Am I too jealous?

[sugarpussy]

So.... I have an online relationship with a man who believes that he is bi-curious. We have a mutual friend whom he recently propositioned for real-live sex. When I learned of it, I expected to be happy for him. However, I started crying. Now he keeps saying that he'll never fool around with another person again, but I don't think that's what I want either. I think that I have no worries about the idea of him with another man but that I'm jealous of the woman....... or since I'm bi and find her attractive, myself, am I just being posessive of her? Or am I so interested in the freedom of our original relationship (as it pertains to myself) that I want him to do it so that I feel vindicated in the same sort of activity.

In all, I cannot fight the feeling that I am being too selfish. Any help out there?

 

[Bitchslapper]

Well, I think you should rip your (and his) clothes off, and give him a blowjob shortly before sticking his cock up your ass while french-kissing that mutual female friend (or a guy friend).


...but maybe that's just me.

 

[sugarpussy]

Ummm
interesting visual there BS
do go on.......

 

[Bitchslapper]

Well, there are other ideas, but you should act that one out first, then move on to whatever's comfortable. But I suppose I could throw out some scenarios. Is the friend the female one you're refering to, or a male friend? I'd like you to pick, then I'll take it from there.

 

[Bitchslapper]

Stupid message board won't let me delete my own posts! So I'll just edit it to say this.

 

[sugarpussy]

BS

I was referring to a female friend who actually lives in the same state as my -love interest. Not only that, but they plan to meet at the end of this year. Currently, I am not feeling jealous about that because it's a lan party and her boyfriend will be there. But I still wonder at my motives.

 

[Bitchslapper]

Well, it was a perfectly normal reaction, but if you're passed it now and you still want to have an other-than-monogamous relationship, then that would probably the best way to go. I take it he was also open this idea until recently? Well, perhaps he wouldn't be too averse to changing his mind back.

 

[sugarpussy]

I tend to say the wrong thing when trying to convince him to change his mind. He and I are EXPERT at misreading each others' intentions at times.

I want to keep trying, however, because we both deserve the honesty. I almost feel incapable of monogamy, and I sense that he prefers an alternative as well.

 

[Bitchslapper]

Ah, problem solved then! Um...well, not quite I guess.

Anyway, I suppose my final advice is to talk with him about it. And I'm thinking that since you're bi and he might be too, then it seems that some veeery interesting threesomes are in store And of course, you would be free to roam apart from each other too at times, provided you use protection, of course. OH, and bedtime stories wouldn't hurt either! LOL

...but I digress. So talk with him and let me know how it goes. And now for a humorous interlude...

DANCE, NANA, DANCE!!! MWAHAHAHAH!

 

[sugarpussy]

I get your meaning. I look forward to discussing these ideas at length.

Ohh and by the way, aparrently, I'm a horny rabbit..... heehee..... now I have a NEW use for carrots.
Love Rae

 

[Bitchslapper]

Oh really? Would you be eating those carrots or doing something else with them?

Oh oh, you should get one of those Playboy Bunny outfits! I bet he'd love that. Although I prefer Penthouse...and I read it for the articles too! LOL Well not JUST for the articles.

 

[sugarpussy]

somehow I knew you'd say that..... on both counts.

 

[Bitchslapper]

Oh really? Hmm, I wonder why that is.

 

[sugarpussy]

Probably since you read my mind since the moment we met.........

But that aside, I think that my inconsistencies have allowed us to approach issues and conversation that have helped us tremendously.

 

[Bitchslapper]

Probably since you read my mind since the moment we met...

Shhh! They're not supposed to know who I am! LOL

But that aside, I think that my inconsistencies have allowed us to approach issues and conversation that have helped us tremendously.

I haven't noticed any inconsistencies except from me, so I'm confused.