Am I Bi-Sexual?

[Nathyn]

I've always had sort of an attraction to guys. But when I tried to stimulate myself with my finger, as well as with a dildo, it hurt like heck. First off, it was kind of bad because it made my fingers smell. Second off, it REALLY hurt when I put the dildo in. I did use lube, but...I dunno. I guess I pushed it in too hard? I don't mean to gross you out, but...I also have sort of a problem because I get "ass-lint". No kidding! My ass isn't super-hairy, but it just gets...lint and stuff stuck in the hair that -IS- there. It did feel sort of good, though. Any ideas as to how I can: make it feel good without the pain, stop the bad smell and get rid of the ass-lint? I'd appreciate any feedback.

And one more thing: do you think I'm bi-sexual? I don't really get hard when I see guys, but gay porn kind of turns me on and I do know which guys are hot and which guys aren't. I -totally- like women, though. I told a close friend of mine that I'm "15% gay and 85% straight". She laughed and said that if you even have the slightest hint that you think you're bi-sexual, then you probably are. What do you think?

[Edited by Nathyn on 07-09-2000 at 10:16 PM]

 

[Whispersecret]

I'm not experienced with anal that much, so I can't help you there.

I'm a little confused because you start out saying you have an attraction for guys, but then later you say you don't really get hard when you see guys. Is it just that you enjoy admiring their bodies? I don't think that makes a person homo- or bi-sexual. I like looking at beautiful bodies of both sexes. I think that most people do; that's why so much art is of naked bodies.

Also, I don't think that what turns you on, as far as porn is concerned, is necessarily what defines your sexuality. I enjoy reading and watching lesbian sex, but I don't think of myself as bi. I've never had a sexual encounter with another woman, and I don't really get turned on thinking about that possibility.

In the end (heh heh) I think that you're the only one who can really say whether you're bi or not.

 

[Armygirl]

you are quite confusing there
but i have a strong feeling that you
are bi and your prefence is more girls
than guys
but that is totally ok dude so enjoy your new found sexuallty

 

[Rand al'Thor]

That's about how I am, Nathyn. I've never heard the 85%, 15% thing, but I think it fits. I'd be curious to know how old you are, since I didn't start admitting (to myself, at least) that I was bi-sexual until a few months ago (I'm 19, now).

Can't really help you out with your other question. Use more lube. Maybe use an enema to clean the pipes or something.

Rand al'Thor
The Dragon Reborn

 

[Hecate]

Now that finally answers ONE of my eternal questions...

*chuckles* I always wondered why The Dragon Reborn did start the Asha'Man business in the first place .... seeing he had already 3 women chasing after him.

Sorry Rand - just couldn't help it - hope you are not taking any offense.

 

[Rand al'Thor]

None taken. I take myself lightly (no pun intended).

I hope rand gets to bang Elayne in the next book. Since he's already had Aviendha and Min, it wouldn't be right unless he got some of the Queen of Andor (and Cairhein?).

Rand al'Thor
The Dragon Reborn

 

[Nathyn]

NOT ANOTHER ENEMA!!!

An enema? Where the hell would I get one of those? A doctor? A mental hospital?

Have any of you ever seen Dracula, Dead and Loving It, with Leslie Nielsen and Mel Brooks?

"NOT ANOTHER ENEMA!!!"

 

[Oliver Clozoff]

A mental hospital Nathyn? Just where have you been putting your head, amigo?

 

[*Eve*]

It sound like you are hetrosexual with bi tendancies. I think you may just want to stick to women for right now and then if the right guy comes along that you're sexually attracted to then maybe that will be your shot.

 

[Nathyn]

*snickers*

You've posted 69 times, Oliver!

 

[Guest]

Hey yo

Let me say this, it is somehting that i heard somewhere.

"I'm a straight guy i love girls, i love sex with girls. But when Phil comes to town i can be with him all night. Am i gay?"

I think that is your problem. I thin thew answer is that you are gay/bi. When it comes to liking guys, there is no third direction. It is a love em or hate em thing. If you like guys 15%, then your bi. If you like girls 100% your straight. It is that simple.

 

[Hullo_nurse]

ENEMAS ARE YOUR FRIEND!!

You can find two types of enemas at any drug store or pharmacy and do not need a perscription for them: fleets enemas and mineral oil enemas. The fleets enema will stimulate you to go, the mineral oil enema will help things slid out easier.

You can also purchase a douche/enema starter kit from a drug store that has an enema bag, nozzle and whatnot in it. Then go for it with a plain warm water enema, a warm water with a pinch of salt and baking soda enema, a warm water with casteel soap (or any other liquid soap) or a myarid or other types of enemas. If you do a soap-sud enema then it is strongly suggested that you do a plain water enema afterwards to clean out the soap or it can irritate your bowels.

Any enema you use, whether it be a store bought, prepared disposible enema or a do it yourself, mixed enema should be retained for at least 15 min before expelling it. You need to lube the tip of the enema tube with K-Y gel or some other water based lubricant (NOT oil or vasaaline...). Then slide it in and let the fun begin.

This will help get rid of your ass stink. Also, try wiping it thoroughly after taking a dump, shaving your ass-hairs or washing with soap and water after you take a shit.

To make it more comfortable when inserting objects into your bum, always use LOTS of water-based lube and go slowly. Try to relax, cuz if you tighten your spinchter (muscle) then it will hurt. Think pleasant thoughts and breathe deep. Get yourself in a comfortable position before inserting anything. Usually lying on your left side is a good one, with your knees brought up towards your chest.

Good luck!!

 

[Jonnyorgasmo]

I've toyed with the idea of being bi too, but pesonally Nathyn, I don't think you are. Same-sex fantasies are quite natural and normal but if you don't feel anything for guys in the flesh but you do for women, you're probably just straight. As far as the didoing goes, I think after you give yourself a good reaming, the paingoes away and it can be quite an extraordinary experience.
If the right guy does come along though and you're 100% comfortable with him; go for it!

 

[Budokan]

If you like girls, and your dick gets hard whenever you look at guys, then yeah, you're bi.