Am I wrong?

[Basia]

Steve and I have been having a few.. disagreements lately... I found out yesterday that he had been lieing to me for months about what he used to do when he went to buy the groceries. I'm not mad at the fact that he went out with his roomate, I'm mad about the fact that he had to lie to me about it.

And now, today, he left for the beach (with practically everyone else I know) at 10:30 am. It's 9:35 pm. Where is my fiancé? I honestly have no clue. Am I wrong to be this mad at him for vanishing off the place of the earth with all my friends?

 

[SweetCherry]

I don't think so. I know if my SO took off for a trip to the beach and was gone that long without taking the time to even call and let me know what was going on, I'd be pissed. I used to put up with it from my ex all the time. He'd finish work at 3 in the afternoon and not make it hom til 1am when the bars closed. Any wonder why I'm now divorcing him?

 

[deliciously_naughty]

men suck sometimes. That's why I have a cat and not a boyfriend. On the other hand I don't have anyone to kill the big bugs either

 

[Basia]

I don't think so. I know if my SO took off for a trip to the beach and was gone that long without taking the time to even call and let me know what was going on, I'd be pissed. I used to put up with it from my ex all the time. He'd finish work at 3 in the afternoon and not make it hom til 1am when the bars closed. Any wonder why I'm now divorcing him?

It's not really the fact that he hasn't called either, it's the fact that he didn't let me know he couldn't pick me up from work. I had to spend all the money I had on me to take a cab home because I couldn't get in touch with anyone with a car.


Also, a fun fact for anyone that cairs, he has less than an hour now untill he has to be at work. I'm guessing he's not going to be taking me out anywhere tomorrow, because his lazy ass will sleep till he has to go to work on Tuesday.


NEVER I say NEVER will I put mt faith in him. Tomorrow, I'm going shopping! (Anyone in the NewEngland Area who is free tomorrow is more than openly invited to join me.)

 

[SimGuy]

My Former Spouse went Hard-Over if I showed up from work more than 10 minutes later than she expected. Played hell with trying to get gas in the truck without asking permission first.

A little flexibility is necessary, but I think you're certainly justified to crucify this guy!

 

[Purrde Flower]

I have found that almost all men named Steven are horrible people. yea Im namalizing here. But I have seriously had a bad experience with every single Steven that I have met! Everyone I kid you not!

 

[Basia]

I have found that almost all men named Steven are horrible people. yea Im namalizing here. But I have seriously had a bad experience with every single Steven that I have met! Everyone I kid you not!

Good thing he's a Stephen then...

I love him and all, but this is getting WAY out of hand... but it could just be PMS....

 

[Purrde Flower]

I have known Steve's, stephen's, Steven's, Steven's(pronounced differently) ALL ASSHOLES! And its not just me either. Their friends even say they are assholes.

 

[SimGuy]

Good thing he's a Stephen then...

I love him and all, but this is getting WAY out of hand... but it could just be PMS....

Try an Emotional Budget!!

First step to any budget....

Make a record of every situation where you have been misled and see if these are anomalies in his behavior or a pattern.


The next step depends upon the results of the first step

 

[Basia]

What I have decided to do is make myself as unavailable to him as humanly possable. And anyway, we're going to a consert in September, and I have his ticket!

 

[Basia]

For those who cair, he's finally back (12 hours and 15 minutes later), and honestly, I am so resisting the urdge to run at him, hug him, then scream at him. Someone talk me out of it.

 

[SimGuy]

For those who cair, he's finally back (12 hours and 15 minutes later), and honestly, I am so resisting the urdge to run at him, hug him, then scream at him. Someone talk me out of it.

Check out KillerMuffin's AV....

That's what you should be carrying when you greet him

 

[Basia]

Check out KillerMuffin's AV....

That's what you should be carrying when you greet him

While he's in his work clothes, filled with bleach.