An Unusual Seeking for a Sub:

[Littlepipsqueak26]

I wanted to give everyone an update on this post. The position for a Dom has been filled.
Thank you for everyone who sent messages, it was very much appreciated.
Hope you all have a wonderful rest of your day/evening.
~Sincerely Pip

 

[sexyprof1967]

I’ll be honest, I wasn’t sure how to go about making this post. How to start it, what to say, when to say something. But any who here my crappy attempt goes.
My name is Pip (or at least the name I’ll give you) I’m 21 years old turning 22 at the end of May. Honestly I still feel like I’m 16, yet time sadly somehow catches up to us all. No judgments but I have been married for three years. So you’re probably wondering why is a young woman on here is requesting to have a strictly online dom when she’s got a hubby?
Don’t get me wrong I do love my husband. He’s an absolute sweetheart that take cares and supports me. In the beginning he satisfied all my little quirky kinks in being a Sub. But in the last year it has completely faded. The little sub in me yearns to please, submit, and to be dominated. Yet little of that happens.
Anyways back to what I’m looking for in a Dom. If you think you can fill my void by all means comment or feel free to shoot me a message.

1. Dominate Male
2. Online only, no meet ups ever.
3. No photos, audios, or videos will come from me.
4. Someone who’s willing to the time to train and put up with my needs
5. No strings attached
6. Not a push over
7. Is experienced in BDSM
8. Respect & understand some of my wishes
9. Give good aftercare
10. Know & learn my limits.
11. Give tasks other than sexual

I’ll be frank. As far as being a sub I’m more so a beginner than advanced but I’m craving to learn more.
I have rambled on long enough. If you have any questions feel free to drop them below. This is my first time on here so I’m not exactly sure how everything works just yet.
~With deep care Pip

Hi pepper. 50-year-old male college professor with a lot of experience as an online dom. Looking for something similar. Care to chat on Skype? Text chat, that is. Citykid1967

 

[htester]

1. Dominate Male
2. Online only, no meet ups ever.
3. No photos, audios, will come from me.
4. Someone who’s willing to the time to train and put up with my needs
5. No strings attached
7. Is experienced in BDSM
8. Respect & understand some of my wishes
9. Give good aftercare
10. Know & learn my limits.

Girl. We all want this. If you find a good one, share him And, hopefully, you gradually introduce your husband to what you want -- Good luck!

 

[Dom381979]

Hello pip I'm 40 year old dom, I'd like to help with your interests

 

[wantonmaleslut]

Hello Pip.

I sent you a PM. Please confirm by reply if you are interested.
Would also appreciate a reply if not interested.
Happy to discuss.
Look forward to playing with you.

M

 

[georgerb]

A sub with demands...seems legit to me.

 

[HornyHal]

A sub with demands...seems legit to me.

HAHA!! I was thinking the same thing!! But on the other hand I can’t fault a sub for looking for a Dom that she feels safe with. I would say that it is inherently difficult to have a true Dom/sub dynamic online. If I were to give my sub a task sexual or not, who’s to say that she actually did it, and furthermore how could I know that she carried out a punishment if she didn’t. In any case, Pip I wish you luck on your search for a Dom.

 

[georgerb]

True, but it would be by mutual discussion and agreement...not just a one sided viewpoint as proposed.

 

[HornyHal]

Oh absolutely, it must be discussed thoroughly.

 

[htester]

Sub doesn't mean 187% submissive and mindless. As I get older, I prefer a strong Dom who understands that. They're definitely the ones you'll want to interact with and have the most fun with -- So, good luck again to finding a dom who understands female Subs have wants and needs and will enjoy fulfilling that -

 

[obedientslut1990]

I am in complete agreement with every one of your details:
1. Dominate Male
2. Online only, no meet ups ever.
3. No photos, audios, or videos will come from me.
4. Someone who’s willing to the time to train and put up with my needs
5. No strings attached
6. Not a push over
7. Is experienced in BDSM
8. Respect & understand some of my wishes
9. Give good aftercare
10. Know & learn my limits.
11. Give tasks other than sexual

Please feel free to mail me at rayamedo.obedientgmail.com

 

[FAITHandFLESH]

#3...

Leaves as 97.6% chance this is a dude...

 

[Destinys_Desire]

#3...

Leaves as 97.6% chance this is a dude...

The rayamedo is another clue. 98.9% it's a dude.

 

[BeginningAuthor]

Dom or Mentor

Are you looking for a Dom with all those restrictions or are you looking for someone who can train you so you can try to introduce your husband to the lifestyle? I understand you want non sexual tasks, but you are limiting them to tasks that do not have visual evidence of completion. Are you wishing the tasks to be something that you can write about in a journal?

You would be interesting to train, but your demands would require some learning on the part of the Dom as well. I hope you have the willingness to get into some deep details and fill answer a long list of questions so the Dom can understand you.

Don't worry about your list of demands, the relationship should be about you as well as the Dom. You are asking to be a sub, not a slave. Like all wish lists, be willing to give on some to obtain the majority you seek.