anal play

[petrel]

many thanks to the useful 'how to' in the story section on this topic but one (perhaps stupid) question - in the UK how and were do you get an enema/equipment to DIY? any tips welcomed.
my partner and i have been playing for some time now and althouh i cen p[enetrate my arse with three fingers or a fairly decent sized dildo i can't take my partner in without considerable pain and discomfort - i guess its the relaxing thing and i ahev tried sitting on top and controlling the penetration myself but can't seem to loosen up even when very turned on and very well lubed up. reply here or petrel@literotica.org

 

[Guest]

DIY Enema Kits

If you can't find the old-fashioned bellows-like enema applicators, your best bet would be to get a bottle of Fleet's. Don't use the actual fluid in the bottle, though! That kind of enema contains lots of salts and minerals, and the results don't allow for future anal play at all. Instead, pour all that out, rinse a few times, and fill it _half_ full of warm filtered water. I've heard of people adding a few drops of liquor to the water, but I don't know if it's safe to have alcohol get so far up your backside. I've also heard that coffee (same quantity) works well and adds a caffeine rush to the experience.

Love to all!

--SPR

 

[Guest]

Forgot To Mention...

...in regard to your trouble accomodating him...after your cleansing ritual, when you're ready to be penetrated by him, you can try pushing out gently, as if you are trying to expel stuff, while he pushes inward. Also, I'd like to remind you to use lots of your favorite lube and be sure he goes slowly for you. If you experience pain during penetration, have him pull out and let you relax. When you try again, you should be OK.

Regards,

--SPR

 

[SexyChele]

I cannot second the post above this one enough! One of the little known "tricks" of enjoyable and painfree entry for anal sex is for the woman to push out as her partner enters her. As long as you are using enough lube - and you might have to use A LOT - as your partner enters you, he should go S L O W!! Taking it a bit of a time, really. Each time he moves into you, push out with your anal muscles. If you and he are well lubed, and he goes slowly enough, he should slide in fairly easily, and with as little to no pain for you.

Also, once he has entered you, he should stop and allow you to get used to the feel of him - it's at this point either you or he could start rubbing your clit. Once you feel comfortable, then you signal that to him by moving against him. His thrusting should be short and slow at first - until you are fully used to him.

I've personally never found being on top to be very sucessful. I don't know if it's the angle or what, but it just doesn't work for me. The most comfortable position has always been on my stomack, legs bent and spread wide. Once I'm used to him, then we can move into a position where I am on my back with my legs over his shoulders.