An observation

kittykateater

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When a guy has the courage to shed his clothes for pics, his threads generally get 100 to 500 responses.

When a woman sheds her clothes here, she gets 5000 to 10,000 replies.

Conclusion: you women aren't doing your part to encourage more male nudity here!

Just what I've observed looking at amateur pic threads, male & female.

KK
 
An astute observation

Hell, somebody should respond-problem is, I don't have an answer for you except maybe there are more male members of Lit than female. Plus I know from my own lady she always finds the female form attractive. Not talking about here, but magazines that are geared toward men and I've read interviews with women that seem to feel the same way. Who knows?
 
Re: An astute observation

bearlee said:
Hell, somebody should respond-problem is, I don't have an answer for you except maybe there are more male members of Lit than female. Plus I know from my own lady she always finds the female form attractive. Not talking about here, but magazines that are geared toward men and I've read interviews with women that seem to feel the same way. Who knows?

I agree with you on this one.................

I love the female shape

But than I also love to see a guy do a great stripe & tease.............

You know show shoulders, chest, legs etc..................

But what mostly happens is that they go straight to showing theirs cocks..........................

Sorry guys...........
 
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oz_akasha said:
I agree with you on this one.................

I love the female shape

But than I also love to see a guy do a great stripe & tease.............

You know show shoulders, chest, legs etc..................

But what mostly happens is that they go straight to showing theirs cocks..........................

Sorry guys...........

WHen I had my thread, I showed my cock, but I showed EVERYTHING else too, and did poses, strip teases, shower pics, you name it, and my thread still vanished off the map if I didn't post pics every single day.

Of course, I AM a fat blob LOL
 
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Nudecop said:
WHen I had my thread, I showed my cock, but I showed EVERYTHING else too, and did poses, strip teases, shower pics, you name it, and my thread still vanished off the map if I didn't post pics every single day.

Of course, I AM a fat blob LOL

Sorry I meant no offense to anyone.........................

:kiss:
 
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oz_akasha said:
Sorry I meant no offense to anyone.........................

:kiss:

I know you didn't....I'm just saying, guys' threads just don't get as much traffic it seems. At least not for us "normal" looking guys
 
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Nudecop said:
I know you didn't....I'm just saying, guys' threads just don't get as much traffic it seems. At least not for us "normal" looking guys

Females will look at other females and will check each others threads out..................

Males, most, don't check out the guy threads........................

And this were the difference in the traffic is................

How and what is wrong with normal??

:D
 
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oz_akasha said:
Females will look at other females and will check each others threads out..................

Males, most, don't check out the guy threads........................

And this were the difference in the traffic is................

How and what is wrong with normal??

:D

Nothing is wrong with normal...but when you're like me, and have a bit of a belly and a few extra pounds, and you got guys on here with 6 pack abs and everything....makes the rest of us seem a bit...well, inadequate lol
 
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Nudecop said:
Nothing is wrong with normal...but when you're like me, and have a bit of a belly and a few extra pounds, and you got guys on here with 6 pack abs and everything....makes the rest of us seem a bit...well, inadequate lol

Well hell, there goes my idea of having a personal thread:D Damn, now all kinds of responses are coming in on this:cool:
 
it's the old chase and be chased scenario... guys love the pursuit, women love being pursued.

i think there are more men here too though.

and women do like to look at eachother. i know i love looking at other women. i like looking at guys cumming...

any ACTION shots are good (both parties) you all know that i think...:kiss:

also, guys can't/don't respond to other guys the way women do to other women. it's just the law of the land...
 
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bearlee said:
Well hell, there goes my idea of having a personal thread:D Damn, now all kinds of responses are coming in on this:cool:

Don't be discouraged. I had a lot of fun with my thread, and after a few weeks. I had a nice group of loyal fans that kept coming back, but you have to find your female friends on here and tell them about your thread and give them your link. That and put the link in your sig line so people can find it from other threads.

If things in my personal life ever settle down, I'll probably start a thread again. You just have to know you're not gonna have 100 posts the first day so you're not dicouraged.
 
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Nudecop said:
Nothing is wrong with normal...but when you're like me, and have a bit of a belly and a few extra pounds, and you got guys on here with 6 pack abs and everything....makes the rest of us seem a bit...well, inadequate lol


Hell.........

Were do I find them???

I don't get a lot of time to have a good look around the board as a rule, today is a exception.................

Usually I am on my thread & check out a couple of other ones but not as often as I would like to.....................

:kiss:
 
pinkstarfish said:
it's the old chase and be chased scenario... guys love the pursuit, women love being pursued.

i think there are more men here too though.

and women do like to look at eachother. i know i love looking at other women. i like looking at guys cumming...

any ACTION shots are good (both parties) you all know that i think...:kiss:

also, guys can't/don't respond to other guys the way women do to other women. it's just the law of the land...

I think you're right :rose:
 
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oz_akasha said:
Hell.........

Were do I find them???

