea, go from that

 

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[Nomadic Lady]

No. Do not know them well enough to trust if they will stop or slow down if I asked them to.

 

[kiwiwolf]

Anyone else? Boys?

Nope. Not the first time in bed with a woman anyway. It takes a fair bit of trust on the part of both parties and you need a bit of familiarity with your partners reactions. If she bucks the wrong way at the wrong time... lets just say the idea brings tears to my eyes.

 

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[MechaBlade]

When I finally have anal sex it must meet one of three conditions:
1. I am very comfortable with her and the settings.
2. She wants it and she is experienced with it.
3. She wants it and she is drop dead gorgeous.

and just so I don't perjure myself in case it happens, I must add four:
4. In the mood for butt lovin'.

 

[HeavyStick]

A friend and I were discussing it, and I wondered what y'all thought about it. Is it appropriate the first time you are with someone, or is it more a relationship thing, something you do with someone you have been with a while and you are comfortable with?

sex is sex, trust is all that matters

 

[kiwiwolf]

When I finally have anal sex it must meet one of three conditions:
1. I am very comfortable with her and the settings.
2. She wants it and she is experienced with it.
3. She wants it and she is drop dead gorgeous.

and just so I don't perjure myself in case it happens, I must add four:
4. In the mood for butt lovin'.

LMAO... good answer dude.

 

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[TN_Vixen]

If I were a guy? I'd be very worried if the first time I had sex with a person, they begged for it up the ass. That would definitely be considered a neon "red flag"

 

[Guru]

 

[marksgirl]

Anal is a time trust thing. Now I love it, crave it. Only with someone I totally trust. Nothing better. Only with someone I love. I've only done it with #1.

 

[HeavyStick]

Anal is a time trust thing. Now I love it, crave it. Only with someone I totally trust. Nothing better. Only with someone I love. I've only done it with #1.

nice

 

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[Liontamr]

It would take a few times of being in bed with the same person and learning what works and what doesn't before I get comfortable with the thought of anal.. I'd love to try it sometime and to be honest I've read a fair bit about it.. So as long as I was with someone who I loved and trusted and who loved and trusted me, I'd have no problems.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

Nah

Nah, I can't say that I would have anal sex the first time I was with a woman. Not to say that I wouldn't

It's that my conventional thinking would be to have straight sex the first time.

PowrDragn

 

[Guest]

Is anal sex something you would try with someone the first time you are together (whether it be a one-night stand or not), or is it more of an intimate thing you would do with someone you are more comfortable with only?

Pretty_lil_stranger~

to answer your question I would have to say someone
I am comfortable with. That knows what they are doing
and will respect if I don't agree with the way things are running