Am i a freak????

TommyHard1

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Im a str8 man ,happy in my relationship, but sometimes my lady gets stuck into my pleasing my ass...... obvisiously cleaned and thoroughly washed, showered ect.. and honestly i enjoy it so much as i also enjoy anal porn- and lesbian anal ect. my question is ; AM i normal? is this normal for str8 men. ? am I a freak? is my lady a freak?
 
I was a straight normal man who liked anal sex. Most of my life I used dildos to indulge this kink. Then one fateful evening I came across a TS prostitute quite by accident. I sucked her cock and she fucked my ass. It was wonderful, so much so that it scared me straight, so to speak. Many, many years later, I married and had regular sex with my wife. I was never quite satisfied, at least mostly unsatisfied. Then after a heart to heart with my wife, she started fucking me with a strap on. OMG, I became a sex fiend. I could not get enough anal sex from her. Then as time passed, she became uninterested in sex and said fucking my ass was too much work. So now we are roommates, and I am getting what I need from other men. Met a couple of guys so far who are tops and love to fuck me. I love being fucked by them. I am having the best sex of my life now.

So if you are not normal, then neither am I. But I choose to believe that I am nomal.
 
I went through a time with my late husband where I wanted to experiment with his sensations... And once night while giving him head, I started licking his asshole..
He enjoyed it... It's shocked him that he enjoyed it.
But after, he said to stop and not continue again because it's made him feel "gay"....

I loved doing it, but then again, I love licking pussy too!
So to me, it was kinda fun for me too!!

If she likes playing with your ass, let her...😉😈
 
I find the word “normal” completely useless and absurd.

If there’s consent, then there’s just what you like and what you don’t like.
 
I went through a time with my late husband where I wanted to experiment with his sensations... And once night while giving him head, I started licking his asshole..
He enjoyed it... It's shocked him that he enjoyed it.
But after, he said to stop and not continue again because it's made him feel "gay"....

I loved doing it, but then again, I love licking pussy too!
So to me, it was kinda fun for me too!!

If she likes playing with your ass, let her...😉😈
I would not have told you to stop!

Sad that so many of us men restrict our own pleasure because of thoughts — and that’s all they are — that something might “make” us gay.

I’m sorry for the loss of your husband. I hope you are doing well.
 
Any man who likes the feeling of something going up his ass is clearly, unmistakably, and inarguably...

...A man who likes the feeling of something going up his ass. Period.

THAT IS ALL that can be assumed about him. You can't make presumptions about his sexual orientation, his gender identification or the power dynamics of his relationship. All that you can reliably deduce, is that he's a guy who likes the feeling of something going up his ass.

This idea that only a gay man can enjoy the feeling of something up his ass is archaic, uninformed and homophobic.

Your sexual orientation is revealed by the gender(s) of your sexual partners and NOT by what parts of your body you involve in your sexual activities.

Don't believe me? Ask a sex therapist.
 
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I went through a time with my late husband where I wanted to experiment with his sensations... And once night while giving him head, I started licking his asshole..
He enjoyed it... It's shocked him that he enjoyed it.
But after, he said to stop and not continue again because it's made him feel "gay"....

I loved doing it, but then again, I love licking pussy too!
So to me, it was kinda fun for me too!!

If she likes playing with your ass, let her...😉😈
it amazes me how many men think a woman with her tongue up his ass makes him “gay”
How the hell do u guys wash your ass in the shower?
 
I would not have told you to stop!

Sad that so many of us men restrict our own pleasure because of thoughts — and that’s all they are — that something might “make” us gay.

I’m sorry for the loss of your husband. I hope you are doing well.
💜Thank you...
 
I went through a time with my late husband where I wanted to experiment with his sensations... And once night while giving him head, I started licking his asshole..
He enjoyed it... It's shocked him that he enjoyed it.
But after, he said to stop and not continue again because it's made him feel "gay"....

I loved doing it, but then again, I love licking pussy too!
So to me, it was kinda fun for me too!!

If she likes playing with your ass, let her...😉😈
it amazes me how many men think a woman with her tingue up his ass makes him “gay”
How the hell do u guys wash your ass in the shower?
I went through a time with my late husband where I wanted to experiment with his sensations... And once night while giving him head, I started licking his asshole..
He enjoyed it... It's shocked him that he enjoyed it.
But after, he said to stop and not continue again because it's made him feel "gay"....

I loved doing it, but then again, I love licking pussy too!
So to me, it was kinda fun for me too!!

If she likes playing with your ass, let her...😉😈
A woman who licks asshole without being asked. What a rarity
 
I was a straight normal man who liked anal sex. Most of my life I used dildos to indulge this kink. Then one fateful evening I came across a TS prostitute quite by accident. I sucked her cock and she fucked my ass. It was wonderful, so much so that it scared me straight, so to speak. Many, many years later, I married and had regular sex with my wife. I was never quite satisfied, at least mostly unsatisfied. Then after a heart to heart with my wife, she started fucking me with a strap on. OMG, I became a sex fiend. I could not get enough anal sex from her. Then as time passed, she became uninterested in sex and said fucking my ass was too much work. So now we are roommates, and I am getting what I need from other men. Met a couple of guys so far who are tops and love to fuck me. I love being fucked by them. I am having the best sex of my life now.

So if you are not normal, then neither am I. But I choose to believe that I am nomal.
so are most females wierded out by fucking a guy in the ass?
 
I went through a time with my late husband where I wanted to experiment with his sensations... And once night while giving him head, I started licking his asshole..
He enjoyed it... It's shocked him that he enjoyed it.
But after, he said to stop and not continue again because it's made him feel "gay"....

I loved doing it, but then again, I love licking pussy too!
So to me, it was kinda fun for me too!!

If she likes playing with your ass, let her...😉😈
im totaly adicted to her ass too- but even if i am alone im playing with ass. is that wierd?
 
so are most females wierded out by fucking a guy in the ass?
Most “women," let's say. But there is no most. Some think it's an absolute no-no, some think it's hot as fuck, and then there's the whole range in between.

My advice is count yourself lucky you're with one who likes it, and bend over.
 
so are most females wierded out by fucking a guy in the ass?
My wife can't bring herself to do it. She says it's "too violent"! When I remind her how much she loves it, she admits she doesn't understand why she won't do it.

To her credit, she bought me a fun ass vibrator. For a long while, she wouldn't even touch it, but these days she'll even insert it now and then.

Those of us with high sex drives and high openness to experience in sex and otherwise are always at a disadvantage in a world where (I think) most people are much more restrictive in what they are willing to even try.
 
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