Am I crazy??

[JAYBE30]

To think it shouldn't be THAT hard to find women like this on dating sites?
I was married for 9 years.
Now divorced.
I'd really like to make a friend who is an actual decent human being, doesn't bs, gives respect where it's earned, & deserves & enjoys to receive & give a good thorough ****ing with some passion that I've grown accustomed to.

Just cause you have tits & ass doesn't mean you can be boring af.

Any one else disappointed with the opposite sex around them?
Haven't met anyone worth your time that doesn't bs around? ME either!

Thought this might be a good place to post this and get some good no bs interesting opinions, and hey! MAYBE even make a new friend

 

[ExiledWelshman]

It's taken my something like 4 years and over 3500 posts to find the right person on here.

Don't go looking for them. Contribute to the forums and enjoy it. Then, if the person is here, you'll find each other.

 

[JAYBE30]

It's taken my something like 4 years and over 3500 posts to find the right person on here.

Don't go looking for them. Contribute to the forums and enjoy it. Then, if the person is here, you'll find each other.

Makes sense I suppose. That's cool that you did end up finding the right person though

I keep getting conversations and little friendships going that seem good and like we're on the same page then they just fizzle out. Now as I see that in text it seems a bit silly and typical. Like "she's just not that into you" but when they're actions and their words don't match up it just gets annoying. I just tell people what I'm feeling, I'm not ashamed or trying to hide anything. I wish others could do the same.

 

[txrc2001]

Be patient Jaybe,
Give yourself some time. I agree that their are lots of toads out there. Just keep your eyes open and you find someone that will fit even if not totally enough.
I have been divorced a long time, in fact longer then I was married. I likely will never get married again.

 

[Jada59]

It's taken my something like 4 years and over 3500 posts to find the right person on here.

Don't go looking for them. Contribute to the forums and enjoy it. Then, if the person is here, you'll find each other.

Exactly.

 

[JAYBE30]

Be patient Jaybe,
Give yourself some time. I agree that their are lots of toads out there. Just keep your eyes open and you find someone that will fit even if not totally enough.
I have been divorced a long time, in fact longer then I was married. I likely will never get married again.

Yeah, I've been separated for almost 2 years now but the divorce was actually final last april. Only had one, one nighter since. I'm fine with just a hook up but I'm just not real good at doing that without making friends first like others are. I tend to be real friendly with everyone and I think I end up talking to much for those that would want a hook up or something lol
Eyes are open, just hasn't been in the cards for me just yet I suppose.

Thanks to all of you. Nice to confirm that I'm not crazy

 

[PureBlisshennah]

Being interesting with the guys who all just just have scripted msgs. .is difficult u see..

Really for most of the guys..i can guess the exact words they are going to type and send..and the sequence as well..
Sometimes i want to write it for them.and send it to myself..to save them the effort of copying thw crammed script..

 

[formertroll]

Being interesting with the guys who all just just have scripted msgs. .is difficult u see..

Really for most of the guys..i can guess the exact words they are going to type and send..and the sequence as well..
Sometimes i want to write it for them.and send it to myself..to save them the effort of copying thw crammed script..

Guess my script please

 

[Dribble]

Guess my script please

You forgot the "laughing" emoji

 

[JAYBE30]

Being interesting with the guys who all just just have scripted msgs. .is difficult u see..

Really for most of the guys..i can guess the exact words they are going to type and send..and the sequence as well..
Sometimes i want to write it for them.and send it to myself..to save them the effort of copying thw crammed script..

lol, yeah this is the other side of it that I understand must be SUPER annoying to the girls and make them kind of over putting much into new conversations.
I'm really energetic and silly in my conversations, like to play on typos, poke fun (at both myself & them) and it's annoying when all they do is laugh a little and don't give it back.

 

[barefootgirl69]

*waves from the south of you*

You need to sift a lot of dirt to get to the gold.

There are many lovely ladies out there, it just takes patience. If the conversations you're having are fizzling out, they simply aren't the one. I think the best advice I could give is to stop looking actively, and just relax, make friends, enjoy the threads.

 

[JAYBE30]

*waves from the south of you*

You need to sift a lot of dirt to get to the gold.

There are many lovely ladies out there, it just takes patience. If the conversations you're having are fizzling out, they simply aren't the one. I think the best advice I could give is to stop looking actively, and just relax, make friends, enjoy the threads.

*waves back* hey!
Thanks. It's funny how that works, only finding what you want when you're not looking. I know it's true too! That's what I'm trying to do the majority of the time, & I have plenty to focus on & stay busy, it just gets pretty lonely sleeping in an empty bed every night & it makes me want to look & try harder every so often. It is nice to be reassured getting this service from yall. I appreciate the responses

 

[PureBlisshennah]

You forgot the "laughing" emoji

Hahaha..yup.. you see one could have missed the whole sense of the comment without that one emoji

 

[PureBlisshennah]

lol, yeah this is the other side of it that I understand must be SUPER annoying to the girls and make them kind of over putting much into new conversations.
I'm really energetic and silly in my conversations, like to play on typos, poke fun (at both myself & them) and it's annoying when all they do is laugh a little and don't give it back.

