An observation

[openminded1967]

I have been curious for about 20 years now, but only just decided to even talk about it here, in what is usually a pretty open minded environment. I have talked to many more women here over my time than men, and I am surprised at how much more open to variety the women seem to be compared to the men, who seem for the most part pretty vanilla in their tastes. I would be interested to hear anyone else's observations too.

 

[Trimjob69]

I have been curious for about 20 years now, but only just decided to even talk about it here, in what is usually a pretty open minded environment. I have talked to many more women here over my time than men, and I am surprised at how much more open to variety the women seem to be compared to the men, who seem for the most part pretty vanilla in their tastes. I would be interested to hear anyone else's observations too.

I've spoken with many guys on here open to "non vanilla" fetishes. It does take a while though. I think many people are afraid to admit their desires

 

[openminded1967]

I've spoken with many guys on here open to "non vanilla" fetishes. It does take a while though. I think many people are afraid to admit their desires

I just think it's unexpected since men get labeled as the sex addict type, and so far my experience has been just the opposite.

 

[Thedeciever69]

xxxxxxx

 

[openminded1967]

I'm pretty open to talking about most things. I have a few limits- bathroom play, kids, animals, extreme pain/humiliation.

We all have our boundaries, I understand that, I have had better experiences since starting this thread, so it must have helped.

 

[openminded1967]

Having finally decided to pursue desires/needs that have been bottled up inside me for years, I have a new sense of relief. This is an exciting exploration.

 

[DeepDelights]

finding openness erotic

 

[openminded1967]

Happy New Year to everyone, play safe!!!