Anal Sex Stories

[maggie2002]

O.K. I don't know if this is where this belongs but its feedback about anal stories in general and so on my soapbox I go and here 'tis!

The public in general reads our stories, the stupid ill educated don't know any better about sex except what they read here or see in xxx rated movies. Sometimes the educated readers don't either should keep all things equal here.

Why oh why please God explain to me. Why does an educated writer who should know better even if they have never had anal sex wants to perpetrate the idea it has to be painful and the woman or man receiving it should just live with it so the other person gets his jollies is beyond my comprehension.

Anal sex isn't a one night shot, it isn't a wham bam thank you ma'am type of sexual activity. It takes truth and preperation. You have to stretch the oriface intended for use, you have to have sufficient lubrication and honey that ain't spit or joy juice. So why do we make it sound like it is.

Is it that it isn't as hot or exciting if the person giving the anal sex takes time to be considerate? I understand in a rape perhaps the man would be rough but it hurts the person who attempts anal sex as well if he is not lubricated as well as the receiver so some attempt should be made to show it like it is.

Think how many people we could educate, think how many people would avoid medical problems if as a rule it was portrayed as it should be done or yeah! and well I am on the subject Please God lets not have the man remove his cock from her ass or his ass and then place it in the receivers mouth. Come on! At least have him make her or him wash it off just as humiliating asnd much more sanitary and I don't care how many enema's they had.

O.K. I am done for the day This was all brought on by a really good story by a new writer that was ruined by the pain and torture of the anal scene.

Let me know am I wrong do other people find this tittalating? Give it to me if you think I need it or let me and others know you agree and next time you say he pushed his cock against her/his winking anal star remember my words and be nice

 

[alias_the_archangel]

my thoughts on the topic

Well I for one am a particular fan of anal, both giving and receiving. Therefore I can empathize with the preparations needed for a good, thorough ass-fucking
However, I must also state that I also believe I may be one of those writers who might leave that out. I'm going to have to go back through some of My Submissions to see for sure, but I'm fairly certain that I haven't taken the time to put that into my submissions. (Also noting that I haven't put many characters in stories which haven't had prior anal experience, nor are any of my stories extremely long.) I think the reason for this is partly that I look at stories in a particular way when I write them. Basically, after the plot is set and characters have been introduced, and sexual acts have begun, what follows is a streamline of sexual events. Placing the preparation in there might break the flow. However, I am only one writer with my own style, and everyone is different.

I do enjoy reading many other author's stories in which there are breaks or more story development, however that is simply not how I choose to write an erotic story. In a sense, I guess you could say that my style follows the generic XXX movie formula, as you mentioned most are already familiar with.
So, while I can appreciate what you are saying, I'm also not one to mind the sudden intrusion of a fantastical event within a story. So while I ponder just how much story, reality, and preparational detail I should include in my own writing, I'll leave you with something to ponder as well: Are you reading for eroticism, or are you reading to see what you can do yourself?
I choose the first So thanks for the poll, and the point to ponder, and I'll be hearing from you...

- alias_the_archangel
My Stories

 

[Honey123]

Hmm...well, I actually do enjoy anal sex....you are right, it is not something that is enjoyable at first and quite frankly prefer it on a Friday night rather than during the week...Do I get off on it? Definately. I get the best orgasm from it. Does it hurt? Definately. But after the first push or so, it becomes enjoyable, nasty, taboo...Once you keep saying "Pain is pleasure, Pain is pleasure...." over an over again in your mind, eventually you believe it. LOL

Seriously, anal sex is fun, especially if you learn to enjoy it. Men get off on it. I have asked my male friends and they think it is incredible. They last only about 5 minutes, which is the most you can handle it anyway after your orgasm.

The anal sex stories I have written do not indicate that it is immediately gratifying...but the result always is.

 

[maggie2002]

reply to archangel and honey

thanks for taking the time to reply. Archangel I like your stories I especially liked the latest one. I think your points are good and well taken. I still disagree. If the story doesn't allow the preparation stage and some don't then at least post a note saying This is fantasy In Reality read a book Learn how to do it right. Honey anal sex should never hurt!! If it does something is being done wrong. Please take time to use more lube or stretch more or something and I agree Nothing like it

 

[Honey123]

I don't mean hurt in the "Oh My God my ass is being ripped to shreds" pain!! But the first initial entry is somewhat uncomfortable. Truth be told, I like it done with a condom. But when the the guy is thick or big, well, there will be some uncomfort.

 

[Boxlicker101]

O.K. I don't know if this is where this belongs but its feedback about anal stories in general and so on my soapbox I go and here 'tis!

The public in general reads our stories, the stupid ill educated don't know any better about sex except what they read here or see in xxx rated movies. Sometimes the educated readers don't either should keep all things equal here.

Why oh why please God explain to me. Why does an educated writer who should know better even if they have never had anal sex wants to perpetrate the idea it has to be painful and the woman or man receiving it should just live with it so the other person gets his jollies is beyond my comprehension.

Anal sex isn't a one night shot, it isn't a wham bam thank you ma'am type of sexual activity. It takes truth and preperation. You have to stretch the oriface intended for use, you have to have sufficient lubrication and honey that ain't spit or joy juice. So why do we make it sound like it is.

Is it that it isn't as hot or exciting if the person giving the anal sex takes time to be considerate? I understand in a rape perhaps the man would be rough but it hurts the person who attempts anal sex as well if he is not lubricated as well as the receiver so some attempt should be made to show it like it is.

