An uncomfortable question...

[MrRetro]

I have long fantasised about meeting a woman who has an unquenchable thirst for sex with different men...

I find it extremely arousing being in a loving relationship, dedicated to a woman sexually whom enjoys the regular company of other men... Whether or not she allows me to be in the same room and watch, or leave her alone for the session is irrelevant... Just kissing her, knowing that she wants an orgasm, or has just had one, from another lover drives me wild with passion...

The problem is though, is this is not the sort of question one can ask a woman on a first encounter... Though it seems a rare quality in a woman, to want regular sex with different men inside of a loving relationship... It's a very uncomfortable question to ask, probably because I feel it will end the chance of continuing the relationship...

So, how does one go about meeting a special woman like this... and how should one approach the topic for discussion...?

 

[Experiencedguy]

Oh wow!! Man - this is a deep topic.

I think many more men fantisize about this than actually experience it. In my entire sex life, I only met one couple like this. He used to love seeing men fuck his wife, and she was a true nymphomaniac (I have seen her drain six young guy dry - at least fifteem cum blasts).

He met her at a restaurant where she was working as a server. She was very upfront about one man was not enough for her, and he told her no problem. He always fucked her last. I even got to the point where I would spend the night with them, and then we would have a DVP the next morning.

If you can't find any research material on the internet, do you want to invest in a few sessions with a sex therapist???

Good luck, and let us know.

 

[SweetErika]

Have you tried looking for swingers, polyamorous women and women who are into cuckolding?

If not, I'd suggest starting there. There are certainly plenty of sites and local groups where you can meet women with these interests and lifestyles.

 

[NightL]

do a google search for "Our Hotwives"

you never know... you just may well find her then lose her just as quickly...

The question would be, what qualities do you have that would attract the loving relationship or what qualities don't you have that would allow you to be the special one?

When reading up on the subject there seems to be a lot of men getting off on the humiliation trip... does not work for me... Then there are the power trippers and control freaks who try to push their partners into this... that is just a little too creepy.

I tried the open relationship thing when I was in my early twenties... there was no shortage of partners for either of us... and no shortage of emotional hurt for either of us... something I would not choose to repeat... Have had very enjoyable threesomes and moresomes since... always spontanious... never planned. Participating as a couple is a lot more fun than sitting at home alone wondering if your partner will find her new interest more interesting to be in a loving relationship with than yourself...

 

[MrRetro]

Thank you for the information...

Are there women out there that would enter a relationship knowing that he is aroused by you playing around...? Would this turn you off...?