Am I wrong

[Comshaw]

A number of years ago (I ain't gunna say how many) my wife had a good-looking girlfriend. She had a pair of well-developed breasts. This woman would come by from time to time and from her demeanor I always assumed she was a fun, nice, but somewhat ditzy lady. Keep that mental picture in mind.

Now I am not one to stare drooling and slack jawed at a good-looking woman (especially a friend of my wife) but I do look (covertly most of the time) and I do appreciate an attractive woman. My wife knows this and from time to time we would discuss some of the women and how I saw them. Nothing graphic, just a, "did you find her attractive? What did you find them most attractive?" kind of thing.

One day this woman shows up dressed in a powder blue, lace see-through blouse. And she didn't have on a bra! As I said she was attractive so once I caught sight of her magnificent breast and erectic nipples on display under the see-through fabric I had a hell of a time prying my eyes away from the sight. After she left my wife and I had a talk about it and she giggled the entire time, knowing how such a thing would affect me.

My wife had lunch with this friend the next day and mentioned how I had been smitten by the friend's manner of dress and what was put on display. My wife told me this lady acted shocked and embarrassed that I even noticed and that I saw what I saw. She even told my wife she had no idea anyone could see her breasts. Now I can understand (but not agree with) a woman dressed that way getting irate if I insisted on staring at her the whole time. I didn't. But she was acting as if she had no idea people could see her through the lace fabric. I thought and still do that she was lying. I don't see how anyone could put on a blouse like that and wear it without knowing how it looked on them or being aware that you can see through lace fabric.

so was I, am I right or no?

Comshaw

 

[MillieDynamite]

I'd say, and I might be wrong, she's a slut and lied to protect herself in case your wife was pissed off. Yes, she knew exactly what she was doing.

 

[onehitwanda]

If it were me, I'd know it was transparent, and I'd be wearing it in order to cause a reaction. But then that's also not something I do with clothes other than underwear because I'm not an exhibitionist except in very, very specific circumstances for very, very specific people.

99% of the time I'd say the friend was lying. Either because it was a moment of whimsy and she regrets it, or because she was hoping it wasn't quite as transparent as it was.

But there's always a chance she's just as thick as two short planks and didn't realise.

But hey, where there's smoke there's fire. She was airing the twins and enjoying it.

 

[onehitwanda]

we need a third Lesbianese opinion.

 

[EmilyMiller]

We normally have a pretty high awareness of what we are wearing and what it looks like. That’s what mirrors are for.

If she was quite a big girl, not wearing a bra would be an active choice. And a conscious one.

Em

 

[onehitwanda]

Since Em's an honourary member of the ULA, we have accord and this thread can now be closed. The woman is a hussy. Case closed.

 

[EmilyMiller]

we need a third Lesbianese opinion.

You called?

 

[onehitwanda]

You called?

You answered.

The tantrum room awaits us. Care to join me? I have a fresh load of cardboard boxes and a selection of blunt instruments.

 

[AwkwardlySet]

Since Em's an honourary member of the ULA,

I think you missed a "N" there

 

[onehitwanda]

I think you missed a "N" there

N for Nubile? It's an axiom as far as Em is concerned.

 

[britfunk]

A number of years ago (I ain't gunna say how many) my wife had a good-looking girlfriend. She had a pair of well-developed breasts. This woman would come by from time to time and from her demeanor I always assumed she was a fun, nice, but somewhat ditzy lady. Keep that mental picture in mind.

Now I am not one to stare drooling and slack jawed at a good-looking woman (especially a friend of my wife) but I do look (covertly most of the time) and I do appreciate an attractive woman. My wife knows this and from time to time we would discuss some of the women and how I saw them. Nothing graphic, just a, "did you find her attractive? What did you find them most attractive?" kind of thing.

One day this woman shows up dressed in a powder blue, lace see-through blouse. And she didn't have on a bra! As I said she was attractive so once I caught sight of her magnificent breast and erectic nipples on display under the see-through fabric I had a hell of a time prying my eyes away from the sight. After she left my wife and I had a talk about it and she giggled the entire time, knowing how such a thing would affect me.

My wife had lunch with this friend the next day and mentioned how I had been smitten by the friend's manner of dress and what was put on display. My wife told me this lady acted shocked and embarrassed that I even noticed and that I saw what I saw. She even told my wife she had no idea anyone could see her breasts. Now I can understand (but not agree with) a woman dressed that way getting irate if I insisted on staring at her the whole time. I didn't. But she was acting as if she had no idea people could see her through the lace fabric. I thought and still do that she was lying. I don't see how anyone could put on a blouse like that and wear it without knowing how it looked on them or being aware that you can see through lace fabric.

so was I, am I right or no?

Comshaw

So something very similar to this happened to me just last week at a christmas party where a woman sitting across from me somehow had her shirt come undone and expose over time first one than both of her very revealing bra cups. I won't pretend I wasn't staring but I felt there was no way she didn't know and wasn't on some level doing it on purpose. So now i know not to mention it to any of her friends as if i do no more breasts. Thanks for saving me on that one as I really wanted to ask them what the deal was.

 

[AwkwardlySet]

N for Nubile? It's an axiom as far as Em is concerned.

Yes, that is totally what I meant, nubile...

