Am I wrong?

[Nylonlover2035]

Is it wrong for me to hint to my partner to that I would like for her to wear lingerie or hosiery in bed with me? She will ask me what I like or what turns me on so I tell her that I like lingerie, nylons, stockings or pantyhose. Sexy panties and high heels. She never wears any if it. We will see women out in public wearing hosiery and heels and she will comment on how good the women looks while wearing those. And I tell her I would rather see her in them but never happens. So now I'm always dropping hints that I would love to see her wear all this stuff. What am I doing wrong? Please help me. Pm if you want...

 

[LordMorningwood]

It's not wrong, but just hinting isn't enough, you need to tell her frankly how much it would turn you on. It's important that she understands that it is about how hot you feel she would look, and not just about the clothing or (especially) not about other women. She may feel self conscious and uncomfortable, and you will need to work on that. You also need to reciprocate - she has fantasies too, and being good, giving and game pays off for both of you.

Oh, and a gentleman pays for sexy lingerie. Shopping together can be LOTS of fun.

 

[HotHelen]

A lot of women feel self-conscious in sexy lingerie, especially if their weight/body shape isn't where they would like it to be. There is also the stigma of looking like a stripper or a hooker.

You might want to buy something that will look good on her. Stay away from Fredricks and the cheap stuff. Get something that will make her look and feel sexy, and make sure it's the right size!

There's also a chance that while it's a major turn on for you, it might not be for her, so be prepared that she may not be into it.

Good luck!

 

[Nylonlover2035]

Thank you both for responding. I need never make a sexual comment about the other women.after we both agree see looks good in her hosiery and heels I drop it. I tell my partner she would look much better than that women. I have come right out and told her I want her to wear that stuff for me but never happens. I've went out a bought her lingerie by myself and its not the slutty stuff either. Ill let her pick that out herself. I've bought pretty bra and panty combos, real silk hosiery, nice heels. All different types of pretty lingerie. All different colors. I have rubbed her feet the few occasions she has wore nylons and heels because she complained her feet hurt a little from being in heels all day. I was happy to rub them for her. She said she likes her feet rubbed while wearing nylons feels different she says. So I tell her to put nylons on and I'll rub your feet. Its like killing two birds with one stone.

 

[burntnorton]

Nothing wrong with sharing your desires with your partner, but maybe you could try having a conversation instead of merely hinting. Instead of saying something like "i like x it turns me on"...you might want to just ask "do you like lingerie? if so what do you like". Find out what she likes, and work from there. The difference between these two attitudes is subtle but HUGE

Having conversation also means you'll both know exactly how the other feels about the situation. This works much better than asking strangers to speculate about your relationship.

 

[DeepRedLips]

Nothing wrong with sharing your desires with your partner, but maybe you could try having a conversation instead of merely hinting. Instead of saying something like "i like x it turns me on"...you might want to just ask "do you like lingerie? if so what do you like". Find out what she likes, and work from there. The difference between these two attitudes is subtle but HUGE

Having conversation also means you'll both know exactly how the other feels about the situation. This works much better than asking strangers to speculate about your relationship.

Agreed. Yes, you're desires aren't being met, but what about hers? Do you know what she's into? Can you say that she's ever been as up front with her sexual wants/needs? If not, then why? Basically, you've got to give as much as you're wanting to get.

 

[Ex Princess]

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Oh, and a gentleman pays for sexy lingerie. Shopping together can be LOTS of fun.

Buy some and let there be cum. couldn't agree more.

 

[bushwhakka]

Is it wrong for me to hint to my partner to that I would like for her to wear lingerie or hosiery in bed with me? She will ask me what I like or what turns me on so I tell her that I like lingerie, nylons, stockings or pantyhose. Sexy panties and high heels. She never wears any if it. We will see women out in public wearing hosiery and heels and she will comment on how good the women looks while wearing those. And I tell her I would rather see her in them but never happens. So now I'm always dropping hints that I would love to see her wear all this stuff. What am I doing wrong? Please help me. Pm if you want...

You are not wrong for wanting,If she is commenting on how good other women look in hose n heels she may have hidden desires of her own!! Open the doors let your FREAK out and ENJOY!!

 

[PleasePeesMe]

No

You're not.

 

[klippert]

Yes completely wrong...I can't believe your looking at this female as some kind of sex object...

What the heck.. of course NOT... just ask her... tell her your fetishes... If she walks there are plenty of others