Most people seem to be looking for just an online or real life bdsm connection, but I'm looking for something more. Mostly I'd like to meet someone special (female), who I have things in common with besides bdsm, and who would become a close friend, with an open mind and heart toward more if it should be there.
As far as bdsm, I'm new to things and am very curious about submission, and would like to explore that with the right person, so I'd like to meet someone who's dominant or a switch who can be dominant. Experience doesn't matter...I'm new to things, so it's ok if someone else is too. Maybe we could learn together. What matters the most to me is just meeting someone nice that I would become a wonderful friend with, and perhaps more.
I'm a 34 year old male, and find I relate the most and have the most in common with those in their 20s and 30s, so that's the age range in which I'd like to meet someone.
Outside of bdsm, my interests are music...I'm a musician and music fanatic, especially goth, ethereal, old punk and postpunk, alternative, indie, etc. I also love reading, especially poetry, the Beat writers, etc, and I write as well, songs, lyrics, poems. I also love tattoos and body modification, clubbing, cats, candles, rain, storms, record collecting, pinup art, the 1920s, the Victorian era, antiques, thrift stores, art, creativity, intelligence, photography, theatre, wine, good conversation, dreams, nature, mythology, etc.
Really I'd just like to meet someone with similar interests who would become a close friend, but I'm open to just about anything...friendship, a possible romantic relationship with the right person, or just someone to chat online with and maybe help me learn a little more about bdsm and submission. I don't want to meet anyone in real life for just a bdsm hookup...the only real life meetings I'm interested in possibly happening in time would be based around close friendship or more. But I am interested in possibly exploring and learning about submission online, though ideally that would be with someone who was a friend as well, and not just a "cybermistress."
So if there's anyone reading this with similar interests, send me a private message, I'd love to hear from you.
As far as bdsm, I'm new to things and am very curious about submission, and would like to explore that with the right person, so I'd like to meet someone who's dominant or a switch who can be dominant. Experience doesn't matter...I'm new to things, so it's ok if someone else is too. Maybe we could learn together. What matters the most to me is just meeting someone nice that I would become a wonderful friend with, and perhaps more.
I'm a 34 year old male, and find I relate the most and have the most in common with those in their 20s and 30s, so that's the age range in which I'd like to meet someone.
Outside of bdsm, my interests are music...I'm a musician and music fanatic, especially goth, ethereal, old punk and postpunk, alternative, indie, etc. I also love reading, especially poetry, the Beat writers, etc, and I write as well, songs, lyrics, poems. I also love tattoos and body modification, clubbing, cats, candles, rain, storms, record collecting, pinup art, the 1920s, the Victorian era, antiques, thrift stores, art, creativity, intelligence, photography, theatre, wine, good conversation, dreams, nature, mythology, etc.
Really I'd just like to meet someone with similar interests who would become a close friend, but I'm open to just about anything...friendship, a possible romantic relationship with the right person, or just someone to chat online with and maybe help me learn a little more about bdsm and submission. I don't want to meet anyone in real life for just a bdsm hookup...the only real life meetings I'm interested in possibly happening in time would be based around close friendship or more. But I am interested in possibly exploring and learning about submission online, though ideally that would be with someone who was a friend as well, and not just a "cybermistress."
So if there's anyone reading this with similar interests, send me a private message, I'd love to hear from you.
