I was wondering what it was like to be with a woman. I get really turned on when seeing women together in erotic poses. They are attractive women yes, but i am facinated by their breasts and soft skin. I have only ever been with men. My BF is great and I love him loads and want to stay together with him but i am yearning a sexual experience with a woman, does this mean i am bisexual? I might not like it if i ever do manage to find someone willing to be with me. I really enjoy straight sex too, by that i dont just mean the missionary position either! I am finding this all a little difficult to grasp really and would appreciate your input xx
Am I a Bisexual woman
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Paige.
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I agree with Tymeless in that you are Bi curious. If you are curious enough you will mostly likely move into your first g/g experience. At that time you will have a better idea or understanding if you are indeed Bi. Bear in mind though, you may not enjoy the experience at all and may decide that it isn't for you.
Good luck.
Good luck.
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Paige. said:
But because you don't enjoy that experience doesn't necessarily mean that you're not bisexual. A million women can testify to having bad sexual experiences with men, but that doesn't mean that they're not into men sexually.
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missgizmo said:
I would suggest that if you're curiosity is strong enough that you need to try it out, do it. If you don't, it will stay in the back of your mind. I also have a bf and haven't had my first g to g experience but I will and soon. (hopefully) Good luck on your search and I hope you get a great experience. How you feel afterwards will be up to you!
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and even if u have a sexual experience with a female
it doesnt mean u are bisexual and that is a label only anyways
I really dont consider myself to be bi rather open to sex
I am not attracted to guys get i have had oral with men
I find it tricky but for you to say its scary is liek saying your afraid to find out that u may enjoy sex with females because of what others thin or what people will say
You would be aperson who would never come out to anyone and say i have had sex with women
it doesnt mean u are bisexual and that is a label only anyways
I really dont consider myself to be bi rather open to sex
I am not attracted to guys get i have had oral with men
I find it tricky but for you to say its scary is liek saying your afraid to find out that u may enjoy sex with females because of what others thin or what people will say
You would be aperson who would never come out to anyone and say i have had sex with women
very interesting this. I feel very attracted to women but guess that society and my upbringing tells me that to feel this way is wrong, however especially as i have a very supportive male partner who isnt just interested in this for his kicks, but only to see me happy and to enjoy myself, this has opened a door for me to start to properly think about going ahead and experiencing the wonders of a woman for myself to either include him or not, whatever i am comfortable with. I couldnt see him with another woman and it not destroy our relationship so that is off limits and he knows that and is happy so im going to start to look at women now and see if i fancy any of them!!!!! 
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Good for you, and good luck hun 
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MyFriend27 said:
what i said
I'm BIsexual and I don't really see the difference to say the least between bi and straight. The only thing I really see is I have alot more choices in my sexual partners. What I can suggest you do is if you are curious enough experiment and see if you are truly bi or not.
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missgizmo said:very interesting this. I feel very attracted to women but guess that society and my upbringing tells me that to feel this way is wrong, however especially as i have a very supportive male partner who isnt just interested in this for his kicks, but only to see me happy and to enjoy myself, this has opened a door for me to start to properly think about going ahead and experiencing the wonders of a woman for myself to either include him or not, whatever i am comfortable with. I couldnt see him with another woman and it not destroy our relationship so that is off limits and he knows that and is happy so im going to start to look at women now and see if i fancy any of them!!!!!
Society keeps a lot of people from finding out if bicurious can lead to bi or not. It keeps people who are unsure if they're straight or not from finding out too. Sometimes, I hate how things are because of that.
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Night_Jasmine said:
I think there is a part of you that if it truly finds out you are really bisexual that you would have trouble accepting that.
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MyFriend27 said:
I was completely straight (or so I thought) for 22 years. I met a girl online and then we met in person and to say there were sparks would be an understatement. For about three weeks, I sat there and debated whether I should keep dealing myself the 'straight card' or go with my heart. I chose the latter.
Nearly four-and-a-half years later, I've never once regretted the decision. I didn't have trouble accepting myself, I had more of a problem accepting society's view of me and how it would change just because of who I chose to sleep with.
My advice? Follow your gut, and heart. If there's a girl you just can't help but touch? Go with it. If there's a guy who makes you tingle? By all means, have at it. No one has the power to control who you love/fuck/et cetera but you.
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Tymeless said:
Thank you, Tyme. It's just how I looked at it in the long run. I lost some people in my life because of getting with a woman and you know what? I don't miss them. If they don't love me for ME? I'm so much better off.
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missgizmo said:very interesting this. I feel very attracted to women but guess that society and my upbringing tells me that to feel this way is wrong, however especially as i have a very supportive male partner who isnt just interested in this for his kicks, but only to see me happy and to enjoy myself, this has opened a door for me to start to properly think about going ahead and experiencing the wonders of a woman for myself to either include him or not, whatever i am comfortable with. I couldnt see him with another woman and it not destroy our relationship so that is off limits and he knows that and is happy so im going to start to look at women now and see if i fancy any of them!!!!!
It's good to see that you have a supportive relationship! As one human being (not sexual preference) to another, it's always good to communicate your needs and wants with your partner. I find it makes for a good thermometer for the relationship. Especially if you're comfortable with your tastes and you don't consider yourself a "bad person" if someone thinks what you like is weird. You sound to me like you're okay with who you are, and that's important, because then it doesn't matter what society thinks. And who really cares about what "they" think anyways?
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MyFriend27 said:
I, personally, ended up experimenting with women purely because there was a point in my life when I absolutely despised any male. For a while it was a comfort thing. Once I realized thats what it was and got over my hating men thing I had trouble accepting that maybe I was truly interested in women and not just as a rebound. Though at this point I've been in a relationship with another woman for over 4 years so I'd say I eventually got over it.
I, personally, think that whether or not it's easy to accept depends purely on the situation and those supporting/against you.
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You are what you eat
For a long time I was strictly straight with my sexual activities but I had always been excited by the thought of going down on a woman. Finally I agreed to have a threesome with my husband and another woman. All my dreams came true and the feelings I had repressed were suddenly more than fulfilled.
I am now not bi-sexual but totally lesbian and so happy that I can express myself sexually. I never realized there were so many women who were curious to try sex with another woman. I really don't think there is a night that goes by that I couldn't be with someone new if I was so inclined. Now I am very choosey and I am able to pick and choose only those that have a very special appeal for me.
So, be careful what you try because it can become very addictive.
For a long time I was strictly straight with my sexual activities but I had always been excited by the thought of going down on a woman. Finally I agreed to have a threesome with my husband and another woman. All my dreams came true and the feelings I had repressed were suddenly more than fulfilled.
I am now not bi-sexual but totally lesbian and so happy that I can express myself sexually. I never realized there were so many women who were curious to try sex with another woman. I really don't think there is a night that goes by that I couldn't be with someone new if I was so inclined. Now I am very choosey and I am able to pick and choose only those that have a very special appeal for me.
So, be careful what you try because it can become very addictive.
