Anal Prolaspse..

[analgirl69]

I don't want it to happen. Neither does he. But he wants to anal fist me and use plugs and toys as big as a coke can, maybe bigger on me.. to cause gaping. If we are careful, will this cause anal prolapse? We don't want to.. but I want to let him indulge in his fetishes. When I look for advice, most people are trying to EXPERIENCE anal prolapse..not for me. I want to avoid. It's not an indefinite thing, is it?

 

[brocklanders21]

I don't want it to happen. Neither does he. But he wants to anal fist me and use plugs and toys as big as a coke can, maybe bigger on me.. to cause gaping. If we are careful, will this cause anal prolapse? We don't want to.. but I want to let him indulge in his fetishes. When I look for advice, most people are trying to EXPERIENCE anal prolapse..not for me. I want to avoid. It's not an indefinite thing, is it?

Well, you both need to play very carefully. Taking a lot of time - and using plenty of lube - should help you loosen up and fulfill his desires without causing you any injury. And that might mean it won't happen in one sitting. Don't rush things!

 

[analgirl69]

Well, you both need to play very carefully. Taking a lot of time - and using plenty of lube - should help you loosen up and fulfill his desires without causing you any injury. And that might mean it won't happen in one sitting. Don't rush things!

So anal prolapse isn't something that will definitely happen, right?

 

[bob53]

As I mentioned in another thread check out www.fistforum.com
Join and make use of the threads search.
Also the "General Discussion" or the "Howto and FAQ" forums I know there are recent threads about both sides of the Prolapse issue.
Some wanting it to happen and others trying to avoid it.

Granted it is not as populated as Literotica but it is a good bunch of people there and especially the old timers know what they are talking about.
I say this because it may take a couple days to get responses to a new thread but they will be on target.
Enjoy your journey and be sure to take your time to stretch slowly with LOTS of GOOD lube. Listen to your body.

Most of all have fun.

 

[brocklanders21]

So anal prolapse isn't something that will definitely happen, right?

It's a possibility, sure. No one can tell you it's definitely going to happen.

But you need to take it easy back there. Your ass wasn't designed to be penetrated like your pussy is. Using lube, warming up to his touch, progressing from small toys to larger ones over time will help minimize the risk. If you let him ram something too big up there, I think you're just asking for a bad time!

 

[Sistinas74]

Ok, I'm done googling everything I see on Lit, for fear it's going to scare the hell out of my kinky side!! Apparently there is a fetish for prolapsed body orifices....something for everyone
All things in moderation!!!!!

 

[rbone04]

So anal prolapse isn't something that will definitely happen, right?

From what I understand, the possibility is relatively low unless you have a medical condition that makes you prone to prolapse. Many of the times you see it in a video, it is done purposefully. I used to have this fear when I started heavier anal play, and I realize it was probably irrational. Like Sistinas mentioned... This is a fetish for some, and the anus usually retracts back to normal when the participant stops contracting the muscles on the pelvic floor forcefully.

Starting slow, using LOTS of lube, and paying attention to your body should keep you from having an issue. If it hurts, stop. If you feel like things aren't "sliding around" like they should, especially while removing an object from the anus, reapply lube and work it out slowly. I regularly play with some very large objects, and have even had a girlfriend fist me (albeit she was petite)... I've never had an issue. Hope this eases you mind.

 

[Carnevil9]

Well I learned my new word of the day. And all I can think is, ewwwww.......

 

[analgirl69]

As I mentioned in another thread check out www.fistforum.com
Join and make use of the threads search.
Also the "General Discussion" or the "Howto and FAQ" forums I know there are recent threads about both sides of the Prolapse issue.
Some wanting it to happen and others trying to avoid it.

Granted it is not as populated as Literotica but it is a good bunch of people there and especially the old timers know what they are talking about.
I say this because it may take a couple days to get responses to a new thread but they will be on target.
Enjoy your journey and be sure to take your time to stretch slowly with LOTS of GOOD lube. Listen to your body.

Most of all have fun.

Yea, that's why I asked about this... The site had some stuff but I am going to do it sooner than I will get a response for my questions. He tried again last night out of the blue so I need to be prepared. (No, it didn't hurt- it was fine.) Also, it seems like all or at least most of them WANT to prolapse. One person asked how to avoid it and several months later, not much of a response. That's why I cam back here. I can get answers on how to do it safer but not how to prevent prolapse apparently. Lol. Why would someone want that?? I don't get it.. To each their own.

 

[analgirl69]

It's a possibility, sure. No one can tell you it's definitely going to happen.

But you need to take it easy back there. Your ass wasn't designed to be penetrated like your pussy is. Using lube, warming up to his touch, progressing from small toys to larger ones over time will help minimize the risk. If you let him ram something too big up there, I think you're just asking for a bad time!

Oh, I'd never ram. Lol. I am very used to anal play and he does put decent sized toys in there. And we are getting bigger ones. I am also used to much more vigorous anal sex. But he would never be rough with a fist. Ever.

 

[analgirl69]

Ok, I'm done googling everything I see on Lit, for fear it's going to scare the hell out of my kinky side!! Apparently there is a fetish for prolapsed body orifices....something for everyone
All things in moderation!!!!!

Oh God, I know.. I found out about it not that long ago when I was looking up side effects to having rough anal almost every day. I was horrified... When I saw the picture, I thought it was a warning.. then I saw it was a freakin porn picture people were drooling over. Oh my.. Killed my libido for a day. No small feat. Lol. Like I said; to each their own...

 

[analgirl69]

Well I learned my new word of the day. And all I can think is, ewwwww.......

Yes..... I very much agree... AND THANK GOD SO DOES MY HUSBAND! Lol.

 

[analgirl69]

From what I understand, the possibility is relatively low unless you have a medical condition that makes you prone to prolapse. Many of the times you see it in a video, it is done purposefully. I used to have this fear when I started heavier anal play, and I realize it was probably irrational. Like Sistinas mentioned... This is a fetish for some, and the anus usually retracts back to normal when the participant stops contracting the muscles on the pelvic floor forcefully.

Starting slow, using LOTS of lube, and paying attention to your body should keep you from having an issue. If it hurts, stop. If you feel like things aren't "sliding around" like they should, especially while removing an object from the anus, reapply lube and work it out slowly. I regularly play with some very large objects, and have even had a girlfriend fist me (albeit she was petite)... I've never had an issue. Hope this eases you mind.

It does. Thank you! This is all I was looking for. I feel better now.

 

[Sistinas74]

I think all of the suggestions are great and they all make a lot of sense Lit is the greatest place to find advice for topics you can't find anywhere else...and be taken seriously. There is so much out there I am discovering I really know in the fetish department, Lit is also a good place to find ideas for unexplored territory

 

[analgirl69]

I think all of the suggestions are great and they all make a lot of sense Lit is the greatest place to find advice for topics you can't find anywhere else...and be taken seriously. There is so much out there I am discovering I really know in the fetish department, Lit is also a good place to find ideas for unexplored territory

Oh yes. I really like this site. People don't really judge. Every other site does and it takes forever to get answers and none normally help because they have no idea what you are talking about. Lol. Not the same here.So glad I found it.

 

[Eilan]

People don't really judge.

Of course they do.

 

[analgirl69]

Of course they do.

Hmm. Ok. Well, they don't say it is what I mean. I guess we all judge. There are certain things I hear and I think wtf? But if I respond it's with courtesy and an at least feigned open mind. I have not experienced any different thus far. To me or to others. And only on this site.