Think how many people we could educate, think how many people would avoid medical problems if as a rule it was portrayed as it should be done or yeah! and well I am on the subject Please God lets not have the man remove his cock from her ass or his ass and then place it in the receivers mouth. Come on! At least have him make her or him wash it off just as humiliating asnd much more sanitary and I don't care how many enema's they had.

O.K. I am done for the day This was all brought on by a really good story by a new writer that was ruined by the pain and torture of the anal scene.

Let me know am I wrong do other people find this tittalating? Give it to me if you think I need it or let me and others know you agree and next time you say he pushed his cock against her/his winking anal star remember my words and be nice

I have to take some exception to what you said here. I only have five stories listed in the "anal" category but I include anal sex in about thirty altogether and I always have the characters use plenty of lube and condoms. There is usually some initial pain described by the woman or man at the time of insertion but she always also describes it as becoming pure pleasure by the time penetration is complete.

In my novella, "Karen's birthday" there is a description of anal sex for the first time that could be described as a primer on how to do it.

 

[Green_Gem]

Maggie,

I've written stories which feature anal scenes and while I try to make it as realistic as possible, I can't agree with your statement about how we could/should educate people, or as you put it " the stupid ill educated people who don't know any better about sex except what they read here or see in xxx rated movies".

I personally don't think the majority of people who read stories here are either stupid or ill educated, and they certainly don't come to the site to learn how to have sex. My view is they read to get off on the fantasy of it all, to live vicariously through the characters portrayed in the stories. And let's be honest, most erotica is fantasy. In real life, woman don't have screaming multiple orgasms every time they have sex, all men don't have big thick cocks that can go on and on forever and strangers don't automatically become lovers who repressed women submit completely blindly and orgiastically to. In the real world rape is a horrific and unforgivable crime against women. Here, it is seen as 'a fantasy of control' where the 'victim' always, always climaxes.

In any event, my view as a writer here, is that I try to make my stories as realistic as possible, through use of characterization, conflict and the build up of sexual tension which culminates in hot sex. I never think of writing in such a manner as to be educational or sexually cautious. I assume that people who read my stories know that they are works of fiction and enjoy them as such.

Green_Gem

 

[steve w]

Most of my stories have anal sex in them. I don't really consider it my role to be telling people how to have anal sex, any more than I should be giving them a lecture on how to avoid pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, or anything else that lies outside the fantasy world we create for our readers.

Your concern for the welfare of readers in general is very laudible (notwithstanding your description of their intellect and motives), but I think most people read for something outside of everyday life. I also think most people have the intelligence to separate fiction from what is possible, probable, or desirable, in everyday life. If not, we'd have hundreds of people practising amateur surgery after every episode of ER.

There's no saving some people from themselves. Lawyers make a fat living picking up the pieces after people like that. I think the Literotica "house rules" do an admirable job in providing reasonable boundaries, within which adults can enjoy themselves with erotic thoughts and words. A little realism can add to a story, but a lot of it probably wouldn't work.

 

[SummerElizabeth8]

I think perhaps that you may do a disservice to readers when you insult their intelligence. In my experience, people who are just looking for jack off material do not frequent erotic literary websites. There are thousands of pic and video sites that provide instant gratification for that. A story makes you think, forces you to use your imagination, lets you be free within your mind. That is the beauty of fantasy. I would NEVER NEVER NEVER advocate rape, unwanted violence, or even the incest that I portray in the story that I have posted. I think most literotica readers are smart enough to know the difference between fantasy and reality.

 

[maggie2002]

my answers

Hey in the matter of what I wrote. I to happen to think most of the people on this site are quite intelligent. Some are exceptional just to name a few! Nope btter not do thatlol! ANyway TO those who replied Thank you!

If anyone stops to think a minute and remembers to include the cock was washed or the hands were on lube was grabbed and applied or even if some stretching occurs I have done my job.

That makes me happy I understand fantasy Some of what I write will never be read here but on the porno sites that purchase it they love it. No before you ask my name isn't on it Anyway who would believe a little old catholic lady in the country would write ithehe!

I would never tell you what to write or how. I would never tell you what or how to have sex either or with how many of what variety. To each his own.

May your muse nestle close beside you, may all you write be good and may the next publisher you send something to think he or she has found the next Anne Rice or Stephen King;-)

 

[WhiteKnight]

My thoughts pretty much echo Green_Gem .

Isn't the poll at the top asking the same question though? Anal sex stories are ok as they are and its not our job to worry? The two answers are not exclusive?

 

[KenJames]

I always try to be realistic when I depict anal sex in my stories. If done properly, it shouldn't be painful. There might be a little discomfort, but that's fleeting and outweighed by the pleasure and excitement.

Of course, I'm bi and enjoy being on either end (pun intended), so that informs my perspective.

 

[Guest]

Most of my stories

contain anal play. (What can I say?)

At any rate, I think the function of stories on Lit should be for entertainment. Unless it is a How-to category story, folks don't want a lesson about how to insert Tab A into Slot B.

Besides, the people who tend to read for stroke purposes alone are probably the same ones who believe sex in real life happens exactly the way it does in porno flicks. *grin*

But as has been previously stated on this thread we shouldn't underestimate the intelligence of our audience. Brilliant folks come to this site to play - they'll be able to figure things out!