Anal question.
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Phantasy_Star
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For me, it's more of the former with a bit of the latter depending on context.
NippleMuncher
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Depends on her partner and how they both want it to be.
I've known women who have had different views of it. For some it is a huge erotic turn on because it's so "naughty" and taboo. I knew one woman who liked it because it was so "sinful" and that gave her an added "bad girl" jolt. It in some ways to her was like sucking cock. She loved to feel "slutty".
I knew another who found it quite sensual in a different way than is vaginal penetration.
For another, it was indeed a feeling of being dominated and used. She was a person much in tune with areas of bondage, S&M and other kink. For her, anal was another sort of "kinky sex" that wasn't enjoyed by the average homemaker.
Everybody finds different joy, erotic excitement, etc from various sex acts. Some people are into love and romance, some into kink and taboo. Everybody's different.
I knew another who found it quite sensual in a different way than is vaginal penetration.
For another, it was indeed a feeling of being dominated and used. She was a person much in tune with areas of bondage, S&M and other kink. For her, anal was another sort of "kinky sex" that wasn't enjoyed by the average homemaker.
Everybody finds different joy, erotic excitement, etc from various sex acts. Some people are into love and romance, some into kink and taboo. Everybody's different.
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i agree that as presented the OP is making a very broad range of possible answers improperly simple and binary.
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How would you like the experience to be with your woman? Maybe that's the better question.
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Yes...
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ha! succinct.
Jem60
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True, but not have ventured that route,it still makes me wonder how she would react? To be honest, that route would be only open if she intimated it, I am not sure I would intimate it.
Jem60
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Yes, as in sensual or dominating, or submissive?
pedal_dew
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situational
I only had anal once. For me, it was not so much a sensually enjoyable experience as a...what would be the term?...situational?... My own mood leading up to the experience was one of desiring surrender. We were playing in a manner we had gotten comfortable with, teasing each other to orgasm.
My ex bf is a very strong guy, muscular, big shoulders and arms, legs like tree trunks. He had been a wrestler in high school. I really enjoyed clinging to him while he was standing, my arms around his neck, my legs around his torso. We had gotten into the habit of doing this, with me sliding my sex up and down his stomach muscles. Since he was so much occupied by standing upright and holding me, I was in control. I would slide on him, once in a while sliding down and touching his penis with my spread sex. I would tease him like this, eventually staying low so the upper side of his penis was just under me as I gyrated against him, getting more and more aroused myself. We called it "channeling." We would both get very aroused by it, usually ending in me using my hand to hold his penis against me as I slid back and forth on his erection.
Anyway, we were doing this, and as I held his penis against me, the head against my anus, lots of his juices lathering me up right there. It suddenly occurred to me that I wanted to be taken. I stopped and whispered into his ear, "I would love it if you would fuck me in the ass." He was shocked, and seemed reluctant. So I said, "I mean right now, without waiting, without letting the moment pass," or something like that. He took me to the bed and laid me down, pushed my ankles up over my head and entered me.
Wow! The surpise I felt was just enough to cover the pain I hadn't been expecting. Then he started humping, faster and faster, like you'd see rabbits do to each other. His face got real red, almost purple, and he humped and humped in fast motion, slapping against my upturned legs, while I was in a state of shock, wondering what I'd done. He had ejaculated for me earlier (I'd done a bj on him), so he was taking a long time getting there this time, and I was like a ragdoll, with no choice but to take it.
I was definitely suffering. It hurt like hell. Yet, I somehow enjoyed it too, as if the sensation of not having any control at all, or maybe of having surrendered all control to his pleasure, was a sweet thing in itself. As much as I was feeling sorry for myself, so also was I delighting in being so used and abused (I know thjat sounds awful).
When he finally climaxed (he screamed like a girl, and I thought he would pass out), he fell on the bed. Tears streaming down both our faces, he cuddled me and wanted to apologize. I told him not to, that I had wanted it. I cried uncontrollably for a few minutes, which made him very uncomfortable at first, but I kept reassuring him it was okay. I felt so vanquished. So conquered. So taken...and although very uncomfortable physically, I savored the sensation of having endured for his pleasure, as if I had accomplished something.
