am I bi?

ridemyface

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I've had fantasies about sucking a guy and being penetrated anally by a man...especially in a couple setting....I have no desire to kiss a man however...so, am I bi?
 
ridemyface said:
I've had fantasies about sucking a guy and being penetrated anally by a man...especially in a couple setting....I have no desire to kiss a man however...so, am I bi?

Very likely not. You're just excited about the fantasy, perfectly normal, happens to a lot of people, both sexes too.
 
you never know till you try it!
you might not enjoy it and decide it was better as a fantasy... or you could love it and id say then its likely you are!
 
ridemyface said:
well, it's not just the fantasy...I would actually like to try it!

Ok...well you said "fantasy" in your original post, so I inferred that. Still, it might not mean you are bi-sexual. "Wanting" to try it, and actually going through with it and doing it are 2 totally different things. Many have said as much and then chickened out at the last minute. Even doing it out of curiosity still doesn't mean you're bi-sexual.
 
maybe you are, maybe you aren't. who cares, jsut have fun doing whatever you want as long as you are safe about it.
 
ummmm, how about adventurious

why is everything labeled, bi, gay, is it always black athlete, or minority athelete, etc.... why not just say athelete, or aactor, or performer.... No u r not bi, Yes u r bi, does it really matter, treat people with respect, treat people with dignity,


lol (from a soapbox)

i ponder just like you, hell we all do at some time or another......Michael
 
ridemyface said:
well, it's not just the fantasy...I would actually like to try it!
in my opinion thats what makes it a fantasy....wanting to try it....otherwise it would just have been a passing thought
 
I wouldn't worry about it mate. No it doesn't mean you bi or gay. it's a common male fantasy or more better expalined as a Narcissistic desire. You see it's not really that you desire other men you just want to know how it feels to be fucked by yourself. You want to know what women experiences. The feel of a hot cock(yours) in your mouth or feel it enter your body. This doen't mean you have a inflated ego or that your vain. It's common for the subconscious to have this desires. it's just that most people repress them more then others. I say run with the fantasy, play with it. Don't worry about it.

That's my theory :cathappy:
 
ridemyface said:
I've had fantasies about sucking a guy and being penetrated anally by a man...especially in a couple setting....I have no desire to kiss a man however...so, am I bi?

I sure know your Bi curious :) Now if you try it,and I'd recommend it,you'll know right away. I have done both from puberty. I had very early experiences,starting at 12y/o, with men and women and have continued with both since. You,as most of us who enjoy the erotica, are a sensual person and your curiousity is quite a natural progression. I personally find oral,giving and recieving, my meat (pun intended).

As an aside the lable "Bi" is ok with me. If I bring it up in conversation it lets others know what to expect from me. A gay guy doesn't enjoy sex with women as bi's may. I love women more than men but the feel of a nice smooth big headed cock in my mouth is so erotic I seldom pass up the chance. I especially love group sex with BiSexual couples. I found that sucking a dick just pulled from a hot fucking was the best. "Pussy on a Pole" I call that. Just think of how deep in a pussy that cock has been and I bet you'll be dripping precumm from your own hard dick :) Then just open your mouth and taste it.

Let us know how it went and either way you go we'll still love you.
 
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