An announcement

[SweetDommes]

We discovered that our new boy (the one I picked, of course ... I'm 3 for 3 now) was not only cheating on us online, he has been doing some more than slightly illegal things using our phone lines and computers. On the plus side, we are 99% certain that this has only been going on for about a month, on the down side, I can't even stand to look at him and I want him out of my house as of yesterday. I'm filing a police report against him, and gathering all of his things together while he is at work tomorrow (and yes, he already knows this).

Anyway, to prevent this story from getting any longer, I'm leaving the site for awhile - I may have Holly come here in my place, since she is apparently a much better judge of character, but I don't know if she will post or anything. I just can't take searching again ... not yet, maybe not ever. For those of you who are my friends, you know how to reach me (or I'll let you know if you message me sometime in the next 2 days - after that, I'm turning the account over to Holly and it will be up to her).

So, thank you to my friends,
good luck to all who are searching,
and goodbye to all for now,
Karen

 

[chris9]

We discovered that our new boy (the one I picked, of course ... I'm 3 for 3 now) was not only cheating on us online, he has been doing some more than slightly illegal things using our phone lines and computers. On the plus side, we are 99% certain that this has only been going on for about a month, on the down side, I can't even stand to look at him and I want him out of my house as of yesterday. I'm filing a police report against him, and gathering all of his things together while he is at work tomorrow (and yes, he already knows this).

Anyway, to prevent this story from getting any longer, I'm leaving the site for awhile - I may have Holly come here in my place, since she is apparently a much better judge of character, but I don't know if she will post or anything. I just can't take searching again ... not yet, maybe not ever. For those of you who are my friends, you know how to reach me (or I'll let you know if you message me sometime in the next 2 days - after that, I'm turning the account over to Holly and it will be up to her).

So, thank you to my friends,
good luck to all who are searching,
and goodbye to all for now,
Karen

I'm sorry to hear about this boy. Even more sorry to hear you're leaving...
Good luck for the future, whoever is doing the searching, whoever you're going to find.

 

[RJMasters]

 

[shy slave]

I am so sorry to hear this.

Why do you consider your the one with bad judgement?

This man should have been more honest with you from the start and explained what he wanted and expected, not just what he thought you wanted to hear.
People are good at only showing the sides of themselves they want others to see, It doesn't last, unless they have something to hide, and he did.
It is he who made the error, not you. He has lost everything and has the police interested in him as a bonus ending.

Miss Karen, this not your fault, nice people have a way of being taken advantage of buy others.

I am really sorry your leaving, I hope Miss Holly keeps you informed of whats happening around here.
I know you and Miss Holly do not post often, but I will miss you xxx

 

[catalina_francisco]

Sorry for the recent disappointment as I know how much time and emotion you have invested. Hope you do not leave us forever as you will be missed too much. Take the time for you, pamper yourself a little, then when the time is right you will begin to move forward with grace. Take care.

Catalina

 

[FurryFury]

I'm so sorry this has happened.

*HUGS*

I know how it feels to take on the blame all the time.

I hope you are back soon and hate that you are leaving.

Fury

 

[graceanne]

Oh, wow. *hugs* I am so sorry.

 

[SweetDommes]

I will definitely be back ... eventually - I'll probably lurk quite a bit ... I just ... can't do it right now. It was things going on online that did this, so I feel the need to distance myself a bit, you know?

 

[graceanne]

I will definitely be back ... eventually - I'll probably lurk quite a bit ... I just ... can't do it right now. It was things going on online that did this, so I feel the need to distance myself a bit, you know?

I can't speak for anyone else, but I understand. *hugs*

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I don't know you ( most likely because I am rather new to the History of Lit) however I am sorry to read such a signifcant trust was broken and I sincerely hope that you find peace in your home as you wish it to be in the very near future.

sincerely

@}-}rebecca----

 

[SweetDommes]

minor update:

I reported him to the high school that he told me he has been working at, because of the age of the girl he was cheating on me with, and they have no record of anyone by his name working for them in the last 4 months. Now, this could be because he's a contract employee rather than a direct hire, but still ... I'm starting to wonder what all he had been lying to us all about.

 

[Proudsubinatl]

Thanks.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Some people just suck.

There is nothing else to say about them.

I'm truly sorry you both had to experience this but remember what goes around comes around.

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