Is there some weird guideline about that kind of thing? See, i wouldn't mind trying out a girl thing, but i think I'd go nuts if he was with another girl, even I were part of it...I think maybe because bisexuality is sort of grounded in a state of almost non-relaity for me, like i think it's cool, but it's "cheating" if it's with someone having the interlocking parts which could lead to a relationship...any thoughts on this?
Am I a freak? I want my BF to do a guy but not another girl...
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amsubone
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i can understand and empathize with your feelings. i wouldn't say freak, maybe a little insecure. i think it's a pretty common thought as people open up their relationship, and you're no different than most. Ultimately it's about trust. I call it the Law of Unintended Results, as it is entirely possible that the things you fear could happen if you were to introduce another female into the bedroom, could happen in a male to male experience just as they could happen in a female to female experience for you.
What are his feelings about introducing a guy into the mix? Would you share in that experience? Would it be private between the two of them? What about you spending time with another woman, would it be private? What do you want to happen? What direction do you want your relationship to go?
What are his feelings about introducing a guy into the mix? Would you share in that experience? Would it be private between the two of them? What about you spending time with another woman, would it be private? What do you want to happen? What direction do you want your relationship to go?
I think it's the idea of others for eachother that we can
bring back home to each other. A few weeks ago, he had an ancounter with a guy--I drove him there. Afterwards, we had a really hot, passionate expereince, and things ahve been great. i've always wanted to try a girl-girl thing, for me only, as he would ahve, at least in this phase, a guy only with him--I think--actually, i know, i wouldn't want him to be with another girl, because i want to be the only woman in his life as he wants to be the only man in mine...We're still in the beginning of getting "out there" though, so things could change...
bring back home to each other. A few weeks ago, he had an ancounter with a guy--I drove him there. Afterwards, we had a really hot, passionate expereince, and things ahve been great. i've always wanted to try a girl-girl thing, for me only, as he would ahve, at least in this phase, a guy only with him--I think--actually, i know, i wouldn't want him to be with another girl, because i want to be the only woman in his life as he wants to be the only man in mine...We're still in the beginning of getting "out there" though, so things could change...
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It sounds like you might need a real man
I may be the guy for you. No I don't want your boyfriend, I want you, you kinky gurl
I may be the guy for you. No I don't want your boyfriend, I want you, you kinky gurl
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Not a freak,but...
You are not a freak. Your concerns are based to much on a gender thing though.
Once the relationship has been opened up to other partners,
male or female, you or him, the trust you and he have in YOUR
relationship becomes paramount.
Can you guarantee he won't prefer a hard cock to your sweet
pussy? No. Can you guarantee you won't prefer a womans
sweet kisses to his? No.
Communication is key sweets. I am truly bi...alas never to have
put the two together. Fantasy yet to be fulfilled.
You are not a freak. Your concerns are based to much on a gender thing though.
Once the relationship has been opened up to other partners,
male or female, you or him, the trust you and he have in YOUR
relationship becomes paramount.
Can you guarantee he won't prefer a hard cock to your sweet
pussy? No. Can you guarantee you won't prefer a womans
sweet kisses to his? No.
Communication is key sweets. I am truly bi...alas never to have
put the two together. Fantasy yet to be fulfilled.
