am I hitting on you?

[svenmn]

Sweets and I were discussing something I want to share here. A couple of weeks ago we were out with friends. She was being very playful and I have been ribbing her about the dollar bills she collected in her bra that night (several of our male friends were stuffing them in off and on during the night). The discussion turned to that I was hitting on several of the women in the group. Which I was not trying to do and was totally oblivious to me. So here is the question for women. When chatting with male friends in a group what are the signs you use to gauge weither a guy is trying to seduce you?

Svenmn

 

[lovetoread]

I dont think anyone that is talking to me flirtatiously is wanting to get me into bed.

I just dont see it.

I guess unless they actually came out and said it, I wouldnt know that it was serious. I consider all remarks to be just flirtations and nothing more.

 

[mattlinc]

signs.......

THAT my friends is THE difference between men and women in this social setting. Any time a man and a woman flirt, the man believes he is going to get laid.......if a woman flirts with a man, the man BELIEVES he is going to get laid. Period. Woman obviously, on the other hand take it for what it is, good natured, fun flirting.....men are INCAPABLE of this.....lolol
So all you girls out there who think you are just engaging in innocent repartee with a guy or guy(s) YOU are, but the men you are talking to.....they KNOW (in their minds) that you are going to take them home and fuck them. Hope this helps with the inquiry of this thread.

 

[Hexiegirl]

heh, I've had an experience, where my male friend would pick on me incessantly. He's just like the boys in elementary school. But hecan't come out and say the nice things he'd like to infront of everyone, so he picks on me instead. I used to get bent out of shape about it, but when I'd ask him why he was doing it, he said its because he doesn't have an inkwell to dip my braids into, LOL

 

[svenmn]

I dont think anyone that is talking to me flirtatiously is wanting to get me into bed.

I just dont see it.

I guess unless they actually came out and said it, I wouldnt know that it was serious. I consider all remarks to be just flirtations and nothing more.

That was my thoughts just being playful, and it was nothing outrageous actually just talking nothing serious just friends having fun. She felt that I was chasing skirts right in front of her.
After she said that I sat there wondering where did that come from?

Thanks for the answer

Sven

 

[AardRiven]

Um, with her flirting to a point of having dollar bills in her top, she shouldnt be one to complain. And I agree with matt that men perceive flirting as chick picking them up/being interested in screwing them, at least most of the time, and if a guy says he doesnt he still does in the back of his mind.

 

[Sjon]

Okay, well, we are all a little strange, us guys, but when we hit on people we HIT on people...if you are a guy and you are not a debonaire Don Juan..."Hello, my name is Sjon, would you like to have some coffee later?" comes out as "nice shoes, wanna fuck?"

Ladies don't seem to understand that anything we do that is romantic or sweet is pretty much an accident...we get the general idea of sweetness and romance, but the details are fuzzy.

ANYwho...she probably just got jealous, consider yourself lucky, my ladies never even START getting jealous of me...