Anal Sex .... Is It Just Me??????

[maxxxxxine]

Before I get on the subject, let me clear something up. I've had anal sex a lot of times, in the past five years or so since I finally found the courage to find out what the hype was all about. I love anal play, I like having a finger (or two), or a tongue inserted into my bottom. I think I can even say that I've experienced an anal orgasm, but then again it was probably some contributing factors that lead to this occurring.
I know I'm going to be challenged on this, but I believe that anal sex is a "guy invention", and that if it were no longer possible most girls would shrug their shoulders and get on with life.
Okay, yes it's fun and exciting and something different. I believe that everyone should try it least once in their life, and I include guys in that equation also. And guys, before you get all excited, I mean everyone should try RECEIVING, because there's something about receiving a penis in your body that's impossible to explain, but yet incredibly fulfilling.
As a once in a lifetime, or once in a while, it's great!, but when it becomes all-the-time, or once-a-week I become more and more "pro-vagina". Face it, anal's not easy, and you do need to be fully prepped and psyched for it to happen. It can (and does) hurt, and without being really gross, but we're talking honestly, I bet there's a lot of girls who sweat about what ends up on their guy's penis after the event (yuk, I don't want to expand)..... and pre-sex enema's are so romantic .... not!
But I'll go it again, because like KFC, every so often it sounds like a great idea ........

Love, Maxie XXX

 

[Paradox]

Hmm, lots of lookers but no responses. I'll toss in my uninformed two cents worth. Uninformed, because I've never really been there.

As a guy, I admit that I am curious about anal sex (being on the giving end, at least). It isn't my driving passion, or anything, but I guess I would like to try it to see what all the fuss is about. However, I don't think I would want it to become too common.

Now, as far as being on the receiving end...

 

[ccb2]

Hey Max,

As usual your right on the head.
As a guy I enjoy anal with my wife, and don't mind a bit myself if
getting a bj or hj at the same time.
But she, like you , agrees that it should not and does not replace standard vaginal intercourse. There's nothing I enjoy more than eating her while using a finger or toy on her butt, she loves it too.
But(t) it's definetly not a permanent pussy replacement.
By the way, can we expect any more pics of you?

 

[Lord Emu]

I agree that everyone should try anal sex. I am a straight male but I enjoy anal play it is a feeling that I can't describe.

 

[Guest]

as a bi male i like giving and receiving. though it is painful at times upon entry, getting past that point to me if feels terific.

 

[MissTaken]

Nope, Maxxxxxxxine, it isn't just you.

I love it when I love it and when I am not interested

we just don't do it. When you say prepped, I interpret that to mean in terms of psyche and arousal as well as physical prep.
When all the components are in place, it is great.

IF not, don't bother!

 

[freakygirl]

about a year ago..

my husband "discovered" anal... he said he was afraid to bring it up to me, his ex wife didn't want anything to do with sex.. let alone anal.. that he never thought i'd be interested (didn't tell him i had done it with other husband and boyfriends, as i didn't think he needed to hear about my sex life with others). Anyway, for the first couple of times it was wonderful, then i actually started dreading sex.. anal is all he wanted to do. I didn't know how to tell him that it wasn't all about my ass.. i had other things on my body that needed attention.. after awhile.. i told him this, and he understood.

As far as him recieving, he is ok with it, like me he doesn't want it all the time (well a finger in there while giving him a blow job is great). He has mind blowing orgasms when the vibrator is not inserted, but held firmly between his balls and his ass.