stevemike08066
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Sep 16, 2007
- Posts
- 104
I know I'm going to take a fair bit of chiding for this....
I've tried, several times to have a BDSM relationship, most have failed miserably.
I had one though that was quite lengthy (in my opinion anyway), the relationship lasted almost a year, and yes, it was a long distance relationship, we met one time, and I don't know, the relationship went down from there...
I'm not a sadist, I don't like punishment (with the exception of a bare bottom spanking), I just like kind of being in control, telling my submissive what to wear, who she can and cannot talk to, things like that...
Can someone please tell me if I should even consider myself a dominant?
I've tried, several times to have a BDSM relationship, most have failed miserably.
I had one though that was quite lengthy (in my opinion anyway), the relationship lasted almost a year, and yes, it was a long distance relationship, we met one time, and I don't know, the relationship went down from there...
I'm not a sadist, I don't like punishment (with the exception of a bare bottom spanking), I just like kind of being in control, telling my submissive what to wear, who she can and cannot talk to, things like that...
Can someone please tell me if I should even consider myself a dominant?