Yeah so it's same for both men and women here... you got to meet so many people to get one right one who matches your sense of humour and awesomeness...
I know it looks like as lengthy process as searching for a soulmate sounds... But best of luck..

 

[PureBlisshennah]

Guess my script please

No.i won't..

 

[Disturbingimage]

same issue

I feel for ya man. I recently had a similar ad showing my frustration with the connections on here. I wasn't even looking for a date just a person to chat with but same issue. Anyways i got some good feed back pretty much the same as yours. Be your self, have fun, dont try to hard and you will connect with someone eventually. Sounds like a load but the long term people on here seems to all agree. Good luck in your quest some women are real nice and polite and some are just mean and troll anything a guy says.

 

[sneb]

To think it shouldn't be THAT hard to find women like this on dating sites?
I was married for 9 years.
Now divorced.
I'd really like to make a friend who is an actual decent human being, doesn't bs, gives respect where it's earned, & deserves & enjoys to receive & give a good thorough ****ing with some passion that I've grown accustomed to.

Just cause you have tits & ass doesn't mean you can be boring af.

Any one else disappointed with the opposite sex around them?
Haven't met anyone worth your time that doesn't bs around? ME either!

Thought this might be a good place to post this and get some good no bs interesting opinions, and hey! MAYBE even make a new friend

Hey,
I can see your frustration, but I sense that connections take toil to build and online or offline it is the same. Also, online it is very tough to build trust for obvious reasons. As many a men and women has(or might) mentioned the same thing earlier as well. But it is true. I have made friends(on similar websites) that I still talk to some of them after 4 years, even today, quite often. So you never know, a watched pot never boils, as they say.
Good luck.


S.

 

[JAYBE30]

Hey guys!
I just wanted to say thanks to the more recent comments on here. I haven't checked back in a minute. Life has been pretty busy. Had more potential good ones come along but fizzled out as usual. Not trying to complain, just updating in case it's entertaining or interesting to any of yall ha.

I'm in good spirits though and the rest of my life is going great so it'll work out.

Hope you all are doing great!

 

[Jada59]

Hey guys!
I just wanted to say thanks to the more recent comments on here. I haven't checked back in a minute. Life has been pretty busy. Had more potential good ones come along but fizzled out as usual. Not trying to complain, just updating in case it's entertaining or interesting to any of yall ha.

I'm in good spirits though and the rest of my life is going great so it'll work out.

Hope you all are doing great!

Glad things are going well for you!

 

[JAYBE30]

Glad things are going well for you!

Thanks Jada!

 

[Submissive_scubadiver]

To think it shouldn't be THAT hard to find women like this on dating sites?
I was married for 9 years.
Now divorced.
I'd really like to make a friend who is an actual decent human being, doesn't bs, gives respect where it's earned, & deserves & enjoys to receive & give a good thorough ****ing with some passion that I've grown accustomed to.

Just cause you have tits & ass doesn't mean you can be boring af.

Any one else disappointed with the opposite sex around them?
Haven't met anyone worth your time that doesn't bs around? ME either!

Thought this might be a good place to post this and get some good no bs interesting opinions, and hey! MAYBE even make a new friend

I have the opposite problem. I can't find a decent man worth my time. I will be divorced 12 years this coming March. After I hung out with a friend for a few weeks I ve known professionally for years. After 6 months he got a gf. No biggie we were really just friends anyway. After that I had a date take me to Denny's on the first date. When we got back to my house, he gotvout of the truck like he was going to come in and get laid. I shook his hand and said goodbye. .the next two, one came before my pants even got around my ankles and and another came fast than a 22 year old college Sr. Eventually I was like I'd rather have no sex than the most horrible sex imaginable. Then I found Literotica.

Finally 3 years ago I looked again and settled for someone I see once every couple months and may or may not have sex. Usually not. We both scuba dive and like football so we have that in common.

I don't think there are men out there that want anything other than a wet dick and gone. Before you can say uh. And men in their 40's and 59's act like kids in their 20's. I enjoyed those years. Except for the ones I spent in the Army, I don't remember much especially in order except for the names of the bars.

Now I want a guy who is NOT just vanilla, thinks just rubbing your leg is foreplay and doesn't think tying a woman uo, or at least spanking her ass and calling her a slut while fucking doggy is too kinky.

Or if you tell a guy you want to prepare for 3 and maybe next time 5 guys they don't look at you like your a professional hooker.

Sorry, saw your post. Had to ad my rant