I don't get a lot of time to have a good look around the board as a rule, today is a exception.................

Usually I am on my thread & check out a couple of other ones but not as often as I would like to.....................

:kiss:

I've been having the opposite-checking out your thread more often and ignoring Dawn's thread;)
 
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bearlee said:
I've been having the opposite-checking out your thread more often and ignoring Dawn's thread;)

You are to sweet....................

And I notice the same has been happening with Raven..................

I think he has post on ours once this week........................

:devil:
 
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Nudecop said:
Nothing is wrong with normal...but when you're like me, and have a bit of a belly and a few extra pounds, and you got guys on here with 6 pack abs and everything....makes the rest of us seem a bit...well, inadequate lol

well don't. there's no need. the human body is beautiful.

it comes in all shapes and sizes. there are plenty of gorgeous big girls on lit. we are all ourselves. the fact that we come/cum (heheeh, had to) together here and share what we do is beautiful. i'm sorry i don't visit more threads. this forum keeps me pretty busy... not to mention it being VERY slow.

*kisses Nudecop*

are you a real cop? i find that soooo hot if you are.



.:heart: -- pinkie
 
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pinkstarfish said:
well don't. there's no need. the human body is beautiful.

it comes in all shapes and sizes. there are plenty of gorgeous big girls on lit. we are all ourselves. the fact that we come/cum (heheeh, had to) together here and share what we do is beautiful. i'm sorry i don't visit more threads. this forum keeps me pretty busy... not to mention it being VERY slow.

*kisses Nudecop*

are you a real cop? i find that soooo hot if you are.



.:heart: -- pinkie


I know I don't have a preference on the size of a woman, I love them big and small.

I'm a jail officer for the police, so I still wear a uniform lol
 
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oz_akasha said:
You are to sweet....................

And I notice the same has been happening with Raven..................

I think he has post on ours once this week........................

:devil:

Yeah, he showed up on her thread and I think there's something going on between them:D Although come to think of it, yeah, I haven't really noticed any posts by him lately, although you've had some really nice ones today:rose:
 
Interesting discussion...

There are many variables- including the number of males to females, and the comfort that each has with posting and asking for more.

Lack of response lead me (partially) to not maintaing my thread anymore. I still like to look around though.
 
Okay, so I can't just sit back and observe any more :)

I noticed something about this myself. As the MALE half of SuperFunCouple, I am all but un-noticed. True, we have posted MANY more pictures of The Princess than myself, but in the "couples" shots, and in the few of just myself we get next to no response to any --ahem-- part of me, and I'm doing okay for myself down there.

By the same token, both of us expected as much, and here's our reasoning. Men were built, designed, for utility... we're strong, beefy and not much to look at. Women are built for beauty (now before anyone gets offended, I'm speaking in generalizations, there are always exceptions to both rules - and no, women's ONLY purpose is not to be beautiful, it's just a nice perk that comes with the job). Women have nicer lines, nicer shapes. Men are square and rough, women soft and curvy. There's no mystery in why women get more attention, they're simply more beautiful than men.

So that's my humble opinion :)

- The Guy
 
Oop! And one more thing!

I almost forgot, the other part is that the situation perpetuates itself. Less attention is paid to me due to the afore mentioned reasons, and so it makes it less appealing for those men to post more, or for new ones to start. Consequently there are fewer posts, and the cycle continues.

That should about do it :)

- The Guy


..... my brain hurts...
 
you mean I missed ALL that?

Nudecop said:
WHen I had my thread, I showed my cock, but I showed EVERYTHING else too, and did poses, strip teases, shower pics, you name it, and my thread still vanished off the map if I didn't post pics every single day.

Of course, I AM a fat blob LOL

But, something tells me that he's one really really really
sexy sweet cute n cuddly blob :kiss:
 
Re: you mean I missed ALL that?

MizTabby said:
But, something tells me that he's one really really really
sexy sweet cute n cuddly blob :kiss:


You're too sweet :)
 
SuperFunCouple said:
Oop! And one more thing!

I almost forgot, the other part is that the situation perpetuates itself. Less attention is paid to me due to the afore mentioned reasons, and so it makes it less appealing for those men to post more, or for new ones to start. Consequently there are fewer posts, and the cycle continues.

That should about do it :)

- The Guy


..... my brain hurts...

Know the feeling-my brain hurts too:(
 
that was a fear i had when i first tossed about the idea of risking putting up pictures: what if no one bothers to look? what if no one says anything? (and, in the back of my mind, what if they tell me to cut this shit out?).
i've noticed how men don't get the same number of views & replies as women since i first came around. i don't know about it being fair or not, does it even matter? i take the pictures and post them more for me than for anyone else to appreciate; getting any kind words at all is just sort of the icing on the cake i guess. it makes me feel all hot and blushy and turned-on, but i think it is a secondary attraction to posting pictures.
did i make any sense? i have no idea if i even got out what i was trying to say....:confused:
 
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