 

[EmilyMiller]

You answered.

The tantrum room awaits us. Care to join me? I have a fresh load of cardboard boxes and a selection of blunt instruments.

Sounds like good wholesome fun. Are clothes optional?

Em

 

[ElectricBlue]

Back on track, she'd have to be fairly unaware not to know that lacy see-through is... see-through. That's surely the point of such garments. And if she's got bigger breasts, surely she knows what going braless does.

Conclusion: either no self-awareness at all, or very aware. I'd say Wanda is right, a hussy. With or without shame, it all sounds rather nice .

 

[onehitwanda]

Sounds like good wholesome fun. Are clothes optional?

Em

There's always the risk of splinters. So gloves and eye protection and safety boots are de rigeur. But as for the rest, I've got a nanoskirt and a sports bra with your...er... with my name on it.

 

[curioustxn]

A number of years ago (I ain't gunna say how many) my wife had a good-looking girlfriend. She had a pair of well-developed breasts. This woman would come by from time to time and from her demeanor I always assumed she was a fun, nice, but somewhat ditzy lady. Keep that mental picture in mind.

Now I am not one to stare drooling and slack jawed at a good-looking woman (especially a friend of my wife) but I do look (covertly most of the time) and I do appreciate an attractive woman. My wife knows this and from time to time we would discuss some of the women and how I saw them. Nothing graphic, just a, "did you find her attractive? What did you find them most attractive?" kind of thing.

One day this woman shows up dressed in a powder blue, lace see-through blouse. And she didn't have on a bra! As I said she was attractive so once I caught sight of her magnificent breast and erectic nipples on display under the see-through fabric I had a hell of a time prying my eyes away from the sight. After she left my wife and I had a talk about it and she giggled the entire time, knowing how such a thing would affect me.

My wife had lunch with this friend the next day and mentioned how I had been smitten by the friend's manner of dress and what was put on display. My wife told me this lady acted shocked and embarrassed that I even noticed and that I saw what I saw. She even told my wife she had no idea anyone could see her breasts. Now I can understand (but not agree with) a woman dressed that way getting irate if I insisted on staring at her the whole time. I didn't. But she was acting as if she had no idea people could see her through the lace fabric. I thought and still do that she was lying. I don't see how anyone could put on a blouse like that and wear it without knowing how it looked on them or being aware that you can see through lace fabric.

so was I, am I right or no?

Comshaw

Really?? This woman has no mirrors in her house? She must be one-of-a-kind - - never looks at the fabric of a dress before she buys it?

More likely, she was shocked and embarrassed that you discussed it with your wife, and more so, that your wife brought it to her attention. When a woman flirts with a man, even innocently, the last thing she wants is for his wife to know.

In my opinion, she knew that you could see her tits, she was just embarrassed that your wife knew that you noticed.

What did you expect her to say: "Oh yes, I wanted your husband to see my tits!" "You don't mind, do you?"

She knew.......

LOL

 

[Devinter]

@Comshaw - So when can we expect to read the story version of this encounter, and the imaginary continuation of what happened next?

 

[Devinter]

Then some women, specifically my ex-angel, Lily, are so innocent that they have no idea about their effect on others…

Am I just getting old or does that girl look about 12?

 

[EmilyMiller]

Am I just getting old or does that girl look about 12?

She’s meant to be mid-twenties (actually millennia old) - but AI seems to love to deage any woman who you say is smaller than a D cup.

Dm

 

[StillStunned]

Way back when, in a previous millennium, I had a colleague who showed up to work in a tiger stripe top. Tight. The trouble was that when it shifted, and the white stripes moved to where the black stripes had been, it was like she wasn't wearing anything at all.

Being very subtle, I took a mental picture and excused myself until our boss had a quiet word with the young lady.

 

[onehitwanda]

Way back when, in a previous millennium, I had a colleague who showed up to work in a tiger stripe top. Tight. The trouble was that when it shifted, and the white stripes moved to where the black stripes had been, it was like she wasn't wearing anything at all.

Rawr.

 

[AchtungNight]

Let me consult a noted scientist on the matter.

[asks Nenio from Pathfinder: WotR the opening question]

The answer is very relevant to this discussion, Nenio. Please stop staring at the subject and answer.

[dramatic pause]

I will have to question my foxy friend further on this matter later. She seems to have lost her voice.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Yes, that is totally what I meant, nubile...

Nubile - nerd? Kinda the same thing.

Em

 

[MillieDynamite]

There is something oddly disturbing about the baby girl's (11ish) face and full-grown woman's body.

Then some women, specifically my ex-angel, Lily, are so innocent that they have no idea about their effect on others…


Em

 

[AlexBailey]

I didn't really start noticing breasts until my early twenties - yeah, I'm weird.

One day I dropped by my folks house with some girl-friends to pick up our canoe. I was with three butch girls who were all in t-shirts with no bras and my stepfather came out to help me, probably because the 'young ladies' were so helpless and all.

Later my mom took me aside and told me that if I was going to be bringing girls over they needed to be "dressed properly. " I was afraid my parents had notice the "Strap-on Tools" t-shirt one of them was wearing, but when I asked my mom what the issue was she said that my stepfather was beside himself seeing nipples so obviously on display. ,

I always noticed if they weren't wearing bras after that.