Well, that was my one and only experience. I'm not sure if I'll ever want to do that again.
I only had anal once. For me, it was not so much a sensually enjoyable experience as a...what would be the term?...situational?... My own mood leading up to the experience was one of desiring surrender. We were playing in a manner we had gotten comfortable with, teasing each other to orgasm.
My ex bf is a very strong guy, muscular, big shoulders and arms, legs like tree trunks. He had been a wrestler in high school. I really enjoyed clinging to him while he was standing, my arms around his neck, my legs around his torso. We had gotten into the habit of doing this, with me sliding my sex up and down his stomach muscles. Since he was so much occupied by standing upright and holding me, I was in control. I would slide on him, once in a while sliding down and touching his penis with my spread sex. I would tease him like this, eventually staying low so the upper side of his penis was just under me as I gyrated against him, getting more and more aroused myself. We called it "channeling." We would both get very aroused by it, usually ending in me using my hand to hold his penis against me as I slid back and forth on his erection.
Anyway, we were doing this, and as I held his penis against me, the head against my anus, lots of his juices lathering me up right there. It suddenly occurred to me that I wanted to be taken. I stopped and whispered into his ear, "I would love it if you would fuck me in the ass." He was shocked, and seemed reluctant. So I said, "I mean right now, without waiting, without letting the moment pass," or something like that. He took me to the bed and laid me down, pushed my ankles up over my head and entered me.
Wow! The surpise I felt was just enough to cover the pain I hadn't been expecting. Then he started humping, faster and faster, like you'd see rabbits do to each other. His face got real red, almost purple, and he humped and humped in fast motion, slapping against my upturned legs, while I was in a state of shock, wondering what I'd done. He had ejaculated for me earlier (I'd done a bj on him), so he was taking a long time getting there this time, and I was like a ragdoll, with no choice but to take it.
I was definitely suffering. It hurt like hell. Yet, I somehow enjoyed it too, as if the sensation of not having any control at all, or maybe of having surrendered all control to his pleasure, was a sweet thing in itself. As much as I was feeling sorry for myself, so also was I delighting in being so used and abused (I know thjat sounds awful).
When he finally climaxed (he screamed like a girl, and I thought he would pass out), he fell on the bed. Tears streaming down both our faces, he cuddled me and wanted to apologize. I told him not to, that I had wanted it. I cried uncontrollably for a few minutes, which made him very uncomfortable at first, but I kept reassuring him it was okay. I felt so vanquished. So conquered. So taken...and although very uncomfortable physically, I savored the sensation of having endured for his pleasure, as if I had accomplished something.
Well, that was my one and only experience. I'm not sure if I'll ever want to do that again.
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While I understand the "heat of the moment" thing you were going through, I'd guess you might not experience all that pain if you started out slower and used a LOT more lube. Granted, it might be a less emotionally intense sensation, but maybe the lack of pain would balance things out?
It's all a guess - I've only been on the giving side with one person two times, though I know she found it extremely pleasureable (it was her idea, and yes, lube was definitely used). I've never received so I can't speak from that side of things.
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For me, if anal is not the ultimate domination of me, then it's not sensual.
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For me it's entirely contextual. Sometimes it feels like an extraordinarily loving and ender acts; sometimes it is a wonderfully submissive act.
One time I woke a boyfriend up, and got him hard, and then just straddled him and slid his cock in my ass (I was already lubed up). In this case it was a dominant act, and the shocked (and blissful) look on his face was worth the effort.
Here's a big thing you seem to be missing. For many women it is enjoyable, and the reason it is enjoyable is because it stimulates a part of the clitoris that doesn't tend to otherwise receive a lot of stimulation.
One time I woke a boyfriend up, and got him hard, and then just straddled him and slid his cock in my ass (I was already lubed up). In this case it was a dominant act, and the shocked (and blissful) look on his face was worth the effort.
Here's a big thing you seem to be missing. For many women it is enjoyable, and the reason it is enjoyable is because it stimulates a part of the clitoris that doesn't tend to otherwise receive a lot of stimulation.
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Yes..
