am i crazy?

mojo69

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i am a 41 yr old female, blonde, petite, and a nice body.
but i have been having an affair w/a man who is married,
and i work with him. i also am married. the thing is i love
the way he licks my pussy, i have never had such a mind blowing
exper.... i do so enjoy him.... ????? should i worry about the
married factor or just enjoy the ride? So far, the ride is great!
husband is good too, but i can't get pass the way he licks my
pussy and talks to me..... soooooooo am i crazy? HELP!!!!
need feed back :devil:
pm me with feedbacks...........
 
mojo69 said:
i am a 41 yr old female, blonde, petite, and a nice body.
but i have been having an affair w/a man who is married,
and i work with him. i also am married. the thing is i love
the way he licks my pussy, i have never had such a mind blowing
exper.... i do so enjoy him.... ????? should i worry about the
married factor or just enjoy the ride? So far, the ride is great!
husband is good too, but i can't get pass the way he licks my
pussy and talks to me..... soooooooo am i crazy? HELP!!!!
need feed back :devil:
pm me with feedbacks...........
i all about the "sex"
 
Well I dont condone cheating when you are married. But if it is only sex. I guess it comes down to how you feel and who you love. Is the sex more than love to you? Do you have kids invovled. or maybe you should tell your husband and see if he wants to join.:p
 
crazy

excuse me for being a bit honest and looking
for a little advise. i think that there's more then
just me out there having affairs...... isn't that what this
is all about..... releasing fantasties...? somethings just
happen.......... Were not all on the up & up on this board
a lot of get me if you can goes around here...........:p
For Sure..........
 
mojo69 said:
i am a 41 yr old female, blonde, petite, and a nice body.
but i have been having an affair w/a man who is married,
and i work with him. i also am married. the thing is i love
the way he licks my pussy, i have never had such a mind blowing
exper.... i do so enjoy him.... ????? should i worry about the
married factor or just enjoy the ride? So far, the ride is great!
husband is good too, but i can't get pass the way he licks my
pussy and talks to me..... soooooooo am i crazy? HELP!!!!
need feed back :devil:
pm me with feedbacks...........

Hi, Mojo69... :)

Being openminded and having had sexual pleasures with married women before (I'm single) will not cast a stone! I to am very very oral and have a weakness for a woman with incredible oral skills. A fantastic body doesn't hurt either. It's always exciting when you have a great playgound to keep you happy! So the only thing I will pass on to you are things that I thought about in your same stituation. The gals that I have had affairs with had failing marraiges. They had not had any sex life with their husbands at all for years. There were either no children or the children were grown and on their own. Keep in mind your run a high risk of getting caught. I am not completely clear if you hubby knows and approve or if he doesn't know! If you two are caught you will run the risk of destorying your marraiges. If either of your partners don't know and don't approve of the affair they lose all trust/honest for you. That is something very difficult to earn again if at all. What you must weigh is getting your hard little clit sucked on worth possible destroying two familys. Trust me I am not trying to be mean. Only you and him can make this decession!
But, there is more people here envolved than just you and him!

This was only fruit for thought! If you feel like talking more you can PM me I don't mind... :)

Have a fantastic day and remember stay wet....:eek:

Jaded1, CT:devil:
 
your both adults

mojo,
my advice to you is to sit with your lover and make sure neither of you think its going to go further than just sex....if you both agree to that then there is probably little harm ( except the fact of getting caught). the problem with affairs begin when one person expects something different than the other.
one other must is the practicing of safe sex for all the obvious reasons.
 
Crazy isn't what I would call it, more like unwise. I can only hope that your husband aims to please in the bedroom, have you tried improving things with him? If you don't tell him what you want chances are he's not gonna give it to you. My girlfriend told me that 90% of the time she can only orgasm thru oral so whenever we have sex I start by making sure she gets what she needs.
 
Do not know about being crazy, but do know you are on the way to the big"D". Been there, done that - result umpleasant and truly unwanted divorce coupled with a very uncomfortable workplace environment. Back off, get licked at home. Just a bit of advice from someone who once thought a bit of extrcurricular pleasure was ok if I did not get emotionally involved. Wrong!!
 
Married People Can Have Sex Too!

I say if the sex works for you, it can't be bad. Marriage really isn't an issue. Why do so many people not believe that married people can have open relationships and can decide to see other people. Sex isn't just for the sexy single girl you know.
 
It is difficult

you bring up an interesting problem, one that many on here don't want to recognize. You might have a great relationship with your spouse, sexually and otherwise, but still need something more. More emotionally or sexually. If you feel you cannot be satisfied sexually with your husband, then perhaps you should seek satisfaction elsewhere.
 
crazy??

thanks for all that input...
i do understand all the pros & cons of a outside
marital affair... i don't think this will go much farther.
i do love the sex, but who will be there at the end...?
Me and that would be it. so with that i have decided to
back off slowly and continue with my life as it had been.
i know that "he" wouldn't be there for me so it's not
what i had thought it to be.... and the advise i received
was a great help in my decision..........:rose:
thanks ppl..........!!!!!!!
 
Re: Re: am i crazy?

Jaded1 said:

The gals that I have had affairs with had failing marraiges. They had not had any sex life with their husbands at all for years. There were either no children or the children were grown and on their own.

If its failing then why keep it going? why not just end it? :confused:
 
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