Am I wrong to want?

[MaximusPrime]

I have been posting here for a few days and I have a question for all to the lit readers.

I am really turned on and excited by a certain member. Not by the just the body but by the whole person (that I know so far). Am I crazy? Should I just drop it and go on with my life without giving it another thought. This is really bothering my and could have drastic consequences for myself so I am looking for advice.
Thanks

 

[AzureAngel]

You're welcome to PM them. *Shrugs.* I wouldn't get obsessed in a "he/she is the man/woman of my dreams and is perfect in every way" and so on and obsess in that way... gotta keep in mind the context. But it wouldn't hurt to just make contact in a non-stalking way.

Can't hurt.

 

[Guest]

AA is right. Communicating can't hurt. It's when quick life decisions are made that trouble can be caused. Good luck!

 

[RawHumor]

Two things to remember:

Everyone, no matter how perfect he/she appears to be, is only human.
As Ferris Beuller once said, you can't respect someone who constantly kisses your ass.

That being said, there IS someone who I have a schoolgirl-like infatuation with, but she knows about it because I've told her.

 

[nasty]

*Blushes*

I've always wanted my own stalker. Seriously, don't get too attached, just in cause things may not work out.

 

[AzureAngel]

I have a childish infatuation with RawHumor.

Raw. Baby. You so fine.

 

[MaximusPrime]

Thank Azure I am sure to try to keep it as real possible without crossing any lines. I know I once (or twice) got so caught up in my own fantasy that I lost trac of the other side and made my looklike a fool.

 

[RawHumor]

I have a childish infatuation with RawHumor.

Raw. Baby. You so fine.

Everyone loves a man in uniform - even if he's only 3 ft tall.

 

[SexySlut2]

I agree, it doesn't hurt to send a pm and talk.

 

[Rubyfruit]

"Drastic consequences?"

That sounds so dire.

 

[plasticman33]

I have been posting here for a few days and I have a question for all to the lit readers.

I am really turned on and excited by a certain member. Not by the just the body but by the whole person (that I know so far). Am I crazy? Should I just drop it and go on with my life without giving it another thought. This is really bothering my and could have drastic consequences for myself so I am looking for advice.
Thanks

Probably, get on with your life. There are many teasers and controllers here, don't allow yourself to fall for enticements that may prove to be false, especially if it would have negative impact on yourself and then lead to nothing!

 

[AzureAngel]

While we're encouraging confessions...

Sexy, your AV in evil in a wonderful way. Thank you.

 

[MaximusPrime]

*smiling slyly*

My inner child is filled with dreams that decisions in the past my have halted.
Ah to be reborn again with the knowledge of the past mistakes of life and love.
I hope that God will give my the strength and wisdom to stay on the right track to apease my child and my heart.

 

[Shaq]

just don't get obsess...

and pm them to get to know them. I suppose I'll try to get to know some peeps on here eventually....but I want to post nudies of me first....my penis will hypnotize this board...

 

[MaximusPrime]

Hypnotise?

Cmon Shaq I don't think anything could be that great. I am glad you feel so positive though.

I have bee hypnotized by her eyes and hair. Thats all I got say on that.

 

[RawHumor]

Re: Hypnotise?

Cmon Shaq I don't think anything could be that great. I am glad you feel so positive though.

He didn't mean that his cock is GREAT... but it has this really cool spirally pattern and it goes around and around and around... it makes you pretty bug-eyed if you stare long enough.

 

[MaximusPrime]

Ah I see

He has a spiraling pattern on his unit? Well that explains it all. Just be careful to not stare into the eye for to long on you may find yourself hypnotized.

 

[MaximusPrime]

What if the wanting....

isnt the best thing for me? I mean if I continue with this I will surely lose in the end in some way, right? I take my desire as unseriously as possible but what if I were willing let go of what is in my 'heart' can I respect myself?

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Hypnotise?

 

[KillerMuffin]

You don't try:

You wallow around in "what if" misery for a while and eventually move on to your next infatuation.

You do try:

She says:

No, you wallow in rejection hell for a while and eventually move on to your next infatuation.

Yes, you hook up.

You choose.

There is no such thing in life as a "sure thing." What do you do? Jump off the fence and either do it or don't. Sitting on the fence sucks because it's made out of barbed wire and you're ripping yourself apart.

Unless, of course, you're a natural dramaqueen. In that case you'll be happier jumping from fence to fence to agonize over relationship trivialities ad infinatum.

 

[DevilBoy79]

not wrong to want, just dont let it get outta hand into thinking its something real happening if it isnt